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sorry buddybear but I prefer my man in either boxers or briefs and not panties but to each his own
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For the two gentlemen above I have a few questions, I have read all your threads and they made me think, what are you calling flaws / victories? Yes I read the list of all the horrible things mankind has done to itself, however from most of those things good has come along somewhere in some other aspect (I am NOT saying I agree with any of those attrocities), but the questions comes up as which way are you looking at the world.
Here's an example that everyone is used to: The holocost in WWII, they killed millions of Jews (I think one of you said 11 million), and that (in my book) is a bad thing, but had you have talked to the men and women who where responsible for it (and not just Hitler, hes another topic all by himself) they saw that what they were doing was a good thing, so our perceived flaw to them was a victory. Also from there you got Dr. Mangdala, who made considerable advances in medicine (not my perfered way of scientific study but...) others later on used his diaries to confirm what he had done and for it we have more knowledge in medicine (would we have gotten to the same place without him, its definatly possible but he was a fast forward button) Also remember because of that we were our own hippocrites since we did the same exact thing at the same time to millions of Japanesse Americans, as far as I know we didnt put them in gas chambers BUT what we did was just as bad in other regards, however ask those men and women and they will say what they did was right because they were protecting thier country, okay to me that doesnt make a bunch of sense.
As for God making us a failure, He made us just like him, very selfish, if you don't beleive me look at the first commandment, no false idols, or other Gods, because only He is right.
To me there is no ONE right religion, ( I was raised Catholic) they all have the same backbone its the details that are different, and those details to me don't make one more right or wrong then another. Wars in "God's name" are a silly excuse for man to show his dominace over other groups of man.
I think that is way more then enough, now I will sit back and wait for the angry people to come rip me to shreads over this.
Here's an example that everyone is used to: The holocost in WWII, they killed millions of Jews (I think one of you said 11 million), and that (in my book) is a bad thing, but had you have talked to the men and women who where responsible for it (and not just Hitler, hes another topic all by himself) they saw that what they were doing was a good thing, so our perceived flaw to them was a victory. Also from there you got Dr. Mangdala, who made considerable advances in medicine (not my perfered way of scientific study but...) others later on used his diaries to confirm what he had done and for it we have more knowledge in medicine (would we have gotten to the same place without him, its definatly possible but he was a fast forward button) Also remember because of that we were our own hippocrites since we did the same exact thing at the same time to millions of Japanesse Americans, as far as I know we didnt put them in gas chambers BUT what we did was just as bad in other regards, however ask those men and women and they will say what they did was right because they were protecting thier country, okay to me that doesnt make a bunch of sense.
As for God making us a failure, He made us just like him, very selfish, if you don't beleive me look at the first commandment, no false idols, or other Gods, because only He is right.
To me there is no ONE right religion, ( I was raised Catholic) they all have the same backbone its the details that are different, and those details to me don't make one more right or wrong then another. Wars in "God's name" are a silly excuse for man to show his dominace over other groups of man.
I think that is way more then enough, now I will sit back and wait for the angry people to come rip me to shreads over this.
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MM~~ I was sad to hear about your problem, and while its not my place to give advice, I would like to give you some hope. When I was much younger, I had a truly long distance reationship. I saw him 3 maybe 4 times in a year, the rest of the time he was off doing his job. While he was gone I wasn't able to talk to him, see him, or hear from him, he could be gone for a few days up to 18 months. I hated it and I hated his job, but becuase I loved him ass much as I did, I waited for him. He loved me as well, I lost him 6 days before we were to get married. My point for telling you this is that if you love him and he loves you, the distance, isn't very great. You have phones, and web cams, and the internet to talk to one another, and while none of this makes up for face-to-face time, it can lessen the burden of not seeing one another. It might be something to think about.
I hope that you get all that you want.
Thoughts of hope and happiness for you and your beloved
I hope that you get all that you want.
Thoughts of hope and happiness for you and your beloved
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I write usually with a third person. I like the fact that I can say what is going on in multipul people's minds at any given moment. When I read a story in first person, I just feel like they are telling me what they did and I am not able to connect with the story, because it limits my ability to become one of the characters. Perhaps that is becuase I only write fictional pieces and never write anything that is from my own experience.
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Most of my male friends have told me that I intimadate most men who might look at me as a date or dating material. I have been given several reasons for that response when I ask my friends why I can't get a man to pay me any attention. I don't like this idea or enjoy the thought that I would be intimadating to someone.
The best suggestions I could give you, would be find a woman when she is alone, in the coffee shop, libary, wherever (don't try to talk to her with her girlfriends around), give her a small compliement, unless she keeps the conversation open let it go for right then, and talk to her again another day.
As for your self confidence the best advice I could give would be to "fake it till you make it". This is how I have gotten myself so comfortable in my own skin, sure I still have my insecurities, but only those I let close to me know what they are. I also dress so I feel confiedent in my appearance, if you like what you see in the mirror things are less intimadating. Last peice of advice, find one thing about yourself everyday (eyes, intelligence, smile, humor etc) that you like about yourself and focus on that remind yourself through out the day about that one thing, people will see you as more confident once you begin to see yourself that way.
I hope that something here is helpful for you! Good Luck!
The best suggestions I could give you, would be find a woman when she is alone, in the coffee shop, libary, wherever (don't try to talk to her with her girlfriends around), give her a small compliement, unless she keeps the conversation open let it go for right then, and talk to her again another day.
As for your self confidence the best advice I could give would be to "fake it till you make it". This is how I have gotten myself so comfortable in my own skin, sure I still have my insecurities, but only those I let close to me know what they are. I also dress so I feel confiedent in my appearance, if you like what you see in the mirror things are less intimadating. Last peice of advice, find one thing about yourself everyday (eyes, intelligence, smile, humor etc) that you like about yourself and focus on that remind yourself through out the day about that one thing, people will see you as more confident once you begin to see yourself that way.
I hope that something here is helpful for you! Good Luck!
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Thats not right how they treated that poor gator, they could have damaged his eyes or broken his legs. There is no point in doing to the gator what they did, I know they have to tap his mouth closed but they dont need the rest, that is just cruel punishment and they should be sent to jail for it. No one has the right to abuse an animal.
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"I'm a damsel. I'm in distress. I can handel it. Have a nice day."
"Toga!"
"Are me seams straight?"
"You lost your arms in battle, but you grew some nice boobs."
"Lady please, I'm not from Havanna."
"Toga!"
"Are me seams straight?"
"You lost your arms in battle, but you grew some nice boobs."
"Lady please, I'm not from Havanna."
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Dont know I've never had Dominos pizza ... so I will take your word for it.
Most cardboard is recylable but the oils in the pizza get on the box and it ruins the cardboard and they cant recycle it, same thing goes for paper towels too!
RX what kind of diet do you have due to your allergies?
Most cardboard is recylable but the oils in the pizza get on the box and it ruins the cardboard and they cant recycle it, same thing goes for paper towels too!
RX what kind of diet do you have due to your allergies?
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That is a cool idea, but can you recycle the box afterwards too? Because with regualr pizza boxes you can't recycle them because of the oils in the food.
Sorry to hear about your allergies RX.
Sorry to hear about your allergies RX.
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My best friend is a guy, he has a great girl friend whom I am good friends with as well. We go out (sometimes me and him and sometimes the 3 of us), it doesnt bother her at all that we spend time together alone, however I have had several men tell me that they wouldn't date me unless I dumped best friend. Well I am still friends with him and still single. I think it shows a lack of maturty in the guys, and if he is that distrusting to begin with what will he be like in 6 months from now. Its thier loss.
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I think its over when two people can no longer stand to be near eachother, when those little endearing things become annyoying and you can no longer (honestly) say you love the other person. Love, compramise, respect, and loyalty are the important things and if any of them is missing it might be a sign of the end (at least in my mind.)
I wish the best to you Mr.Plow and Mrs. Plow!!!
I wish the best to you Mr.Plow and Mrs. Plow!!!
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Love your answer ghostwriter!! I agree with most of the men if you are gonna dress that way you have to expect to be looked at / leered at / oogled / call it anything you want. You dont have to dress that way, and as for not wanting that specific guy to look at you, well you should expect it, men are very visual creatures and when offered something of beauty they will take a look and most likely a second look too, (Women do too) nothing wrong with it on either side as long as its harmless.
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He's adorable...does he need a home? My door is always open
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He's adorable...does he need a home? My door is always open
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I've dated one great guy, a lil rough around the edges but still a total gentleman, the rest have been jerks in disguise as good guys. I'm not really the thrill seeker or a very daring woman, so dating someone who was that way probably wouldn't be the best thing for me or him. But to be fair I think the reverse happens too, men tend to pass over the nice/good women as well. I was even told one time that I am great wife material but not good girlfriend material. I never understood that (if anyone does please let me know what that means).
Any woman who wants the real deal wont care if the guy is a bad boy or a nice guy she will see him for what he is and be accepting of him, good and bad.
Any woman who wants the real deal wont care if the guy is a bad boy or a nice guy she will see him for what he is and be accepting of him, good and bad.
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Technically it will happen 12 hours later as well, before having to wait for another thousand years
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Hi Tech...I wish you the best with your surgery!! I have CT as well, not bad enough for surgery yet (thank God) so you have my sympathy there honi, since its a nerve problem and not a muscle/ligament/tendon problem make sure you baby that hand really well when it acts up. Get Roco to baby you more, its nice to be pampered really well once in awhile. Good luck
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I say you can always skin them alive ... you can live for a long time with out your skin, about a day or so and of course the agonizing pain that is infected is a bonus to it being slow and painful for these sick people....you can also find a red ant hill tie them down and pour honey on them ... thats a good one too. shooting / leathel injection / electric chair are too nice for ppl like this.
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This is absolutly shattering to read. How can anyone see this as being "okay", no one woman or man should have to live thier life that way and worry about being murdered for something so basic as who they pick for thier lover. We still see things like this here in the U.S. but it has gotten much better. I hope that these women band together and stand up against thier predators.
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Any one know where i can get a back massage like that???
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I have had several dogs and making them do that kind of work (the way the set up is makes it very hard for the dog to work) is mean. A tail up doesnt mean they are happy...I had a snow wolf for a pet and he had other ways of showing happiness as do all my other puupies that i have now.
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Been there before Sarah and its hard to keep going on without that person, because of your past feelings for him. I'm definatly not a realtionship expert (I've guy I've dated has cheated on me...really makes you think) To stop myself from making excuses for his behavior and forgiving him for it nad the way he treated me in the past, I always look at my credit card bill, (the last guy got me for over 6K in credit card money....) I paid for everything, and now I find myself very persnickty about who I date / consider dating. Any man who doesnt have a job AND isn't looking for one is a no go no matter what he just wants a free ride from a woman....you can do so much better than that loser. I wish you the best
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No way I couldn't be with another person and I couldn't stand it if he was, you are in a realtionship for a reason
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I personally enjoy giving my guy that pleasure HOWEVER if he continually demanded that I do something I wasn't comfortable doing or he felt that he had to get it from another woman; wether I am there or not, cause that just says I am not enough for him and thats fine he pack his bags and leave. No one should make anyone feel uncomfortable or that their feelings are not important. That is signs of a selfish person and something that no one needs in their life. If your lover is making demands like that on you and you have told them you don't feel comfortable doing that, then chances are they are doing the same thing in other areas of your life or will be soon....been there done that, never ever ever again.
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Never seen that Hot Pocket video before, that was really funny and much needed after my day today...thanks Rocco
Saurkraut and Dumplings....yummy...just like Grandpa used to make
Saurkraut and Dumplings....yummy...just like Grandpa used to make