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Over 90 days ago
Heteroflexible Female, 58
United States

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Like Bethany I have been in an open relationship for a long time. In my case it is marriage. We are both free to do as we please.

We do not announce to each other just who we have been with and what we have done.

I seem to use the "Hall Pass" more than my husband.

Are my secrets Cheating?

There are a couple of Lushies I would have a very hard time to say NO to



Since some would consider me to be active. I get test twice a month.

Is that too much?
Well since we do not consider the guy or gal either of us pickup to be cheating, I hardly see how Lush could be considered cheating.
Quote by MMonroe
In a fantasy world/porn film - the guy is hot, successful, amazing in bed, and its completely safe to wander off with him to god knows where without even exchanging numbers first.

In the real world - the kind of guys that solicite girls for sex are creepy, slimy, think they're gods gift and are most likely crap in bed. Oh, and they usually cant take no for an answer.

It would be nice if everyone could be that open about casual sex and not mind being asked for it that frankly but they're not, and i wouldnt go for a guy who just asked straight out, without even asking for a number first, no matter how hot/confident/rich he was. You dont know what you're getting and its not safe.

Basically, chat girls up all you want but ask for numbers, chat a bit, and be prepared for it to take a little longer than 'wanna fuck?'


MM I know what you say about jerks and creeps is true. I know about the dangers from disease and violence too. But giving him you phone number does not make it a lot safer.

I have met lots of guys and had good sex sometimes and not so great sometimes. Either case I have not lost much.

Either the good or the bad will be forgotten by morning at the latest.
I think most woman would tell you vaginal. However for some it is like asking which child to you love the most.
OMG NO!! If I have any problem that area it maybe that I am oversexed. So I see no benefit to further motivation.
I am 5'11 and my husband is 6'4+ just perfect height. I never dated much and have had only one husband so what do I know.

But I have had sex partners from short to tall and it does not really matter if he knows what he is trying to do
Why do you guys think you must get a woman drunk to have sex with her. Maybe it is something about self esteem.

You do not have to waste money on liquor with me. Just present me with an interesting offer and we can be off to someplace private or maybe not so private.
No, NO and absolutely no. But with the number of men wearing facial hair these days, must mean lot of woman do love it. If the rule No Shave No Pussy was applied. Gillettes stock would go off the chart
I too have been the benefit of a Bukkake a time or two. Being naked and having guys view me is great fun and being covered with the cum of many could fun under the right conditions.
There was a time I would not have considered being on Lush and recognizable.

Then I found out most people that are important to me already new who I am.

Business clients all told me they cared if I could do the job or not. My personal life was of little consequence.

So what you see is what you get.

Quote by AnnieLuvsToFu
Of course it does!! Dumb questionsmile


Your so right Sister. We both know the risks and the rewards too. Most of the time I am willing to take the risk. Being filled deep with several ejaculations of semen is just about a good as it gets.

At the same time if you are young and just starting your sexual adventures I would never recommend having sex without the use of a condom. Until you are in a stable and monogamous relationship.

Do those still exist?
I would think that any man who watches porn rather than have sex, has a much greater problem than we can see on the surface
Quote by alison90
I don't watch much porn but Gangbang porn is my favorite. One girl taking on many men is very hot.


Alison I have to agree that the best porn is a Gangbang, but having one is much better than watching someone else.
Never, never for my husband.

But I have a couple of older gentleman friends who will send me lingerie and ask me to dinner. During the dinner I will be asked to remove the garments if front of God and all. The more elegant the restaurant the better.

One man asks me to leave lingerie on the table, I guess as part of the tip to say "Yes you did see what you thought you saw".
OMG yes during my period I am extremely horny, the only thing worse is the first few day after the end of my period.

I am ready and will to fuck just about any man that asks.
Quote by LadyAnnWest
Sometimes I like to take a nice lingering bath. When I start having a need to cum, I will position my legs up against the tile as the warm water from the faucet soaks my pussy, finger on my clit. It's wonderful.


I am sure all of us agree. I think just about everyone has done that a few times if we are truthful. If you have a hand held shower head that can be adjust into a single stream and directed to just the right place all you have to do is sit back and have one orgasm followed shortly by another.
I had a Erotic Nude done years ago for my husband to be. He has a reproduction of the General John Pershing Desk about 5'by 8' feet.

I am sitting on the top of the desk leaning back on both hands with my legs spread a bit and both feet flat on the top of the desk.

Just about as exposed as a woman can be.

He loves it and shows just about anyone who will look and I love it too since he is so proud of it.

I found it very exciting to be photographed like that.

I have also modeled for both professional photographers and playmates.

I am pleased and honored when asked. Or did I suggest I should be photographed in the nude?

Think I am too old to do it again?
I can not understand why some woman want their guy to have lots of body hair, but I am sure some do.

Doesn't hair effect you ability to fulfill your assigned duty?
Maybe I am too old at 47, but lot of younger guys have let me fuck them and never mention age.

Now if you want to date an older woman I would definitely be too old.

However, if you just want to Fuck I could be just right
This a major modification of my first response.

Do you know how Juvenal that inquiry is?

Why do you care? If you think it wears out from use, you are so wrong.
I was taller than most of the boys for a long time. Then they caught up.

I am 5'11" barefooted. Lots of guys were my best friends but not too many of them asked me to provide what I needed most.

When I started say I was not quite 5'10, I got a lot more indecent proposals.

Strange
Quote by TheSluttyAngel
Im not sure if it's because I cheat a lot but I've realised thru one of my erotic chats on here, that the thought of my hubby being seduced and giving in, turns me on.


Angel lots of us have cheated on our husbands and when we get caught he must decided if life is better with us or not. Since we are still married I guess everyone knows the answer. I guess I am a bit turned on if it makes him happy
Quote by Cyndy
I think I would be too old... I will leave that for the younger girls!


Cyndy, that is silly of course you would not be too old, especially if you and I were at the same club.
Quote by Nikki703


OMG! You're terrible!! HAHA! I could say something funny too about trying to "Keep Up" but I won't. LOL!

But seriously, women should date who they like and shouldn't have to explain why. If a woman wants to date a black man, a white man, a purple and pink polka dotted man, its her choice! Why should anyone care who she dates?


Nikki you the one that my husband has been cheating with! That is the only way you could know he is Purple with Pink Polka Dots.

So there
First I never thought I would be married for the first time. But now the calendars says it has been 26 wonderful years, at least for me. I think My husband would tell you the same.

But the condition would need to be just like things are now. An absolutely and Open Relationship. You may or may not know where I am for maybe as much as a week.

Many takers?

Sex of course, love take a long time. But sex can be just for tonight and maybe not that long.

Is love really necessary before we can have sex?

Strange way to live.
Quote by danni69
2 woman 69 very hot , but I love giving head but guy are clueless what turn woman on sorry guy woman are king at turn me on


Danni I generally agree, that female partners are much better. However, if you have the right guy he can be trained to be very good a all phases of oral sex.

Will he be as good as a girl, that is still a work in progress.