I finally got my very conservative wife to loosen up just a bit. She's at least interested in the idea of being blindfolded and allowing me to stimulate her senses using things like ice and feathers.
I want her first experience to be mind-blowing. What are some other items I can use to stimulate her nerve endings and her senses of hearing, smell and taste? I want to see goose pimples, and eratic breathing, and her back tense with pleasure. Are there any books on the subject that are a must read? I have no experience with this and am seeking some pointers and advice... thanks.
You could use numbing balm on the clit or candlewax on the nipples.
Tying her up while being blindfolded is another great option. You can buy chinese silk ropes that feel very sensual against the skin and are also easy to untie later.
Take a silk scarf and slide it in between her wet engorged pussy lips, alternating unexpectedly between soft and rough play. This will stimulate her clit and the fabric will feel delicious.
Buy a glass dildo and put it in the freezer first. Start by sliding down between her breasts, over her belly and then into her pussy. Then start fingering her ass while you do this and eventually slide the frozen dildo into her ass, while simultaneously being trailed by a hot tongue (start at the collar bone and work your way down to her pussy). You can also vary the intensity by doing some firm pussy slaps.
You could always try "figging" with ginger, but depends on how intense she likes it.
If you want to get a little more kinky you could always pre-freeze your cum into little ice-cubes and have her suck on them while she's blindfolded and you play with her. That way it's melting in her mouth and maybe running down her chin while she gasps at everything you're doing, keeping the taste of hot sex in her mouth.
Run your hands through her hair and firmly grasp a handful at the base of her neck and give a couple of tight little tugs while delivering soft-to-firm bites on her nipples and neck. Don't be afraid to give the playtime a sense of urgency and intensity instead of just sensual/soft touches.
Agree with Cristina here, great advice here Doll. I got to take some note and try it with my wife this holiday.
I was hoping to hear form you DD... I knew you would have some great ideas. Mrs Playsit could be the least kinky lady on the planet so things have to move slowly, but hopefully this will be the start of something new. Love the silk scarf idea and thanks for the reminder to add some urgency and intensity. Personally I like all your ideas and hopefully have an opportunity to test them out one by one.
The frozen cum, though it soulds wildly erotic, will probably never happen as she doesn't like the taste of cum. Thanks DD and Bulbo for the idea though... I'll store it in the back of my mind for now.
Here's a question for you DD: Why would I use numbing balm on her clit? Seems like that would be counterproductive.
Very very interesting!!!!!
WOW ! Further to Doll's suggestions, I think Mrs Playsit will be a very happy lady.
I have an idea - as my Hub can be somewhat conversative. I might print off your suggestions Doll - fold it up real small, and poke it into his Christmas Cracker. Imagine the faces around the lunch table when everyone reads their joke and it gets to his turn !! Ho Ho Ho !!!
Merry Christmas xx
My interest is very peaked!!!!
We should really sticky this thread, or some other way to keep this easy to find. That's some great advices from DD and others. Downstairs someone asked about similar question and I just posted the thread link to her. This post will benefit lots of people here.
I've tried some of the suggestions herein. But the cumsicles is a new one; I must try it.
No cum for Mrs Playsit; try popsicles in her favorite flavors very erotic.
Love this thread...
I know what I am doing tonight!
never tried it, sounds awesome though
Thanks Locksley... I'll check them out.
Anyone know of other stories that covers this topic? I'm on a mission.
PS, if you use candle wax make sure you use ones especially made for sex play as they don't burn too hot or make a mess. My favorite are soy based that turn into a warm massage oil when they hit the skin. Check out
Have fun!
Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X
with nice sweet sexy scent are really nice but ice is good too. nother "trick" is string soaked in dish soap
Other fun things to try are chocolate (what woman does not like that), oranges, strawberries and the like. Nice thing about the chocolate is you can be messy or nice - or even naughty and have her lick it off certain parts of you!
have to try this,may b fun
Being blindfolded does seem to be a very stimulating idea.
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