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How would you feel if your wife or partner was having a lesbian affair.
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How would you feel if your wife or partner was having a lesbian affair.
I would question how dysfunctional of a relationship we both had entered into, to begin with.
One or both of us would have had to be extremely naive or borderline insane.
By the definition of your phrase: Lesbian affair - my significant other would have to have be a lesbian
to begin with, and from what I'm aware...lesbians are strictly into other women and never, men.
Bi-sexuals would go for either gender, though. And that would give
me pause to consider if I was jealous, envious or extremely fortunate.
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I would tell them I'm bringing the 
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Probably the same as for a 'normal' affair. Cheating is still cheating.
However, I would want to find out why she had an affair and then she how she felt about our relationship.
If that was still strong, maybe I'd be willing to bring another women into our relationship. It all depends how the 'chat' went between us.
However, I would want to find out why she had an affair and then she how she felt about our relationship.
If that was still strong, maybe I'd be willing to bring another women into our relationship. It all depends how the 'chat' went between us.
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If my woman wanted to make it with another woman it would be o.k. with me as long as I was included. As far as having an affair (behind my back) then I couldn't go for that at all. We are partners for life & everything we do we do together. No cheating.
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I wouldn't like it if she was having any kind of affair unless
1. I got to watch
or
2. She comes home and tells me all the naughty details while I fuck and eat her pussy!
1. I got to watch
or
2. She comes home and tells me all the naughty details while I fuck and eat her pussy!
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I think some guys are influenced by porn films, but there is a difference between watching some abstract 'lesbian' scene on film, and it actually being someone you are close to.
My ex wife was out as bisexual from the time we first met, so it was not a surprise. However, as much as I tried, even though I am not very jealous, I was never fully comfortable with it. In fact, I was less bothered by her flirting with guys (flirting was ok behavior for both of us) then when she flirted with women.
We eventually parted, more to provide each other the freedom we needed than any animosity between us. I'm now with a very hetero feminine woman, and she's in a poly relationship with a cross dressing guy.
My ex wife was out as bisexual from the time we first met, so it was not a surprise. However, as much as I tried, even though I am not very jealous, I was never fully comfortable with it. In fact, I was less bothered by her flirting with guys (flirting was ok behavior for both of us) then when she flirted with women.
We eventually parted, more to provide each other the freedom we needed than any animosity between us. I'm now with a very hetero feminine woman, and she's in a poly relationship with a cross dressing guy.
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I would be just as devastated as if she was cheating with another guy. Quite honestly, I'd be heartbroken.
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if happen is proven my wife is certified horny because she will not be contented with a guy so she try a women, kidding aside it is not okay since the sexuality will be questioned aside from that the sexual desire will be vary in some point because she want to deal with the same sex
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Quote by WellMadeMaleQuote by deadlogger
How would you feel if your wife or partner was having a lesbian affair.
I would question how dysfunctional of a relationship we both had entered into, to begin with.
One or both of us would have had to be extremely naive or borderline insane.
By the definition of your phrase: Lesbian affair - my significant other would have to have be a lesbian
to begin with, and from what I'm aware...lesbians are strictly into other women and never, men.
Bi-sexuals would go for either gender, though. And that would give
me pause to consider if I was jealous, envious or extremely fortunate.
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If she informed me first, and asked to have a try with a woman, I would be okay with it. A behind-my-back affair? I would not be pleased.
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Short Answer, the relationship ends
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I think the key word here is: affair - which implies lies and deceit.
There may be any number of reasons for this deception and, until I discovered the underlying cause, I am not sure I can say how I would react. I am guessing that if she said it was because she preferred her female partner to me, then I would feel angry and betrayed because she didn't have the grace to make a decision to choose, but leave it to the vageries of a possible discovery. If however, she just wanted to experiment, then I would offer her all the support in the world - regardless of the final outcome. We only have one life, so live it, but be honest about it.
Too serious???
There may be any number of reasons for this deception and, until I discovered the underlying cause, I am not sure I can say how I would react. I am guessing that if she said it was because she preferred her female partner to me, then I would feel angry and betrayed because she didn't have the grace to make a decision to choose, but leave it to the vageries of a possible discovery. If however, she just wanted to experiment, then I would offer her all the support in the world - regardless of the final outcome. We only have one life, so live it, but be honest about it.
Too serious???
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I would be happy if it was my gf and would encourage it. My wife though, that's different. I believe marriage is between a man and a woman. End of.
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As others had pointed out - if she discussed it with me and really wanted to try, then I could be receptive. If an affair that's been going on for some time, that's a different story.
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I had a ex-gf that was bi. She had a girl partner while she was dating me. At first I thought it was hot but later on, I didn't like the idea of sharing.
I really liked her but, it was either me or her girl partner.
I really liked her but, it was either me or her girl partner.
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The lesbian part does not bother me. I'm bi-curious myself so same sex relationships are cool with me.
It's the affair part that's the problem. We would have to talk it out, figure why it happened and why she did not express her desires for a woman earlier (if my wife is bi, it's the best kept secret on Earth). Whether it's a deal-breaker would depend on the outcome of the talking out.
OTOH, if she was up front about her need for female intimacy, we could probably explore possibilities; perhaps an open marriage where we are both allowed some leeway with our own sex (since I'm bi-curious myself).
It's the affair part that's the problem. We would have to talk it out, figure why it happened and why she did not express her desires for a woman earlier (if my wife is bi, it's the best kept secret on Earth). Whether it's a deal-breaker would depend on the outcome of the talking out.
OTOH, if she was up front about her need for female intimacy, we could probably explore possibilities; perhaps an open marriage where we are both allowed some leeway with our own sex (since I'm bi-curious myself).
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lesbians are very hot!!and very Erotic!!
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As long as I am still #1 and she makes me feel that way, she could probably get away with a fair bit.
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it would cause problems and affair is an affair it would make me question what i am doing wrong
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my ex was openly bisexual when we met. I basically tried to ignore that component of her makeup but never was really comfortable.
We did not have an open relationship though plenty of flirting was ok. I did not mind when she flirted with men, but really did not like it if she was hitting on women.
It's sometimes sexy in the abstract (porn films etc) but not with someone you're involved with.
We did not have an open relationship though plenty of flirting was ok. I did not mind when she flirted with men, but really did not like it if she was hitting on women.
It's sometimes sexy in the abstract (porn films etc) but not with someone you're involved with.
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love it!!!
With two girlfriends, being open about it, was great.
With third one.... she wasn't openly bi. Different country, cultural background. I discovered it when we watched lesbian porn and she got off over like over no other porn.
We traveled abroad to live this side of her. First threesomes, then I left the girls alone. When in threesome, she asked me to fuck the other lady. First I declined. But it turned out... she absolutely loved it I did this and made the other girl cum. She cum and cum just watching it.
No other comment than welcome to paradise. But absolute precondition was and is... it must be 100% fine for both. Talking about it openly was very very helpful.
With two girlfriends, being open about it, was great.
With third one.... she wasn't openly bi. Different country, cultural background. I discovered it when we watched lesbian porn and she got off over like over no other porn.
We traveled abroad to live this side of her. First threesomes, then I left the girls alone. When in threesome, she asked me to fuck the other lady. First I declined. But it turned out... she absolutely loved it I did this and made the other girl cum. She cum and cum just watching it.
No other comment than welcome to paradise. But absolute precondition was and is... it must be 100% fine for both. Talking about it openly was very very helpful.
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By affair, do you mean cheating? In my opinion cheating is unacceptable in any form. However, my wife has had lesbian sex with a few of our 'friends' on occasion with me and her friends husband being present and that is such a turn on for all involved. Just watching my wife with another woman brings so much sexual pleasure to us both.
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I think the key word here is: affair - which implies lies and deceit.
There may be any number of reasons for this deception and, until I discovered the underlying cause, I am not sure I can say how I would react. I am guessing that if she said it was because she preferred her female partner to me, then I would feel angry and betrayed because she didn't have the grace to make a decision to choose, but leave it to the vagaries of a possible discovery. If however, she just wanted to experiment, then I would offer her all the support in the world - regardless of the final outcome. We only have one life, so live it, but be honest about it.
Too serious???
This is exactly the key here. A monogamous relationship (whether implied or explicitly agreed upon) has to be based on trust, and an affair is by nature a betrayal of that trust. Of course a relationship can survive such a betrayal if the two involved want it to, but I would be seriously wounded if my wife cheated on me with anyone, whether that cheating was sexual, physical or emotional. If I'm not providing something she needs, she needs to talk about it with me, and I'd be willing to talk things over and would at least consider allowing her to step out if that's what it took. Then it wouldn't be cheating and would likely enhance our relationship rather than erode it, since I would feel that even though I couldn't meet her needs, I'd be helping her fulfill them. And knowing her, she would feel very "taken care of" rather than fearful of discovery.