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What's the song you don't EVER want to hear again?

Dont remember.

What is your dinner tonight?

Fettuccine Alfredo with grilled chicken and asparagus

Are there people you avoid even though you are around them all the time?

I’ve lived in the boonies for so many years that I crave intereactions with people when I get them, even if I don’t particularly care for the person.

What is the most unique hobby you have (assuming you have hobbies)?

We are a swinging couple, i know it’s often called a lifestyle, but isn’t it really a sort of hobby?

Do you have prejudices against any groups of people?

Truthfully no.

At what age did you first shave or trim your genitals (if you ever have)?

Around 17 or 18.

Do you have a gun in your home?

No.

What's the most daring thing you did for a truth or dare (or similar) game?

Flashed my dick in a room full of guys. It was dark save for a TV screen on a dead air channel. It was actually fun and now that I have kind of accepted and acknowledged that I am bi, it makes more sense.

Do you visit casinos regularly hoping for a jackpot?

NO. Gambling is fool's gold. I'd rather gamble on stocks or even crypto. Not at all fun to me to watch my money disappear at casinos (yes, I tried it a few times when much younger).

Ever consider using sex as a way to pay for services? Or vice versa? (I knew a guy in the 90s who drove taxis and was propositioned a number of times for free rides in exchange for sex, usually a blowjob - both guys and girls.)

No and I am not sure I would do it except for fun, maybe as a roleplay

Does being alone in remote place appeal to you?

Sometimes, I don’t always have to be the center of everyone’s attention.

Would you consider a vacation away from your spouse?

Yeah, I would. There's things I would like to do that wouldn't appeal to her.

What kind of music do you listen to while writing (or other crafts you do)?

Typically I listen to 60s and early 70s classic rock

Is the universe infinite or is there a point where it ends?

Infinite I think, at least it stretches beyond what my brain can comprehend.

If you could magically redefine your lifestyle, what would it look like?

It would be a whole new me..

Are you happy with your life as is now?

In some ways defintiely yes (a girlfriend and amazing sex) and in some ways no (a long-time spouse with whom I’m often at odds).

What emoji do you think best represents your current stage of life?

:/

What would you do now, if you had the time and money?

Good choice of emoji. Agreed on that here, too. Time and money question, right now, I would take off and travel for at least three months. Mix of big fun cruises and land travel visiting countries across multiple continents.

If you could change your life with a magic wand, what one thing would you choose to change today?

One thing, change who I am, the whole being

Is there something you are afraid off, but are okay with the way things are?

Some days I feel I'm living life like I'm in a house of cards, all waiting to tumble down around my ears. I don't want that and sometimes fear that, yet I continue on, straddling the fence between family man and passionate lover of others since my spousal relationship went so far off rails in the area of passion decades ago. Sometimes I want to pull back, but it rarely lasts and then I'm back to seeking the intimacy - both emotional and physical - missing at home through conversations and more with those I might meet somewhere else. Like in Lush.

What is the most dangerous legal activity you've ever participated in?