I hate trying to write an engaing bio, and have never been very good at trying to put up something to "sell myself" but here's a whild try at it...a work in progress for a while.
I'm 39 dreading the next one, but I do enjoy talking to people on here. Mostly to women, but if a guy can also hold a convesation, but there are those pleasent exceptions.
Yes I understand that this is a "sex site" but there's no valid reason to rudely messaging, following or whispering to me when I've not been asked. I am married, with a son in college, I may be somewhat neglected, but still I'm not looking to "hook up", no cam, phone, . I will not be posting any pictures of me in profile and the pictures in my photo gallery is about all I'd like to see in there.
I enjoy people who can actually hold an intellectual conversation, and discussions that makes sense. I know that I can be a very difficult person to get to know at times but you can alwasy just ASK ME!! Maybe more as i figure this place out a bit better.

Interests
sailing, kayaking, water,