PMs, Pokes, Invites to go Private,...
I get at least 20-30 almost every time I get online!
I try to make contact with someone in public, like through a chat room or send a message first, before sending a PM.
Most of the time, I have a specific question and not necessarily trying to cyber-sex!
But like any women here, we all get the guys wanting to go private and have sex...BORING!!!
Kisses!
Steph
Welcum!
I have seen some of the free sites that show the full movies but they are usually compressed versions of older or classic porn that I enjoy.
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Steph
I guess I'm guilty of using the term in the wrong manner describing myself in my profile. I never really liked the term when it first came out but after it became the norm to hear in almost everyday slang terms, and I realized the joy I gave and got from it, I embraced it.
So, Am I wrong for using in in describing myself?
I've heard it a lot when guys talk about me and know it to be something that a lot of guys younger and older use to describe me being a mother and someone they would love to fuck.
Is it really wrong for me to use it describing myself?
If so, I guess it's a matter of opinion and structure of who and how it's used.
Kisses!
Steph
You might have shown her male compassion, something that she did not get from her husband.
At this time, whatever happened between them, she is feeling hurt, abandoned and your simple gesture is of comfort to her.
On the Male fantasy side of things, there could be an attraction as many women never receive respect and care from a man in the simple way you did, and that could trigger an arousal in her. Something simple like care and chivalry can make a gal melt.
So it is possible and could be a need to just fuck, as we all do.
Now the only thing here is that you are playing with fire unless you live in a true open relationship like my Hubby and I do.
But you are still tracking on thin ice as she is related to your wife.
Be very Careful!
Kisses!
Steph
Shylass is definitely right about talking to her about it!
It is something I completely left out.
Discussing your thoughts and desires to please her will be more of a turn on for the two of you!
It may lead to more fun and experimentation that opens new pleasures for the two of you!
I would also suggest the two of you look into some different toys and things to experience and try!
Sex is never ending. Be open to doing different things and trying anything that feels good between the two of you!
That is the way to grow together sexually!
Kisses!
Steph
The fact that you are asking shows your desire to please her. That says a lot!
You may be overthinking this a bit as some women are more vaginal than clitoral.
Not all women are able to be completely sexually stimulated to climax by a direct clitoral action.
Some physiological differences can be the difference between arousing and triggering her to a complete climax.
There are other ways to approach this and experiment too.
I like to have mine lightly flicked and licked to start.
After some slight fingering and stroking, some suckling and light nibbling gets me more aroused.
If a person is patient and takes their time and not with a lot of direct contact, but a little attention then leaving it alone, it helps build up the tension and arousal more!
Kisses!
Steph
At first, I thought you posted a silly question...
But after I re-read it, I realized that I do play a little to unwind and get myself to relax and fall asleep.
So my answer is YES!!!
An it is for those times when I don't have someone I'm with to fuck me to sleep! LOL!
Kisses!
Steph
I Believe I am in the same group as Blaze and Marla here...
My opinion is that when guys have the opportunity to do it with breasty women like us, They really enjoy it!
It may be only a Boob man's desire but I certainly like doing it for nearly any guy.
It's amazing how even non-boob hounds can be with their dicks wrapped in soft warm boob flesh!
And Like Blaze and Marla stated, the messy results afterwards is our reward for a job well done!
My opinion? Just look at my profile!
Kisses!
Steph
She writes some of the most thought provoking, erotic poems!
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Steph
Makes no sense to me why anyone would want or need to have a second profile!
Just makes it more difficult to be real!
Why play games?
Just log off or take a break away from the site!
Kisses!
Steph
Jessica has a great style of writing and a very sensual mind!
Kisses and Thank you for the compliment!
Steph
Nikki cracks me up!
No wonder we get along so well!
And I bet it's a good thing we don't get together more often! People would be scared! LOL!
I Live by the old joke...
Kinky is using the feather...
Perverted is using the whole chicken!
Kisses!
Steph
I know Amber tastes so SWEET!
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Steph
I often people watch and fantasize...
I wonder if my touch would make them shiver...
I wonder if what arouses me would do the same to them?
I fantasize if they are not BI, can I take them across the line and make them enjoy it?
Would I change their attitude and make them want more?
What naughty thoughts could I evoke and make them live out?
How hidden or what deep dark desires can we bring out of them?
I wonder what they sound like, what they feel like and how they taste when I make them cum!
Kisses!
Steph
Has an intriguing profile!
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Steph
I love RC's Profile pic!
That time of the day is so enticing!
And I Love his priority of his family first!
Kisses!
Steph
It happens a lot for many women.
But unlike men, you can't always tell!
Some of us get really flushed and turn rosey or red.
Some get goosebumps all over,
Some of us quiver,
Some of us make funny sounds,
Some of us get super hard erect nipples,
Some of us need to sit down and breathe,
Some of us get dizzy,
Some of us get super affectionate,
Whatever happens, happens!
Kisses!
Steph
Hell! they encouraged me to be here!
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Steph
The Sybian is one of the ultimate pleasure toys!
It is something that every woman needs to at least try once!
It can be fun to experience in a party situation with other women but it is also something that couples can share in the pleasure!
I've had many fun times with others and by myself!
Kisses!
Steph
By the avatar photo, I have to agree with the general concensus.
you do look like you are in your late teens.
Kisses!
Steph
I love it!
It is always a great place of foreplay and sometimes wicked fun as well!
Anything and anywhere there is water, gets me going!
When I travel, I look for certain hotels with special facilities so that I can enjoy the showers / baths for myself or with others!
Kisses!
Steph
I agree with Nikki and Sweet Penny.
Be nice, respectful and just talk to her.
Don't try to be a big shot or overly impress her.
Just be yourself and express your interest in her.
Best of luck to you and please let us know how it goes!
Kisses!
Steph
Is it really a back-up guy? Or just a guy that gives you the thrill of knowing he desires you? You know? The chase?
Like others have said, it seems like you enjoy the attention but more so, the true factor here I believe is that knowing you are able to flirt with this back-up guy and string him along so that you are the object of his desires, even though you claim to never have sex with them.
I believe you are using these guys as your ego boost and need to evaluate how you would feel if you were treated that way.
Otherwise, you are not giving all of yourself to the relationship with your BF and are not being honest with yourself!
Kisses!
Steph
I'm a contradiction here!
While I agree with what most people say about not going for it, I did the opposite and actually set it up so my Hubby and my older sister could get it on with each other.
But! Based on the way the O.P. started this thread, I don't think it is a good idea for him to pursue it without an open and honest discussion with his wife. If they are not in an open marriage, it is already a closed subject, in my mind!
However, if they are in an open marriage, then it really depends on the boundries set by the wife and husband, as well as the sister-in-law!
In almost any case, it is a DANGEROUS Situation that could cause problems later or even many years from now!
Kisses!
Steph
I usually get very "inspired" and try to make sure the other person enjoys our fun time online!
I will often get off somehow, either online or afterwards, recalling the chat.
No matter what, I enjoy the fun with someone new or the first time, the best!
Kisses!
Steph
What Nikki stated about Kegels is true and still necessary for the strapless dildos.
I've had a lot of fun with the Feeldoe toys and if used with an woman of equal or superior vaginal and pelvic muscle control, it can be a wicked and amazingly enjoyable experience!
Kisses!
Steph
I agree that with many women, we don't get fantasies as much as men do. I've heard this in many conversations with other women and groups and it may seem strange or far fetched to guys, but we don't fantasize in the same manner as guys do!
Some of us do! But instead, we get aroused by "triggers" that are more like "instant inspirations" if you will.
It usually is something subtle and not always a direct or deliberate action or circumstance that arises and causes arousal. It can be a simple gesture or we witness a certain action of a person we are attracted to that gets our juices flowing! A great example of a similar situation is when we watch some tv shows, movies or even commercials, and for no reason, we cry! Not always bad crying but many times tears of joy, happiness and rememberance of something special.
So if you get what I just stated, I suggest you carefully pay attention to your wife and see what simple things or gestures interest her our makes her smile, then build upon it and create a scenario with what you've identified as something that pleases or interests her. A word of advice, don't just focus on the one item, you may need to have a couple things that you could interweave together and make into a more interesting scenario!
Good Luck!
Kisses!
Steph
