This or That

Depends on whether the painter is sexy. If she is, I'll sit there for her. Otherwise, the collage photo.

Rather play Pickleball or Tennis?

Tennis.

Do activity based sports or just watch?

Depends on the sport. Volleyball and pickleball most likely to get me to join in.

Whether you have them now or might need them in the future: Glasses or Contacts?

Glasses

Do you and a partner actually participate in non monogamous sexual activities, or do you just pretend online?

My first wife and I actually participated in an open & swinging marriage both together and separately. My current wife would NEVER accept such activities and all my playing is on the side. I have had many encounters and some were threesomes / with someone while being watched live having sex during said activities in my current marriage so I'd say not a pretender!

tl;dr Participate.

Guy Facial Hair Preference: Bearded or Bald?