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1nfinitesexuallity
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 32
United States

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I honestly Like the shy ones smile specially the ones that turn out to be really kinky behind closed doors ;)
To be honest I don't think I would like most people I have standards and I like to know who it is that I'm getting into it with. I wouldn't just sleep with a random person..
Like someone else said I would hate to leave with something I didn't already have with me before hand
Quote by Magical_felix


I was semi joking about that but it does work but you may feel more lonely afterward.

The best way to deal with your feelings would be to just get used to the feeling, to realize it's a normal feeling. In the end you're the only person you should count on. It's the counting on others to be there that will fuck you up. Once you realize that you're the only person that will always be there for you the lonely feelings will start to go away. It's like this, if you don't expect it to be sunny tomorrow then you won't be disappointed when it rains.


Ha!
well sometimes jokes turn out to be the real deal smile
Yea It does suck to know that I'm the only one I can really count on but oh well... I'm starting to realize I can't really do anything about it.. I took some advice and went back to the gym I started Boxing again.. Fighting always kept my mind busy or my body sore so its all good at the moment.. I actually went on a couple dates around two weeks ago.. good times and all but I don't like smokers. soo its obvious it wasn't gonna work.
I'm slowly but surely going back out there just gonna take some time. :) thanks guys
I honestly don't know how I would feel about it I guess its something I have to try before I can say
I can't exactly say I have been with someone I didn't really like at all because if I've fucked her so something must have attracted me to her
I love being bit! I remember my last partner knew exactly where to bite and just with that one bite we would end up in the bedroom or where ever else we could ;)
Quote by Magical_felix
I'm usually unsatisfied with the size of a girl's vagina. It's either too big or too small. The perfect fit is hard to find. If only it was as easy as tailoring a suit.


You my friend deserve a medal for this !!! haha
I like both to a certain extent I mean there's chubby and then there's overweight you know what I mean? other than that both types attract me smile
no reason what so ever as to why I'd freak out lol I mean whats there to freak about ? your girl is kissing another girl :P as long as I can join I don't care lol
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How to immediately cure loneliness and end up having the most wild sex you have ever had in just one night in three easy steps.

1. Acquire an 8-ball of cocaine. Put it in an obvious baggie.

2. Head to the strip club and get a private dance. It must be a private dance so you can isolate one stripper.

3. If you like her moves and her in general accidentally drop the 8-ball right in front of her.

After you follow these three easy steps you will have a stripper following you home. It is like feeding a stray cat. They just keep coming back.



Believe it or not this was a good strategy a couple years back when I was in high school only not coke but really good weed I didn't smoke myself but it was always good to have. biggrin
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You remind me of me when I was younger, not very confident at all especially if I fancied someone. Before I go on, a couple of questions. Are you at college or work, do you have just a small group of friends that you hang out with, if so are they in the same boat? Let us know and maybe someone will come up with good ideas that will suit you. You might get lots of ideas but you have to be comfortable with them.


I finished school so that's my biggest problem.. and It isn't that I'm always lonely perse but as of around 6 months back I just started feeling like this you know breaking away from a relationship sucks lol. I had closure with the break up and I'm fine but in between those 6 months of going through it I became closed off from everyone and now I honestly don't know how to start over.
do you understand what I mean?
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Are you sure!!!
There are things out there that are seriously strange that I'd run a mile from. Stuff like extreme torture, choking, humiliation, fisting etc. The list is endless, so think about it and always take notice of your gut instinct, if you don't like the sound of it or it worries you in the least don't do it.


well for torture I have a fairly high pain tolerance. Fisting never tried it so it depends humiliation idk about that choking I've done before smile
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I don't know what you're looking for? Is it just a friend or one with benefits. Your profile says straight but you say bisexual. Are you looking for someone that's gay or someone that's bisexual? Finding gay guys is easy there are plenty of gay bars and clubs but whether they are comfortable with bisexuals is another matter. Finding bisexuals is more difficult as I've never heard of a bisexual bar. You could try CL for your area but be careful and arrange meets in a coffee shop or other similar place. As you're young you've plenty of time to meet friends with your mindset, be patient and have fun looking.


Yea well I tend to change my sexuality depending on how I feel that day... Makes no sense I know.. But it makes sense to me.
and To me it doesn't matter if they are gay or bi just someone who would be willing to help me experiment you know?
honestly gay clubs hadn't even crossed my mind -.- so thanks for that one.
also yea in my area craigslist isn't trusted for things like this sadly where I am Is like creep capital :/
Also I have gay and bi friends but non of which I could see myself doing anything with.
100% short term ;) but yes I most deff would date a porn star I mean why not biggrin
The porn star I would date is Jynx Maze heart
I can't really say I have any limits, I'm willing to try everything at least once.
well aside from golden showers or feces these two are a big no no..
other than that everything is fair game
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Joel,

I can tell you that this happens to the best of us. There is an ebb and flow in all of our lives where we feel lonely for some reason. At times it can happen when you are with someone you think you "love".

It's natural, as they say. Time heals all wounds, you'll be just fine.


Thanks for the reply..
Yea time heals all wounds... but I honestly am just bored/tired of being alone not only relationship wise, but socially as well. I'm not very talkative so that's my biggest problem.
Alright guys and gals I just have to get this out somewhere... and I figure what better place than here.
well I'm lonely like really lonely :/ I'm quite shy when it comes to going out alone and what not. also I can't really say I have much time to go out :/
I really miss having someone there to say good night to, or to wake up to.
anyone have advice on dealing with this little problem? thanks in advance