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Straight Male, 37
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3-4 weeks ago, my first and only so far in Australia, and it wasnt the best, i met her at a local festival, we were both sloshed from the drink having been on it most of the day, I didnt even cum, it was kind of sex where ur both too drunk to enjoy it, so yeah wasnt the best sex ever, but to be honest sometimes really good sex is worth waiting for, so im biding my time again ; )
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Well chances are im not going to know whos it is, and i wouldnt take anybodies word for it, so i would probably keep it. If it was a wallet with cards, or a mobile phone i would definatley give that back, but money doesnt have an owner once the owner doesnt have it anymore.
Really there are only 2 logical realistic outcomes for this question.
1. Keep the money
2. Give it to charity
There are other possibilities like, for example, buy a friend something, but i would probably feel more guilty buying somebody something with money that wasnt mine, than i would of actually spending it. I want to say i would give it to charity, but to be honest i probably wouldnt. Saying you would give $100, and actually doing it, are two totally different things, and when its your lucky day to find $100, are you seriously gonna give it all away? I might feel a bit guilty spending it at first, but then i think about stuff thats happened to me, and the times ive lost money, or had something stolen, or all the greedy people and governments who take our money and do sweet F A with it, and i would probably consider this a sweet payback. Im not greedy, i just like money ha ;)
But if i was in a good mood, i would maybe give it away, but it would have to be a good cause. Alot of charities take donations, and don't really do very much with the money that i see as worthwhile, many of them are a waste of time and the money would get wasted on something pointless, so i would probably give it somewhere where its going to be really beneficial, probably cancer research, or the NSPCC (abused children charity) or something like that, i definatley wouldnt go and throw it at the first charity shop I saw.
Really there are only 2 logical realistic outcomes for this question.
1. Keep the money
2. Give it to charity
There are other possibilities like, for example, buy a friend something, but i would probably feel more guilty buying somebody something with money that wasnt mine, than i would of actually spending it. I want to say i would give it to charity, but to be honest i probably wouldnt. Saying you would give $100, and actually doing it, are two totally different things, and when its your lucky day to find $100, are you seriously gonna give it all away? I might feel a bit guilty spending it at first, but then i think about stuff thats happened to me, and the times ive lost money, or had something stolen, or all the greedy people and governments who take our money and do sweet F A with it, and i would probably consider this a sweet payback. Im not greedy, i just like money ha ;)
But if i was in a good mood, i would maybe give it away, but it would have to be a good cause. Alot of charities take donations, and don't really do very much with the money that i see as worthwhile, many of them are a waste of time and the money would get wasted on something pointless, so i would probably give it somewhere where its going to be really beneficial, probably cancer research, or the NSPCC (abused children charity) or something like that, i definatley wouldnt go and throw it at the first charity shop I saw.
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My immediate thought is an absolute no, sex yes, but not a relationship, i couldnt do it for a few reason. One is obvious, i dont want anybody else fucking my girl, not for all the money in the world. She could be a "fuck buddy", but nothing more.
Second is a lesser known fact, and that is, that the vast majority of Pornstars have STI's. Before you say anything, no im not talking about the common simple stuff, like clymidia or gonorrhea, im talking about more sinster STI's, mainly oral and genital Herpes. Its quite a disgusting thought i know, but its best to know all the bases of sex, not just the good parts. Pornstars are extremely suseptable to Herpes, mainly because of the amount of Oral sex, and even just the amount general sex they do. Herpes isnt like other STI's, its a virus that you always have once caught, but symptoms come and go, making it very difficult to detect. Genital herpes is the worst, but oral herpes (coldsores) still isnt too nice either, and it can be transmitted both ways, oral to genital and visa versa, so things pornstars to (like vagina/ass to mouth), making the likelyhood way higher. Also unlike nearly all the other STI's, condoms are not 100% effective, as herpes lesions can be present outside the main genital area, such as the inside of the thigh, or around the anus. And Herpes is pretty damn nasty when you get an outbreak, and its extremely common amongst people in the porn industry, and its one STI i want to avoid like the plague, if you pardon the expression.
Erm sorry for dampening the mood a bit, but i just wanted to be honest about the question, and stay exactly what i thought...
Anyways simple answer to the question is NO
Second is a lesser known fact, and that is, that the vast majority of Pornstars have STI's. Before you say anything, no im not talking about the common simple stuff, like clymidia or gonorrhea, im talking about more sinster STI's, mainly oral and genital Herpes. Its quite a disgusting thought i know, but its best to know all the bases of sex, not just the good parts. Pornstars are extremely suseptable to Herpes, mainly because of the amount of Oral sex, and even just the amount general sex they do. Herpes isnt like other STI's, its a virus that you always have once caught, but symptoms come and go, making it very difficult to detect. Genital herpes is the worst, but oral herpes (coldsores) still isnt too nice either, and it can be transmitted both ways, oral to genital and visa versa, so things pornstars to (like vagina/ass to mouth), making the likelyhood way higher. Also unlike nearly all the other STI's, condoms are not 100% effective, as herpes lesions can be present outside the main genital area, such as the inside of the thigh, or around the anus. And Herpes is pretty damn nasty when you get an outbreak, and its extremely common amongst people in the porn industry, and its one STI i want to avoid like the plague, if you pardon the expression.
Erm sorry for dampening the mood a bit, but i just wanted to be honest about the question, and stay exactly what i thought...
Anyways simple answer to the question is NO
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I have an unhealty interest in Final Fantasy games, particularly the old ones VII & VIII. Especially when I was in my teens, I loved playing them to the point where wished the games were actually a reality. I think ive completed FFVIII about 20 times lol.
Any other passionate gamers out there?
Any other passionate gamers out there?
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Quote by Eeyore123
did you tell the family it was chicken fricasee?
Aha, well my mam rescued it before i got a chance to turn it on. Wasnt really my fault, i was really young, i was unsupervised and didnt know any better. Plus my mam and dad had a very turbulent relationship, i didnt have the best parental guidance, until they broke up and i went to live wth my gran, she straightened me out ;)
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I always like a bit of small talk to break the ice, so i usually just talk about stuff ive been doing, gonna be doing, or whatever im doing at the time, it might not be horny, but its getting a bit of banter going, and i like friendly banter, just because its an adult site, doesnt mean the convo needs to be horny all the bloody time. I cant see any point in lying about what im doing, just to entertain somebody, i dont get much out of that. I always find it best to be honest with people, i cant see any point in lies. And im not one of these guys who goes in guns blazing with all filthy talk straight off the bat, i find that far too forward and pervy. Besides, you cant get to know anything about anybody, when you only talk sex, and im not just here for sexual convo, i also want to get to know people and make new friends, that means proper civilised conversation about serious things, as well find out about people. I might be a red blooded male, but i also believe in treating girls with some respect, and having a little respect for myself too. I know, yes, we are all here because we are a set of horny buggers, but that doesnt mean we need to be obsessed with nothing except filthy sex talk all the time, its like anything, food or drink, its all good, in moderation.
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I don't cyber, it does nothing for me TBH
Same, im quite happy to chat but i actually prefer simple pm's. A like a flirt and have a little naughty talk, but actual cyber "sex" im not into and have never done. I think i would find it either a little awkward, or a little boring.....or both
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Nobody banned window shopping, you can eye up other girls/guys, and flirt too if you like, thats not an issue in my opinion, just flirting, so long as it goes no futher is pretty harmless, everybody likes know that they still "got it", so long as your girl isnt with you at the time lol.
But thats the limit! Anything beyond that is out of bounds, even just a kiss i would say is technically cheating, in fact fuck it, it is cheating, same goes for dirty video msgs and dirty texts, I wouldnt say looking at porn is cheating though, thats more excusable in my book. They are spoken for just as much as you are and visa versa, just think how they would feel if the roles were reversed, not good im guessing? Theres is no grey area to be honest in my view
But thats the limit! Anything beyond that is out of bounds, even just a kiss i would say is technically cheating, in fact fuck it, it is cheating, same goes for dirty video msgs and dirty texts, I wouldnt say looking at porn is cheating though, thats more excusable in my book. They are spoken for just as much as you are and visa versa, just think how they would feel if the roles were reversed, not good im guessing? Theres is no grey area to be honest in my view
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You could try and find a shemale and really spice things up! haha
Honestly, i dunno ur situation but i would steer well clear of using mates, there can be alot of shit heading down that road. To be honest, her having that fantasy is fair enough, but its a big ask for you to share her with another bloke, i would get the urge to knock him out. Why not find another girl and get her to use a strap-on, best of both worlds?
Honestly, i dunno ur situation but i would steer well clear of using mates, there can be alot of shit heading down that road. To be honest, her having that fantasy is fair enough, but its a big ask for you to share her with another bloke, i would get the urge to knock him out. Why not find another girl and get her to use a strap-on, best of both worlds?