Depends on whether the painter is sexy. If she is, I'll sit there for her. Otherwise, the collage photo.
Rather play Pickleball or Tennis?
My first wife and I actually participated in an open & swinging marriage both together and separately. My current wife would NEVER accept such activities and all my playing is on the side. I have had many encounters and some were threesomes / with someone while being watched live having sex during said activities in my current marriage so I'd say not a pretender!
tl;dr Participate.
Guy Facial Hair Preference: Bearded or Bald?
New partner who convinced them of the value of monogamy? Change of heart after a bad experience? Had qualms all along but finally listened to them and found a partner who shared them? I can think of lots of reasons, really. Could be a whole thread unto itself. Not everyone is built for poly. Not sure I am.
Would a new partner requesting an open relationship attract you or raise doubts?
The woman by the pool shared her art ... and so much more.
Lucy's Body of Art - Wherefore Art Thou comp entry