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1nympholes
Over 90 days ago
Heteroflexible Female, 58
United States

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Has not everyone at least once. I think it is great fun, now if I can only find a partner.!
It is just like the girl in Micro Mini Bikini who is 30 pounds over weight. Damn yes if you have the body for it. I see a guy once in a while at the beach not in a Speedo, but something that looks like it is painted on. Oh yes yes
When I was married we belonged to several clubs over the years. I promise you that I enjoyed it as much as any of the men there. We are long past the years when women are not allowed to want and enjoy sex as much as any man.

Before you ask if I was in a relationship I would be very interested in the right club.
Once or maybe a few times and I do love it, what a wonderful way to wake up in the morning.

The only problem is that most times you still have to get up and go to work just the same.
Seems to me that this is about the most dangerous sexual adventure you could possible find.

Even if you have an Open Marriage, I am sure your wife did not intend it to apply to her little sister. Go ahead and enjoy the fruits of this girl, but if you do plan to have your wife walk and with complete justification.

This is not like meeting a hottie a the bar and things get out of control, this is family.
What ever amount of noise he/she needs to express the feeling that is running through their body.

Why would you care unless there is a privacy issue.
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Just a reminder, the category/fantasies/discussion is not allowed to be discussed in the forums.

HighDesert, not all women have fantasies. Yes, the majority of women do, and as 1ball says, reading some of the stories will help.

Perhaps your lass is very, very shy, or too embarassed to share what she like. Maybe she doesn't know what she likes. Maybe she only wants to make you happy, and sharing your fantasies is what she wants. Perhaps she isn't comfortable doing it, and would rather just have fun as you are in real life.

Why not actually say what you concern is to her, that you are worried you aren't meeting her needs, or fulfilling her fantasy? Or have you considered that she's telling the truth, and she does like what you;re coming up with? (arf arf)

Maybe you could let her read some of the stories on here, and see if she likes them? And then offer to act out one with her? Or you could watch some porn together and see if she likes that?

Perhaps you could get her to write some key words that make her feel wiggly? And then see if you can create a scenario based around that?

I don't know very much about lads' sexual fantasies, but I do think the only difference between men and women's fantasies, generally, is the sex of the person creating it. People are widely varied in their tastes (in more ways than one, ha ha), and what works for one might not for another, no matter if they are the same sex or not.

I can not put a fantasy in in Forum, but I see lots of in stories. Why the double standard?

I think it's wonderful you are worried about whether she is getting what she needs, but I do think that if she isn't forthcoming with any details, then trying to understand why that is, rather than just trying to coax some out of her or blindly trying to find them, may not be the way forward.

My own fantasy is very simple. Guy fancies me, wants to be with me, does rudies with me. It's that simple. Other friends I have on here have much more intricate fantasies, which no doubt they will be happy to share with you, if they haven't already through their stories.
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as a bi- sexual woman in her 40's, I enjoy sex way more now, more relaxed, more experiance, I know myself now and have sexual freedom I never had before, I am horny all the time now and want sex everyday if I could.


I am not 40 yet , but getting close. I am always ready and I have been in this state since I was a teen. My sexual need has not gone down a bit since the 20's. If I do not get some action soon I will go over to Two Pussys House.
Been with lots of guys even in my early years. Some were very unskilled so who knows.
I love cum in any hole you can find and they are all available. That is if you like a choice.

But if you are going to cum on my boobs like 1z suggests, please bring some friends because if you cum is not in a hole I want a lot more that one guys will be able to supply
Oh Goodness yes, when I was married almost all a the time. Especially someone that was completely .

Now that I am free to be who I am and with who I want not so much. However I am sure there will be times.
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omg thats my favorite part too!!! biggrin


But it so much better to start with a completely flaccid cock and kiss, lick and suck that beautiful piece of maleness to its full glory.
I thought I was fully informed about oral pleasures. Is there really supposed to be a time limit?

As long as I am enjoying it and he is doing the same why should not take as much of the evening as is pleasurable.

I promise guys I am more than will to suck your cock as long as you like it.
Oh God how could any one not like it? In fact, I think most everyone, certainly everyone who is a Lush Member has tried it on themselves or had their playmate add this wonderful pleasure to traditional vaginal sex. That may not be true for you guys.
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Ripe mangoes are the most sensual food, in my opinion - especially just letting the juices drip down your chin. You could have the juices be dripping down the girl's neck and breasts and the guy licking them off her. Oysters are high on the sensual-list too.

You could also try:

- Milk spilled over the body
- Popsicles in the pussy or ass
- Honey sucked off the clit or nipples
- Shots of alcohol out of the bellybutton or body shots along the neck
- Alcohol, champagne or wine splashed over the body and then licked off
- An ice-cream body sundae in the bathtub

I guess any food can be sensual/erotic depending on how it's used.


Dancing right on the mark as usual. but may I add papaya to the mango with just a bit of the honey and run it a few seconds in you food processor. You should end up with something that is not a paste, nor a liquid, but something that will stay in place until your lover can lick every last drop off your demanding body.
I agrre with most of the ladies, if in a public place and time could be an issue whatever it takes to get into me is just fine.

But if he really wants sex and continuing sex with this woman I expect him to be just as bare as I am. Yes from head to toe including boxes and socks, what ever color.
Are you jerking our chain.? I can't believe anyone would be counting just prior to orgasm!

Well maybe if you have very small climax.
I have never been bullied and I guess I must send the message that I will not stand for it, what ever it takes.

I know that is not a thing that eveyone can project. I would like to tell you to refuse to accept that kind of behavior. But that i s not a solution.

What about some of the Marshall Arts that build self esteem which you can then project.

May be a path for you to consider.
No sure I could handle that. If I knew a guy cross dressed when he was not with maybe that would be different. I could only try.
Oh yes, I think I would. It would be nice to know how the guys feel, it would be nice to fuck some bitch just to fuck and not care what happened after, It would be nice to brag how big I am, even if it is not true.

But just for not more than a day. I like being a girl, who is trying to take the world like a man would.
I really do not understand what is being asked. Do you mean me and my favorite video or me and my mind. That could be as many as 8 or 10!

But if you mean when you are at a party and are entertaining one guy and as soon as her has fulfilled his duty there is another guy to take his place. My mind is spinning so with all levels of orgasms that I would have no clue as to the number.

At these parties you need to take a break frequently for re hydration...a must.

Maybe the real measurement is how sore I am the next day.
Oh yes I love to suck before fucking and after also. Plus most any other time the opportunity presents itself. Nothing like cock to suck and settle you nerves from the stress of the day.
If I see a guy with a nice hard one on the street. I will try to make certain he knows I know and then give him a big smile of appreciation.

If in a bar or a club I may just do something more direct.

One of my sisters on lush if people knew when I was wet I would be beet red. There is an interesting thread in there someplace.
Yes I love it and yes I will do it again.

First time I like to make it look like an accident and then make sure who ever is watching knows the second time was no accident.

I have the exhibitionist gene I can not help myself.
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I'd have to say I've enjoyed it from the very first time I got to taste it. Though the flavor may vary with what my bf's may have eaten or drank, it's all good. - lee


Now that I am such an addict for cum it is hard to believe that I did not like it the first time. But I did not. The second time was not great either. But over time I grow to like it and if there are girls out there who do not like it, please call I would be glad to take your share. He He.
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There is a feeling of total submission and vulnerability, so if a woman enjoys being dominated by a guy, or enjoys rough sex or that kind of role play, chances are high she's someone who enjoys anal. It does make you feel like a dirty girl and a bit more 'primal' in a way - with anal you are really raw and in the moment in terms of feeling uninhibited (dirty talk is usually dirtier, toes are curling, some woman really feel the need to have something in their mouth at the same time, fingers clutching at bedsheets, or whatever other surface you happen to be fucking on). I think that's the allure for me - being 'tipped' into that different sexual zone.

For me, yes of course I love that it really turns the guy on - that's the whole goal of sex - fuelling each other's arousal and excitement, so I've never understood why women wouldn't want to at least try it 'just once'.

For those that have tried and had a bad experience, the only thing I can think of is not enough lube, the woman being too anxious to relax or a bad partner. YES, it feels good. You need a guy that knows what he's doing though. If you haven't started with toys/finger-action first, upon entry, guys need to slow almost to a full stop when they're all the way in and let the woman's ass relax around your dick. Then once she's ready to proceed, you can move into shallow thrusts and then gradually get into full fucking action. Then it feels good. Really good. If a woman hasn't had an experience like this, and the guy just shoved it in and started fucking her at his own pace, I can see why someone would be turned off it. For me, once I'm in the zone, yes, it's extremely hot and I'm begging for it harder... you just have to work up to that sweet spot. It's definitely worth the effort.


I can only agree with Dancing on this subject. I can't remember if there was a lot of pain the first time because it was a long time ago. The only place I may disagree is the amount of effort you should put in to Anal before you give up. Not just once, give it a chance. You either have or will have a child and the degree of pain in child birth in much greater. The reward is not the same, but it can be very pleasurable.

You ask if I my give advice or do I do Anal? OMG god yes!! I love it and expect it from the guys I am with.

If he is not interested this will be a short affair
Seems to me it a gender thing. If the plan is for FMF, surely the girl will be better suited to approach the third person. However if the plan is for MFM, I guess there is not choice.

Works either way for me.
Older guys can be great at say 50 and she is 30.

However sisters the 20 years can not mean much now, but the 20 year difference at 60 and 80 is something very different for both of them.

I know that is not the question.
Pink well maybe hot pink would be better!

It could also be black to brown to white or any color in between. Men come in al types of colors that is appealing. That is what your mendt is it not?
So he has a problem and has been seeking medical help for his issue. Now he think you have a problem. Why is he not talking to you and maybe jointly talking to your physican. There are procedures to address these issue.

Why in the world would you even consider telling of your wild days. Many of us had them and some of still are having trouble growing out to them.

However if he should ask about you past and you really want to build a relationship, honesty is the best line of defense. Who knows he may like as a wild woman more than you think.

Seems to me there more than your share of red flags with this guy.