
Quote by BethanyFrasier
I pull my panties down and spread my legs wide. Unfortunately there are usually a few men in between us that I didn't intend the message for who always get there first! I need to come up with a new signal! :-)
Quote by BethanyFrasier
It's no secret that I have posted breast pics of myself in various threads around the forums where others have also, but I'm not in the habit of sending them to friends, male or female, unsolicited. When guys send me unsolicited photos of their cocks, it's not that I'm offended by the sight of their cocks, but I feel uncomfortable with their implied desire that I comment upon or praise their endowment. Even acknowledging that I looked at it seems to be important to them, which suggests they derive some gratification from forcing me to look at their genitals when I did not ask to see them. If guys display pictures of their penises in an open forum, I'm not saddled with the expectation that I personally react to what I've seen, but in a personal message, that expectation is implied. That's a form of sexual pressure that women are more sensitive to than men, in my opinion. Perhaps Sean's discomfiture with the reverse situation is based on the same emotions. I'd like to know, actually.
Let me add that few of my new male friends here on Lush have sent me un-requested photos of their penises, so this hasn't been a big issue with me, but from what I read, other women have this happen to them far more frequently. Sean didn't specify if he meant in open forums or in personal messages. I think there is a big difference in venues.
Quote by JustFriends101
I think what women complain about more, is the dick pics being sent to them without asking (and in a lot of cases, never having even talking to the person). What is posted on your page is your own prerogative and no one should tell you what you post there...they don't like it, they don't have to look.