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why not both

Quote by brianlarry
It's not as much a turn on as it is a preference thing. My wife does not like to swallow. I am ok with that. She does it for foreplay and not the finish.

With that said an ex of mine loved to give blowjobs and loved to swallow. When I would cum she would swallow and then continue to slowly suck and milk every last drop out. For me, there is the initial cumming and pleasure, but then it continues for a little while (10 to 20 seconds) and if you continue to suck slowly after swallowing. It feels amazing...

It sort of like when I cum while fucking. I have the big load and usually continue to have slower smaller strokes keeping my penis in her for 30 seconds or so enjoying every last bit of the orgasm. If you are doing a blow job and either pull out to manually finish me or stop to spit I lose that extra bit of pleasure after the big release.

That's my honest perspective

Quote by BikeBoy
My hot girlfriend has discovered a new move when I'm fucking her doggy-style (OK, relax, that's far from new). She will reach one hand back, place it on my stomach/hips to halt my thrusting motion, turn to look over her shoulder right into my eyes, and from between clenched teeth hiss, "Hands off and don't you dare fucking move a muscle. I got this." Who am I to argue? From that point on it's a true test of my willpower as to whether I can keep my hands on my own hips instead of hers plus hold off for as long as possible. I'm usually quite good with endurance but this move slays me.

Quote by sprite
that the penis is attached to a guy...?

Quote by Cyndy
I am always on top and I always cum. The hard part for me is only if he cums in my mouth while I am cumming. I find that causes me to try split my focus.... one on my own orgasm and one on dealing with his cum. Challenging for me. But, usually I cum a lot more quickly than he does so it is much easier when we take turns.

Quote by Tranquil
I love 69 too. I can't see how distracting it can be, there are times when you need to lift your head and breath while enjoying a sensation, but i also love when he lifts his head, tongue , fingers away to enjoy the sensations i gift to him. there is a rhythm two reach that ensures enjoyment is prolonged. I enjoy giving that enjoy meant and get just as much out of it as i receive sometimes. and receiving it is a wonderful experience. and usually in mutual agreement climax is reached together or one at a time. either way we usually lye beside each other after, catch our breath and enjoying the memories that are still racking out bodies.

Quote by pink_pussy


Personally. I find 69 as the best way to achieve mutual orgasm.
My version of 69 is that i lay on my back with my head a bit hanging of the edge of the bed. My male partner climbs on top of me in 69. We use our oral and finger skills on pussy cock n ass to please each other. At one point i get so lost in pleasure that i stop working on his dick. This gives him an indication and he doubles his efforts on me. At the same time he starts thrusting his cock into my mouth to get his own pleasure.
We both usually cum together.
Those who find 69 distracting can adopt this method n see if it works.

Quote by Dani
The idea of 69 is great, and it makes for a great aesthetic (try it in front of or under a mirror), but logistically, there's not much you can get out of it.

The positioning required for 69 isn't all that ideal for oral sex, plus in order to achieve orgasm, one partner will have to focus on the other, and there won't be much (if any) reciprocation.

With that being said, I've had orgasms from 69, but only when I basically stopped on my end of things while my partner focused on me.

Quote by hayley


WHAT??????? from what i'm told men need to make it longer! ... giggles

Quote by Nikki703
Reverse Cowgirl is my favorite position. I just seem to have incredible orgasms that way. I agree with Bethany on how I can control how he moves inside me. I love Cowgirl too but reverse just hits my spots better!

Quote by Bustygirl38
Legs brought up to my ears while flat on my back.