There have been lots of posts about male masturbation and such, but very little about p-spot stimulation. So the question I am really wanting to know gentlemen, is when you masturbate, do you play with your prostate? And if you do stimulate your prostate, do you stimulate it internally or externally? Is it something you do often?
And for those of you who say no, mind the nosy question of why not? I've heard it said that some men find it over whelming and then are just de-sensitised. Is this why?
And for the women who want to comment, do you stimulate your partner's prostate?
Thank-you...
A very curious Woman
Ps- and for those of you who do not regularly stimulate your p=spot, drop your pants and spread 'em wide and start stimulating!!!! Why? Cause I said so!!!
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won't do that, not yet.
and won't let anyone else do that to me.
until a gal tells me not to touch/stimulate her g-spot unless I let her touch/stimulate my p-spot.
I don't either. I'm not sure if it would even enhance my enjoyment but then, until I did so I wouldn't know for sure. I'm not inclined to try.
I have to be in a particularly horny mood to add prostate play to my masturbation, but I've done it on occasion. I tried external stimulation and it really didn't do anything for me, but internal stimulation is a totally different world. I've used a finger, and I have a really thin vibrator that curls up at the tip that really hits my spot. Words cannot express how powerful my orgasm is when I play with my prostate ... the first time I came from that, from a guy I used to fool around with, I nearly passed out. It was that intense.
Guys ... if you haven't yet done this, try it. You will not be disappointed. Maybe something as simple as external stimulation does it for you; maybe internal does. If it's the latter, a finger or small toy is definitely manageable if you take the proper prep time (read: lube). I don't know how it would compare to a g-spot orgasm for a woman (outside of what I see), but the best orgasms I've ever had came from having my prostate played with.
I've got a thin vibrating plug that I'll sometimes use. It has a wired remote, so that makes it easy to vary the vibrations. I don't use it very often, but it's definitely a nice treat. For some reason it tends to be used while watching a strap-on or fem dom movie. Go figure... lol
Woman in answer to your question:
I have P-spot stimulation in two ways, masturbation and in my sex life always internally.
Masturbation is amazing when the prostate is stimulated, I have had HUGE orgasms when I include my P spot. I am able to even have orgasms when I am not fully erect (which I didn't know was possible) The feeling is mind blowing, I have a much longer recuperation period afterwards and even shout out how good it feels and profanity (which I NEVER do without P spot stimulation) I have a variety of toys I can incorporate and of course fingers work as well.
I have had women be very open minded with the idea. Fingers toys etc, plus a strap-on. The feeling is even more intense in my opining seeing as there is that element of surrender and submission. It is such a hot activity to have a woman please you to your full extent and keep coming back for more!
That being said it doesn't happen every time (much like a favorite food you have to hold back) but when it does watch out!
I'd be willing to try this.. if I had a partner that would like to try her fingers. I've heard how great it is, but I don't know if I'd have the guts to go through with it.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates Gentlemen!!!!! Why do I want to say start your engines now?? Nevermind.
For those of you who said, "No." why not? If you want to answer but do not want to answer publicly, please feel free to email me.
Now. Gentlemen, those of you who said yes... YAY!!!
As I mentioned, I've done a lot of reading about the male prostate and men's overall health and it is linked to sex and masturbation. So this is a topic I am interested in, and just wrote a new blog about men's sexual health.
And I am going to be encouraging men to get comfortable with their backsides being played with as it reduces the chances of prostate cancer and so much more!!! Tell you what gent's, I'll let you give me a breast exam if I can check your prostate???? Is that a fair trade?
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First of all I thought a P-spot was a very undesirable yellow stain on the front of your underwear. Could be a deal breaker if you spring it without warning...
But now that woman has educated me I'll say that no it's not something I do. I have had women go 'exploring' before but it wasn't a prolonged thing. Not with the intention of making me come during it anyway. But yeah, doing that by myself is a no. Would hate for someone to walk in on that. How would you explain it?
"Its not what it looks like! I'm just stimulating my prostate bro!"
*facepalms....
That is Doctor Woman to you!!!!
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In my blog I spoke about being ignorant on the subject and I am indeed trying to become more educated. Not only because of the health benefits, but also I also feel it is important to try new things, and explore new things.
I was under the impression till the other day, that the main reason men do not want to explore anal play (be it with tongue, fingers, toys etc..) is because they are indeed homophobic. I have read through various sexual forums and discovered this was not usually the case. Some of the other points I mentioned in my original post.
But I am still looking for answers.
If having your prostate stimulated both internally and externally is such a huge health benefit over the long run, why would one not do it more? I am still in some ways under the impression that it is because of a "taboo" for men to enjoy anything anal, that it might make them "less of a man". And even though as I have said, I've been told and have read differently, I cannot seem to shake this thought.
So again, (this is me being serious!!!) I am looking for your input on the matter gentlemen, because I have had enough information to properly be convinced otherwise. But I have had enough information to convince me that what I have thought, might need to be looked at and changed.
Thank-you!!! And now onto the weather...
Living life and enjoying life are two different things... just need to figure out how to do both at the same time to live it right!
Woman... GO FLY A KITE!!!!! Take a slideshow walk with me on a walk through the parks of Inner Mongolia, China. Then enjoy the tale of a very traditional day in the life of a white Woman in China. Some of my thoughts on why some men aren't big fans of doing this and still aren't homophobic.
A lot of men don't treat sex as something planned out that we wear special outfits for to seduce you with. A lot of us are more spontaneous. Man ass is a whole different animal than woman ass so just adding it to the mix isn't something that comes to mind really when we are in the middle of entering your vagina.
I know my brain is wired to want certain things when I have sex and having something in my ass doesn't outweigh the long list of other things I'd rather do when I'm with a woman. So maybe that's why it's something that never even comes up with a lot of men/couples. Some women don't like anal sex, does that make them close minded or homophobic? Or do they just not like a guy to put things in their ass?
A long time ago a gf gave me a variable vibrating "pacifier" which introduced me to the enjoyment of the p-spot. Since then I've experimented with other small dildoes and fingers; and found that it can be so stimulating as to make me orgasm w/o any touching of the penis. Since I don't want to cause any permanent issues back there, I save p-spot play for when there is plenty of time, and always use plenty of lube!
I can't really say I've tried it. I have heard of it ye, but never really thought about trying it out.
Although I have heard it helps...
I really want to stimulate a willing male's prostate, certainly a fantasy! My current boyfriend used to masterbate with a small vibrator in his ass for p-spot stimulation; however, it has been more than two years since he has put anything into his ass, so his hole tighten right back up and now he is uncomfortable with it. We are working on ass play with him to try and get back into the p-spot stimulation again.
As another poster mentioned with good prostate stimulation you can make a man cum with little to no erection as well as make them cum harder and stronger than they ever have. Fingers, toys, strap ons I love it all. Makes them moan really loud too such a turn on!
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Sometimes works.
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