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Over 90 days ago
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Quote by SereneProdigy


I was going to say the same. Nice post Dangerous_Intentions.

But it seems Vanilla Sex can still imply a lot of things in the long run. It's just as vague as the term 'naughty'.


Exactly it all depends on the person vanilla means something completely different from person to person :P
Quote by pricklypear
hmm...interesting.

could just be a coincidence.


could be I had thought about posting it but then I saw the previous post about P.E. and I had to ask
Quote by pricklypear
not sure why penis size has anything to do with P.E.


but nah..i don't suffer from it. i rather enjoy it. HIYOOO!

WOMEN suffer from premature ejaculation. ;)


What I'm trying to get at is kinda like a poll but I didnt know how to set it..
you know kinda like how the fake docs on tv try to do but I'm being serious about it I know a couple friends of mine that are around 8-9 and 2 of them have P.E. the other two friends are regular or under and they don't.. you get what I'm saying
Quote by Dangerous_Intentions


Vanilla Sex...


As one post noted its different things to different people. I define it as a man or women that has never really been comfortable with their own sexuality. For that reason, they are timid... not comfortable in their own skin...like the lights off......have never experienced the joy of oral....kissed passionately.. or felt intense when lying skin to skin.

If your not comfortable in your skin, then it becomes vanilla when its a on top position only. Its vanilla when you overthink of how you will look or sound during sex. Its vanilla, when you have never cum, but fail to realize its mainly due to you being uptight.

Vanilla to me is the lack of passion.... creativity....not understanding your body... and or what you like and don't like..

Vanilla is sex that's expected.....boring.... quick...one sided...planned.... and predictable.




This is perfect I don't think anyone has explained it better
Well I use to have this partner that only liked having sex in missionary or her on top aka cowgirl... to me that was considered vanilla..
but for me with the proper partner vanilla sex can mean a lot of things.. I love kissing my partner from head to toe every inch of her body is made mine just by my kiss..
to me that's as vanilla as I will possibly ever get but I'm still young. for the most side most of my partners have enjoyed a rough fuck smile and as always ladies always finish first.

P.S. I do enjoy using toys handcuffs and what not on myself and on my potential partners, it just makes it that much more enjoyable.
Ok so I saw a post about premature ejaculation and I want to see something.. I'd like to see if there is a common factor with other men

What is your penis size and do you or do you not suffer from P.E.?

be honest about it. I'm just wondering

I'm 7 inches and I do not suffer from it
Quote by SereneProdigy
This is a common issue for many men, yet I did not witness a single thread about it.

Do you guys suffer from premature ejaculation at times?

What are your methods/techniques to control it?



Myself, I can find it a bit problematic especially when having sex with a girl the first time. In such a situation, I like to impress and provide the best sex I can, but I'm also utterly horny and prone to premature ejaculation.


Here are my personnal tips :

- Perform oral sex on the lady to ease down and bring our arousal to equal levels

- Ejaculate rapidly without shame and finish the lady with oral sex, or go for a second round

- Use a numbing cream before sex (Lidocaine 4%, Benzocaine 20%). This allows some hardcore fucking, but can be tricky to use.



Do you guys have any experience/advice to share? Thanks!



Man I'm going to be honest with you I don't suffer from P.E. I actually take forever like a good 45-an 1hour to cum and even after that I stay hard ;)
but something you can do is the following
1. Masturbate every day and practice holding it in right before ejaculating trust me it gives you a good extra 5-10 minutes
2. masturbate before sex that way it will take you a lot longer to cum the second time.
3. make sure you are really good at foreplay ladies enjoy foreplay and not just in the bedroom trust me.
4. be honest if its your first time with her tell her that it might happen I know it sounds dumb but most girls know it happens and they understand as embarrassing as that is.
5. Final tip is buy yourself some lube that makes it take longer for you to cum I sprayed some on me one time to see what it was like and as I said I already take a while to cum this was too much haha she finished 3 times before me and one orgasm then I finally came I never used the spray again I actually gave it to a friend in need smile
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ok.....a big ol' Cadillac.....Fleetwood


old school or late 80's to early 90's?
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American muscle only, Corvette here.


I love the C3 corvette man that thing is classic

I like the T-top version though not the convertible
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Dodger Viper was my dream car as a kid.


And I've always been partial to the 911.



honestly I've always favored the 944 :P
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when im at my home its my Jeep. it transports everything i need and beach ready!!



THis Mazda i really want but just got Nissan skyline instead smile


You won me over with the mazda :P I love rx7's especially old school rx4's :P
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1964 to 1968 E Type Jaguar Convertible.

With a 289 Ford V8 and Ford 5 speed Racing Transmission, of course. The early Jaguar engines and transmissions suck.

How do you post pictures here?


I've just seen it and that is one sexy beast my friend but I much prefer the hard top version of it
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I imagine these guys must drive you wild then, HAHA!






haha I thought the same thing :P
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Hey now. The poor dude is getting up there in age. Suffering Alzheimer's. I was wondering why I got that tiger all those years ago.

You'll be happy to know 'Snowball' is doing just fine.


kinda thought you would have turned it into a area rug by now ;)
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I'm a woman that LOVES LOVES LOVES facial hair of ANY kind on men but most especially on MY man! I just think it makes men look very 'manly' and sexy as fuck! Men with facial hair = My kryptonite.

P.S. A little side note when I say "ANY", I can't say that I'm a fan of metrosexual men who look like they carve out their facial hair, sometimes into some silly design (and you know who you are) - WAY too contrived if you ask me. I much prefer the casual and natural look that's maintained to some extent over anything overly coiffed.


haha understood smile I love my beard I can never be completely clean shaven so far everyone likes my beard :P I just want to see if ladies really like it
Ok so I know this might have been asked before but well here it is again.

How do you prefer a Mans Face, clean, with little stubble's, nice trimmed beard?
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A finger up the ass is good, but only if its done at the right time. One girl I was with asked me, matter of factly, "so, do you want a finger up your ass?". I was like, "er not at the minute, we've just started". surprised


haha well that escalated quickly
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OF the ones I've owned and driven, the Daimler SP 250 was my favorite - I'd buy another in a heartbeat, if they hadn't gotten so stupidly expensive. But if money were no object, I'd own a Rolls Silver Cloud I and a Jaguar XK120 Drophead. I think that is the prettiest and sexiest automobile ever built.


just perfect smile
I don't mind I actually enjoy it anal play. the only thing I don't like is being licked big no no. anything else is allowed
Well I find them sexy as hell smile but I don't want a girl that could possibly break my hands with their abs haha still sexy though
I like all types of girls to a extent I don't like them to be completely over weight they have to know when they need to watch their weight
Sometimes a man just wants what he cannot have.. That's how I am at least smile but I'm quite sure a lot of other men are like that
The one thing that baffles me about some women is that they tend to have bipolar outbursts right before their periods -.- no bueno haha..
and don't even ask about during their period, that just leaves me in awe
Well it takes trust and a lot of it, I mean I'm not just going to let any random person shave me even if its not down there you know. That's also what she may think so it takes a lot of trust. but yes I've shaved my partners before. I actually enjoy it
haha why not? I wouldn't mind at all I mean I'd tease her about it just for kicks but I really wouldn't mind
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This is what I drive and will ever own. It's the best car for the money and the gas mileage is wonderful with today's high gas prices.




This car is awesome man the parts are cheap and almost any toyota corolla part will fit no matter the year biggrin