Not sure if anyone has covered this before, but I was curious what people think. If you are in a relationship, is it cheating to cyber with someone?
To me it's cheating if your partner isn't aware and you're keeping it from them because you know they wouldn't approve.
I disagree.. Chatting to someone by email/mssenger probably over great
distances is a harmless piece of self entertaiment between 2 people.
I agree Sweet, Lexy and Ali.
If you're hiding - ask your self why.
Bat
I agree! It's definitely cheating if you are keeping it a secret.
And if it isn't with your partner doesn't that signify that something is missing??? and if that isn't fixed so much as you have to cyber with someone how long would it be before you were cheating for real because the cyber wasn't enough?
exactly orion.....how long before you cheat for real?
ain't that the truth, my ex was like that. it started on line and went over into real life.
jebru, you already know my answer to this ;) I agree with sweet_escape, it's cheating (or at least unfaithful) if you're doing it behind your partner's back.
I thought most people would anser yes to this, but I'm surprised there aren't more people who think its just a healthy form of fantasy.
Sassy Red-haired Beach Kat/Dune Goddess
Chatting/email/messenger...all harmless in my mind. But cybering is different in my opinion. If you are having sex with someone, even if it is via computer, it's still sex. If your partner knows, that is one thing, but if they don't, that's cheating. Just my thoughts,
I think you're reading the wrong surveys.
Yeah, otherwise why hide?
Sassy Red-haired Beach Kat/Dune Goddess
Throws a big shoe with my good hand!
Good for you Tech! Glad to see you!
unfortunately, I think cheating is defined however your spouse/significant other would define it- at least practically speaking.
if you are just entertaining yourself and not hurting either of the partners you are with, how can it be cheating. do you tell them every time you fantise while masterbating? is there ready muich of the difference?