Why is it when a girl cries, you men have no friggin idea what to do?? Obviously we are crying for some reason, weather it be we are angry, sad or you have done something to hurt us. I want to know why you cant seem to figure out how to handle us in this situation. And if you can handle it, how do you do so?
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Pixie no expert here by any means but could be some guys are just afraid to show off a softer side of themselves? Ya know? But me I have had a couple friends and relatives start crying for different reasons I didn't offer any advice to them at the time was just there to give them a hug and hold them if they nedded it and that alone seemed to work well. Hope that helps ya.
How do us girls cope when we see our men cry, I wonder how many women are sympathetic for them, Just a thought..............
Oh come on guys, your killing me! I havent gotten any direct answers, which just proves that all men are clueless! LOL
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If a loved one cries, I immediately try to comfort her. Then I try to think of suggestions to solve the problem.
Immediate comfort with a lapse time to give the person a re captured opportunity then try to determine what else could be done to give support without pusing too hard!
This works for male and female!
Pixie, we are not all clueless. However, men have been trying to figure out women for eons. We are not mind readers, you know. Women cry for a host of reasons, including something dumb they saw on TV. If you tell us what's bothering you, we may be able to do something about it. Until you start talking, a good hug is all we can give you ladies.
Hubby's good for just holding me and soothing me until I've cried it out, then he'll want to know what if anything he can do to help, which I love because sometimes I just need the holding, and sometimes I need a solution! It's also nice to know he's never 100% certain what to do, so he ASKS me, which makes me feel better instantly, because he's willing to do whatever I might need.
I dated a guy once who couldn't handle crying at all, he'd offer me anything in the world to stop, do you need a drink? a hug? a soda? your jacket? a fur coat? diamond earrings? If I was cruel I could gotten anything I wanted from him.jY7d7gdDPnxbBMJf
Now our men crying?
He's only cried a few times that I know of, when I accepted his proposal, he shed a few happy tears, when he found out we were expecting we both cried tears of joy, and while in the theater watching the move UP, he bawled like a baby in a certain spot. Admittedly, so did I. He's also got a book series that he loves and there's a part in the final book that never fails to get him.
"A black cat crossing your path signifies that the animal is going somewhere." - Groucho Marx
The first time I had sex with my ex she started crying heavily in the middle of sex. It scared me I thought I did something but she insisted I keep going and she kept crying for a few minutes. Afterward, she told me she momentarily forgot where she was, a kind of flashback. Apparently, six months before we got together she was in a weird relationship with an older man she met online who would get her drunk and her after she passed out. She woke up briefly in the middle of a couple of these passed out rapes and once was on her back with her legs up over his shoulders. This was the position we were in when she cried. He did this repeatedly and I have no clue why she kept seeing him. She did eventually report him and his career in the military ended (his apartment was in the barracks on an Air Force base and several airmen were discharged for sneaking young women onto the base).
I personally very, very rarely cry. I can count on one hand the number of times I have cried. I cried when I read the email my fiance dumped me with, but I have never cried over my friends murder or family members passing away. When I was a kid I cried when my dog died though.
I think some people cry and some don't. Different ways of dealing with things.
In order to know virtue, you must first become acquainted with vice.
- Donatien Alphonse Francois de Sade
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av. what I would do is first try to comfort her and ask her whats wrong. I am by no means an expert, but I would try to find out why and comfort her any way I can.
I know what to do! Use your tears as lubricant obvy.!
When someone I care about cries, I feel concerned and sad too. Doesn't everybody? Are you sure these were men you've been around, or some phylum of ape perhaps?
