I went for cybersex, phonesex, interactive chat. I mostly just video or audio chat. However, I cum harder when I'm listening to music and reading some hot stories . Music is very important, it helps me relax and prolong the session. Phone sex with someone who knows what they are doing can do wonders!
Had a dream I was king, I woke up still king!!
The question is what do us guys most often use for self stimulation. Most of us probably do all or most of the possibilities in the poll. But one thing usually leads the pack. For me, it's my imagination. I close my eyes and play out whatever scenario I desire with the person I'm desiring at that moment.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates interesting the difference between the guys and the girls survey they use visualization much more than we do we have to have it there in our faces
Bumping since it was bumped in the ladies' section.
And my own order of preference is: porn scenes, pictures (often times of just girls alone), without any visual support (usually that's when masturbating in the shower).
I almost never rely on my imagination to masturbate: for me it's either with a visual support or without anything at all, where I prefer to focus on my sensations.
When in bed and relaxing at night my go-to is visualizing. The most consistent themes are my lover with other men (usually with me watching or participating), her and myself with another lady, or group fun although that gets too complex once things get rolling along. Those images vary between recalling past adventures, sometimes changing the details to suit my desires, and thoughts of adventures yet to come. If I want to pop one off, or more commonly edge, during the day I'll gravitate towards a combination of hot stories, videos, and/or Tumblr pics.
Mostly clips, sometimes pics, less frequently written erotica
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There is a particular girl that dominates my fantasies. She is a lustful 5'11" with a former athlete's body. She has a little bubble butt and rather smallish breasts. She is very cute with a little button nose and she loves to very short shorts. The problem is she is about half my age and her mom and I have been friends for years. I couldn't risk the friendship to go after her daughter, but she still dominates all my fantasies the last few years.
ok for a change a serious post .. imagining ladies I know either in real life or through chat (with in addition at least a facial picture) on Lush. Wow I dont do many sensible posts lol.
after thought - ok so I am going to get pm's from the ladies that have been kind enough to share a picture with me to delete I bet (ke).
Thinking about girls I know is the best way I know. It can be done anywhere.
When I was younger it was all about the video, now I seem to have graduated to reading. I visualize the scenes I'm reading to get started then go with the flow.
Not sure where mine fits into your options. I mostly get off to erotic fantasies in my head. Sometimes about me with women I know (including my wife) but often just odd fantasies that sometimes end up (when I have time to write them) in stories. An idea for a fantasy comes into my head and I play it out mentally while I pleasure myself. Porn or erotic writing would be second place.
I use a wide variety of the things listed, but normally it starts out with reading stories. It is very rare that I finish off to a story. I usually jump over to Xtube or Redtube and finish off to a clip.
If I am in a hurry I just start with the clip.
Usually start of reading erotica then finishing myself off with amateur home video's.
This was oddly fascinating. I have always been mostly stories ever since happening upon Literotica as a teenager
Erotic stories are definitely my go-to preference when I'm...giving myself a treat.
Otherwise it's a variety of fantasies about mostly non-specific women. But occasionally someone I know will slip in there.
My latest story is a racy little piece about what happens when someone cute from work invites you over to watch Netflix and Chill. For me it has to be my imagination. And most of the time it has to be imagining being with my wife. I struggle to be unfaithful even in my fantasies!! How lame eh?
Still at least the imagined fantasy wife isn't asleep next to me snoring!!
Still trying to figure out which option fits mine best. I do tend to use my own imagination but it isn't normally fantasizing about women or men that I know. I tend to spin fantasies in my head with myself "playing" the focal character. Some of them even end up as Lush Stories. So I'm kind of making up my own erotic stories and getting off to them.
Hard to pick just one - I would say I'm almost even between internet porn (when a specific act is what is interesting me), role play on here when I really want the interaction, fantasizing about someone I met when I am looking to think of a spiced up life, and significant other when I want her but just can't have her at the moment. Clear as mud?
While I use various porn clips from time to time, I most often read erotic stories to stimulate me then play them over in my mind again afterwards to finish myself off.
I normally masturbate to the sexy stories on lush , spanking, humiliation, exhibitionism and voyuerism in which I've had expierience in all of those topics but I also enjoy masturbating to bisexual encounters also,
even though I've had no expierence in that subject.
Internet porn for me 90% of the time. Otherwise its either erotic stories or my own imagination.
