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1nympholes
Over 90 days ago
Heteroflexible Female, 58
United States

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I know we are all different and have different needs. However at the same time few men really know what they need to do to give the lady the pleasure she needs.

Hope some woman taught you what you need to know to please a woman.

Now the contradiction, just because have satisfied the last 5 woman, it does not mean the same will do the job with the next.

Ever heard the word communication? If you know her well enough to that intimate with her don't you think you could ask "What can I do to make it better for you?"
I have participated in threesome and foursomes andf orgys too. They are all fun and if you are planning a party of this nature I would love to be invited. But a good gangbang will always be my favorite.
Shawna hit most of the high points. I do like nipple really abused, well some at least. It seems to run directly to my clitoris. But that is me and most of you may be differnet
Kids clue me in is this still the 14th Century! Do we have to hide our sources of sexual pleasure still?
Darn I knew there was something I had missed. Yes, sounds very wierd and kinky and where do I sign up?
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Ahhhh...all the time! And guess what? I even still have SEX with my partner whilst on my period! It's all good in my books smile


What Belle said.
I am sure every sexually active woman has done that at one time or another. Then had to worry about decease or pregnancy for a while!
The right music, like soft rock or cool jazz and just the right Country will keep my libido at a high level.
I have done a couple of super-sized guys, no I did not measure either.

I found one guy, who was the largest ever I could do and have fun doing it. However, he had to give me all the control and let me get very relaxed and accept his sized slowly and allow my body to adjust.

Would I do him again "Oh Yes" every day? I think I will pass. A nice 8 to 9+ fits everywhere and feels so good.
I have never told a guy/couple or been offered so much money for this sexual pleasure and not sure I ever would.

I have been referred a new friend by other friends and have accepted cash to show their appreciation. More than once or twice.

In my mind, this is different than money for sex. However, I know there are many who would disagree.

Xuani, says "Think long and hard before you cross this line, because once crossed there is no returning. I would agree, however at the same time I have no regrets and would do the same thing again the next time through life.
I thought I was from Venus like all the rest of my sisters. But the responses many of you made are , about comfort, appeal and the cost: So maybe I am from Mars like all the guys.

If he went to WalMart or Target and bought me plain cotton panties and a bra, I would not be pleased at all.

But if he went to that "Classiest Lingerie Shop" and bought something hot and sexy for his woman, at least he thought it was hot and sexy. If it fits great, if you like as much as he did better yet. He is really saying to you "I love you so much and your are the hotest and sexiest chick around!" What girl would not want to hear those things.

Remember how non verbal men are at best. Is that not our complaint?

I promise you will both get a great gift from this great gift.

If you can not wear it, does it matter you already got the greatest gift a man can give a woman.

If it does not fit or you do not like it as all and it is too expensive just to sit in you dresser drawer. Maybe you could exchange it. Do they let men join women in the lingerie dressing room?.

This could be the gift that just keeps on giving, girls.
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Sounds to me like she has a guy and/or girl already picked out for her adventure. And if you say no chances are she is gonna do it anyhow. Her asking you may be to aleviate any guilt she me feel afterward.

What ever you decide, you have a talk with her about it. Ask her if this is going to be a one time thing or will she be asking for "hall passes" again. And do you get on too, assuming you want one that is. If it really is a one time thing and you can both go off and have a sexual adventure with no regrets, then it can actually make your relationship stronger. But it is a very slippery slope. After all is said and done you have decide what is best for you. Good Luck!


Hall Pass or not if you were the one Nikki I had picked out I would be playing hookey.
That is pretty much the life my husband and I lived. We each had permission to go and do whatever we wanted. I did a lot more than he did.

The answer is not how others deal with these issues, it is how you two would respond and how it would impact your marriage.

What if she went out and had sex with several men or what if she had sex with a beautiful girl? The pretty girl was our issue

He had no problem with me having sex with men, but girls were a different story

Good luck to both of you what ever you decide.
Oh my god yes Pass Me, but if your are going to pass me be damned sure they are going to Fuck Me and Suck Me also.
Unless the girl is MS Shy, I cannot think of any reason she would not want to watch either being pleasured or pleasuring herself. I certainly benefit for mirrors in my bedroom with a partner or alone.
No faster way to be deleted. If she is still in her teens or early 20s, she may like it. However, if she is really a woman and has been with more than a few men. I am sure she knows what it looks like and how to use it.
Lots of good replies above me. But so many things can draw a woman into sexual interest for a man or girl.

I have been chatting with a man much too young for me, but I have no age bias. We have talked about fly fishing, school and career opportunities and where he will want to applies his skills. So there has been no sex real or fantasy.

But he is so warm and pleasant and handsome too, if he were to whisper some sweet nothings in my ear, I know I would melt in his arms and he could have me any way he wants.
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From what I have read maybe it is time that you could have a break from your daughter even just for a few hours so you two can spend some alone time.

Maybe get grandma to babysit her and you two start slow maybe go out for a romantic meal. Sit and talk like the old days. You could talk about the fun times you had before getting married or having baby.

I"m certain your wife is also feeling like your relationship feels like being roomates looking after a toddler. Maybe she is snapping because she is feeling fraustrated and hasn't had any alone time to herself so she feels like her old normal self. Once she became a mother, she has lost some of her identity. Now life revolves around your little one.

I just got a great idea. Have grandparents or someone you trust look after your daughter for a night. Plan a surpise for your wife.

Cook her a meal, lavish her. When you finish dinner/dessert. Take her to the bathroom, run her a bath or shower and wash her. After that give her a massage and then make love. Tell her how happy you are with her. What an incredible woman she is. (Make sure not to mention your daughter).

You never know she will be so thankful for the attention smile


I do not have kids, but have friends that do. MarySweet advice is great. However could you need professional help with this little one who maybe just as frustrated as Mom and Dad are.
Lush Sisters some of your answer are clever and funny, some were serious too.

Some say this thread has come up again and again.

This I promise if we continue to answer some idiot will ask again and again.
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Who is this devil that keeps following me around Lush?
Just be open and friendly and ask her about things that matter. Let her know you are interested in her not only trying to get between her legs.

I do not know about all the other woman out there, but you will have my attention.
If you cross your legs exactly right and swing your leg again just right you can cum without anyone being the wiser. Except for the days, you want everyone to know.
Would it have been more informational if you asked which women do not taste themselves?
There you went and did it again Nikki you always get to post the best answer first. If you were not loved by so many we could be really upset.

Maybe it is just the time difference
It is probably more how you lover says it than what this person actually says.
I almost never wear panties with a dress or skirt. Seem to defeat the purpose. Unless one of my gentlemen friends want me to wear lingerie, I would be much happier without all the restrictions.
I travel a good bit and I too have had far too many meals alone.

If you are interesting and maybe we chatted for a few minutes, I would like to have diner with someone of interest.

That does not mean to Fuck Later! But it does not mean I would not share my room with him or her either.
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It depends but usually several times a week, it always makes me so horny..


OMG I would like to have that ass. Everyone listening I would like to have that ass!!!!!