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1nympholes
Over 90 days ago
Heteroflexible Female, 58
United States

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Quote by lindseyaggie
Sometimes I fuck. Sometimes I make love. It depends on who I'm with.



Your very well informed for such a young woman. I agree 100%.
Quote by naughtynurse


This is another problem.

Many men take offense when you try to encourage, point out what you like better.

I had a bf who would use so much teeth that I literally bled, and was incredibly sore after. When I said something ("I like it when you use your teeth, just maybe not quite so much") he got very angry, told me that he would do it how he liked, and if I didnt like it then that was too bad. Sadly this attitude is a fairly common one, maybe not that extreme, but the "I know what I'm doing, I'm great at it because someone once told me so" attitude.

To a degree I think we create part of the problem. Because many men don't go down that often, we tend to heap praise on your heads as soon as you do. We are praising the action of gong down, rather then the actual process. So many men then think that the way they are doing it is right, it must be for the woman to have praised you so right? or they apply a one style fits all template to all women.


This may be a lot of the problem, but the other part is we may not convey to our guy that we are not all the same. Therefore what Janie likes may not be just right for Alice.

My guy is great at oral sex, but this was not always the case. but we have good communication and I love this style.

Ladies if your guys does not want to pleasure just a much as he wants pleasure maybe you still need to look for the right guy.

Sometimes, especially when we have had great sex the night before and he is going to be away for a day or more. I do not like early mornings, but before he leaves he will throw the blanket back spread my legs and go down on me and give me a beautiful orgasm, then kiss me, cover me up again and tell me that was so I will not forget him while he was gone.

Now that is how I like to wake in the morning.
Females generally are more adapt at cunnilingus. However if he is a man that cares about you he can be trained to do wonderful thing for you.

If he is not interested in learning maybe you should think about throwing that one back and to fish further up the stream.
Quote by TheDevilsWeakness
Sometimes guys are just too impatient.
Switching back and forth between fingers, tongue, pressure on different areas is all fine and dandy but when it really matters a guy will switch things up, at the wrong moment, at last possible second and then the moment is lost.

Not cool... Not cool at all.




Ms Devil I had planned to comment but after that what do I say.
I don't care for it a great deal and some men comment more than any woman.

Having said that there is time when am mans comment is very useful. As he explains why men may do or react to a situation as they do. This could be of benefit all.
Oh yes I have and I take no offense to it. Especially now as the years go by it is nice to know I still have it.

When I was in college I worked a couple of days a week in San Francisco and would walk by a construction job at lunch time. You know those guys can really let you know it you have it or not.

From their reaction I guess I had it then
Whether he is Bi or Gay will make any difference in your friendship?

If I were asked to state an opinion, I would think he will announce one day that he is Gay. But while it is much easier now than in the past we still have not fully accepted Gays. Just give him time he will tell what you need to know when you need to know it.
Quote by SexySophie

I'm sure I've answered this question before - however. Back in my home town I was friendly with - and had sex with - three guys whom I'd known from school days. Just the once it transpired we all got together and sex happened with all three of them - one after the other. By the time the third had ejaculated inside me the first was ready again - and so it went on for hours.

It was magic ... I lost track of my orgasms and the cocktail of sperm from repeated ejaculations inside me felt so good and spilled out everywhere soaking my bed and gushing down my legs like a waterfall when I dared to stand up - eventually.

I'd say it wasn't just a turn on to have multiple sperm inside me - more an unmissable experience which still turns me on - when I think of it - to this day.


Honey you have it just about right. I know there are a whole world of girls who still think it is supposed to be just one guy ejaculating in one girl. But then there are woman like me at are really turned on by more than one man, and more then that and still more is just fine.
I think you meant to ask "How many ladies like to wake up to digital stimulation"?

I hate the morning unless they are for sleeping.

But Damn I do love to wake almost to an orgasm.

Oh Yes Oh yes.
I have, but it was not such a thrill for me. I am much more of a exhibitionist than a voyeur. But other would agree with you I know.
Quote by LadyX


Yes


Do you think that made his low self-esteem go up LadyX?
Never tried Baby Oil but Adult Oil, like Ginger, Gardenia or Jasmine is great fun, even better in a group if all can decide on one scent. hehehe
I do like cum from either sex. I don't remember finding it objectionable even in my earliest days. So I must have like it OK
At a party and a party just for sex an large number is wonderful. I am not sure how many are too many, but it is an interesting subject to explore.
Quote by Mtybg
I'm a 74% slut . before joining Lush I was a 40% slut.....is there some correlation here?? smile


Are you concerned it is to low or too high? One day when you are not busy with your friends stop by and we can discuss the subject Mtybg. That is a different name?
Some of each, but when guys start off you wanna fuck. Or has an attitude that send the same message. Well it is a very short subject.
Quote by Dancing_Doll
No. I've been really horny before where it's constantly on my mind but not to the point where I totally lose control and start humping a sofa-leg or jump the mailman etc.



Ashleigh you know we are not going to believe that we have all seen your mail man and he is hot. Beside he kisses and tells.
Just wherever there are people. It does not mean that there is going to be action right away.

It could be a coffee shop or restaurant, it could be the cleaners or the grocery store. It could be at a club or party, if anyone will believe that.

I believe, we all put out a sexual scent, but only certain people will pick it up. Could that explain how we can be so attracted to one person and not another?
I thought you were going to tell someone like me how to pickup a girl. Not so easy you know.

Never have had any problem picking up guys but girls are just different. And in more ways than you guys have on your minds.
Quote by Nikki703


Girls kissing Girls? My God what is the world coming to!!


Nikki girls kissing girls if you have missed out come by for a test run.
I have been with lots of guys, but why would the shade of their skin be an issue?
No in every language possible.

My profile says you will be deleted if you send unsolicited cock pictures and still they arrive in my inbox daily.

I continue to delete them everyday.

Maybe it is my fault could I be more clear or could it be those poor dear guys on Lush can not read?

No that could not be the answer.
Quote by dpw

What, and risk the hollandaise splitting or the bernaise catching! I've got a soufflee that needs watching and the creme anglaise still to make! We can play later.


I understand what you are saying and why you say it.

But there are time I just can not wait another minute, how about you dpw
That's a different question.

Just about anytime an interestingl person comes along.

Masturbation, just about anytime I need to and that is fairly frequently, unless the Belle of the South is visiting and then Masturbation is not necessary at all. We always have sex first thing in the morning/

Maybe that is the perfect time Lover
I do not want real pain, but will tolerate a bit of discomfort from a man I trust.

Seems to me that rough makes me feel like a pure Slut and he is using me for his pleasure like I should be.

Then for that special man. sweet and tender sex can be wonderful too.
Yes I have and as you say it can be complicated.

Even complicated to define the issues.
I love a guy to cook for me. Even if it's just pasta and a salad. Lots of time the sauces seems to have come out of a jar.

However there are other guys who really cook for you from scratch right in front of you.

Maybe best is when you cook together. You know cook a little and play a little and then cook some more.