This or That

Depends on whether the painter is sexy. If she is, I'll sit there for her. Otherwise, the collage photo.

Rather play Pickleball or Tennis?

Tennis.

Do activity based sports or just watch?

Depends on the sport. Volleyball and pickleball most likely to get me to join in.

Whether you have them now or might need them in the future: Glasses or Contacts?

Glasses

Do you and a partner actually participate in non monogamous sexual activities, or do you just pretend online?

My first wife and I actually participated in an open & swinging marriage both together and separately. My current wife would NEVER accept such activities and all my playing is on the side. I have had many encounters and some were threesomes / with someone while being watched live having sex during said activities in my current marriage so I'd say not a pretender!

tl;dr Participate.

Guy Facial Hair Preference: Bearded or Bald?

Bald

Why would someone go from an open, swinging marriage, to one that isn’t? That is simply not logical to me!

New partner who convinced them of the value of monogamy? Change of heart after a bad experience? Had qualms all along but finally listened to them and found a partner who shared them? I can think of lots of reasons, really. Could be a whole thread unto itself. Not everyone is built for poly. Not sure I am.

Would a new partner requesting an open relationship attract you or raise doubts?

Certainly not looking for a new relationship, but if I were it would have to be an open relationship. No interest whatsoever in trying to be monogamous!

How do you feel about food incorporated into sexual play? If yes, what foods?

Uh wrong question format..

Romantic shows or reality TV?

I don’t really do tv.

Point out people’s errors or let them slide?

Depends.. Done both.

Change something in your life or are you happy the way it is.

Change... working on it.

Dress up or Dress down to go out on the town?

Dress up

Meet at a venue or pick-up from there home

Pick up from home.

House party or swing club venue?

house party

Fictional Threesome: Gomez and Morticia Addams or Fred and Wilma Flintstone?

G&M, as long as we keep it fictional.

peas or carrots?

peas I suppose

As I've read quite a number of stories, this comes from wondering what would be considered more sensually sexy.

Lingerie under trenchcoat or dress with nothing under?

lingerie under trenchcoat

PVC Boots and a Zentai or Leather Boots and a Corset?

Leather boots and and a corset for sure! One of my favorites outfits!!

Steak or sea food for a nice date night dinner?

Seafood. Not a fan of steak.

Lobster or crab?

always wanted to try lobster so ... let's go with that

Turnip Mash or Riced Cauliflower?

Turnip, though I wouldn't mind trying riced cauliflower sometime. I've only had whole florets in thing like stir fries my Chinese wife makes with it.

Big group gathering for dinner: potluck or order catering?

catering feels safer

Get a sunburn ''tattoo'' or dye your hair a bright fun color?

Dye my hair. I've been loads of colours over the years

Change sex for a day or be an animal?

Both have their appeal, but I think I would like to be a cat for a day.

Swim in a lake or swim in a pool?

In a lake

Blow job in a cinema or at a golyhole

An adult theater

Go to a popular dogging site or a swingers house party?

Swingers house party sounds more fun but a dogging site might suit me more. So I'll go there.

Run naked through the rain or Lie naked in the sun?

run naked in the rain. nature's shower!

mud wrestling or wrestling in jello?

Mud wrestling.

Watch a movie in the theater hall or at home?