Question and answer

Liars....it is so easy to just tell the truth...don't know why so many think that Lying is easier.

What is a sexual fantasy that you have not experienced as of yet, but would like to, and that you can relate here?

I want to wake up to find my arms tied to the bedposts, my female partner straddling my face and demanding I lick her to multiple orgasms before she'll release me. My ultimate alarm clock!

How long do you typically masturbate in a session before you have your first orgasm?

15 minutes is probably my max but maybe more if I actually have a lot of time and go slow.

Are you attracted to partners more like you in personality or ones who are quite different from you?

Wow....great question and one that made me stop and think for a minute. I guess I would say most of my partners have been more like my personality. My wife's personality was very similar to mine.

You witness a "Karen" going off on someone for no reason, do you watch and laugh, go over and try and break it up, call the authorities, or just walk away?

Not my circus, not my monkeys, I usually walk away. If I see something physical going on like an assault though I would get involved and have before (though that was a man hitting a woman - I instantly intervened).

Have you ever been arrested / detained?

Yes, for protesting the Vietnam War.

Who is the messiest person you've ever known?

Me, sadly. Though I have improved (largely due to the positive influence of my spouse).

Do you aspire to anything greater or are you happy as you are?

I aspire to greater still... though I'm not always as consistent on working toward those ends as I should.

Not counting a mortgage for your personal residence and bills that will paid in full by the end of the year, are you debt free?

Yes, with a tidy nest egg and guaranteed income.

Sexually, do you regret more things you have done or things you haven’t done?

It's a mixed bag type of answer for me..

Would you approach a guy/girl best friend and have sex with them tonight?

I had an opportunity that I missed, I guess. A friend stayed over with me once and I did have a fleeting fantasy. Only later, after his death, did I realize that he was actually bi (I met his boyfriend at the funeral). Of course, I had not really admitted my own bi leanings yet at that point so wasn't gonna happen. Nowdays, with the right friend, might be more likely.

What media (book, movie, TV show) did you like when you were younger but you no longer enjoy"

None, honestly. I still have the old school go-to movies, tv shows to survive on.

What is your pet peeve with people?

When they are given clear, obvious instructions with a clear message to follow them and they still don't follow them.

Have you ever been naked or scantily dressed outdoors in below freezing weather?

I’ve made the dash from house to car or car to house many many times.

Would you rather play on a beach or in a boat?

Beach. I'm too nervous in boats (Well, unless we are talking something that's a decent size. When I hear "boat" I think of the fishing and speed boats at the cottage but a large yacht or tour boat would probably be okay.)

New neighbours come by and invite you to a swing party at their place. Do you accept?

Maybe. Go and look and then think if it's for me.

Do you have a crush on the other gender best friend but dont want to say it cuz it will ruin the friendship?

I believe from your question you mean MY best friend of another gender so that's how I'll answer. If I have a crush on someone in my public life, I'm not saying a word. If I have a crush on someone in this private aspect of my life, they'll absolutely know it. I don't have a middle ground. However, I've never really had "best friends" of the opposite gender who I wasn't romantically involved with in some way, at least since childhood.

How you tried something new sexually in 2025?

No I can’t think of anything new sexually I’ve tried this year. New people certainly if that counts.

Have you actually been to a swingers house party and had sex with someone you didn’t know before?

Yes and No. I have never been to an official swingers house party, but I HAVE invited people back to my place - including another couple with my first wife and I (we were swingers, but usually met people in regular clubs or online) so while it wasn't a "party" we "partied" when we got home...

How do you tend to respond if someone you don't know well makes unsolicited suggestive comments to you on Lush?

Ignore them mostly. Block if persistent. Maybe respond if there's something that catches my interest but probably not. However, I am male. I don't get much of that relative to what I hear from the ladies.

Do you ever approach new Lushies with DMs or chats seeking some kind of relationship or attention?

Sometimes, but not immediately. Most of the times, it's best not too.

Would you meet someone from lush in real life?

Maybe in the right circumstances, which would probably be me being in their neighbourhood or vice versa. I can't see myself going out of my way for it unless there was something really really compelling.

Does eating food off your partner's body turn you on?

It did a little when I was younger. Not so much now though I'm happy to do so if they'd enjoy it and turns them on. I just really love eating THEM! 😈

What is something you'd share with an anonymous stranger on Lush that you would never tell your immediate family?

Easy one. I'm bisexual. Well-known here on Lush but not in my real life. Not much action with men at this point in my life (just a couple blowjobs), but I certainly want cock.

What is the number one item on your bucket list (sexual or not)?

Wake up tied to the bed, my alarm clock being the woman straddling my face demanding me to eat her to multiple orgasms before releasing me. Definitely top item on my fucket list / bucket list.

Has the gender(s) you're sexually attracted to changed over time, and if so, do you know why?

Well, it's hard to say. In retrospect, I've probably always been bi. I had wet dreams about guys going back years and, as mentioned in other posts, I once fantasized about a male friend when he was crashing with me. So not sure it has so much changed as I'm now experiencing feelings openly that I used to bury (I was bullied as a kid and "gay" and related were among the taunts). But I am very into women and have been forever so definitely bi, not gay.

Did you have a happy childhood?

Yes, very happy.

Are you a member of the mile high club, have you had sex in an airplane, helicopter or hot air balloon?