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Straight Male, 37
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I had sex with a 46 year old once, and to be honest i regretted it, but i was really drunk at the time, so i just put it down to that and forgot about it. But ive been in casual relationships with women in their 30's, and the were some of the best women ive ever been with, i would say my limit is 40, and she would have to be very tidy for that age. I say that, Kylie minogue is 43 and i would jump at the chance of being with her!
Erm, i dont know, never say never, but it would take ALOT of trust to do so, and that means getting to know that person really well. That means going beyond the limits of this site, or even the internet. I would probably have to talk that special person alot, for several months, add them on facebook and get a better idea of what they are really like day to day, would probably have to talk with them over the phone alot, basically it would be long time and alot of trust needed, and she would need to be genuine and special, i havent seen any fakers here, but im sure you get then.

Then you also need to deal with the fact that this is a worldwide site, distance between most people means meeting is realistically inachieveable, so to be honest, i cant ever see it happening.
apologies for the multi-post, my internet fucked up big time sad
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Preferring experience to inexperience is fine, I have no issue with that. What got to me was the rant that followed, and as much as I understand where you're coming from, there are less inflammatory ways of putting it.


Yeah i know, im sorry. My opinion wasnt intended to be aggressive, i was simply making a point, but reading over it i can see I was a bit too confrontational. Apologies.

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Who knows, maybe they'd teach you a little something too ;)


Haha maybe, although i tend to think not. I remember when i was a virgin, i was useless ha
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inserting random household items in his pee hole!


Two words...............FUCK THAT!!!!!!
I admit that a girl having a child to another guy isnt ideal, but i think in the long run, if i liked her enough, its wouldnt be an issue. Maybe you did make a mistake in the past, but you got something beautiful that you love out of that. Any guy who cant appreciate that, isnt worth your time.
Nah i dont think its that important, unless you really do have a chest like an ironing board, it shouldnt be an issue, small perky boobs can be just as attractive as big ones. Usually arse, face and legs are more important, having big tits is more just a bonus than a necessity. So long as you have a nice handful thats more than enough.
I actually like Jonny Torch from Fantastic 4, FLAME ON!!!!! Being him would be pretty cool. I would like to be a Jedi, or like a wizard in Harry Potter, or maybe have powers like in the Final Fantasy's (you know the video game yeah?) Traditional superheros dont do alot for me.
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I didn't realise that all adult virgins had been waiting because of religion my mistake.

In all seriousness, that's a harsh attitude to take. Lots of people wait to find someone who is worthy of giving their virginity to, and honestly, more people should.

You say people should experiment as soon as they feel ready, who are you to judge when they feel ready?

And really - you meet a girl, you get on really well together and you really like her then you find out that she's a virgin. Are you going to tell her that there's something 'not right' with her?


Well ok, i see your point and im with you, but the thread tends to indicate that the question is "do you find virgins more attractive than everybody else", or at least thats the they way it looked to me, and the simple answer to that is no, i dont. But that attitude of waiting for somebody you actually want to be with is a good thing, so im down with that. Hell i didnt loose my V plates until i was like 16/17, so i was hardly a teenage stud, but i have a hard time with people being tormented my their parents about sex, or religious hysteria telling people when to have sex. Having sex is entirely on that person, and if a virgin wanted to have sex with me, and i liked her, i happily treat her the same as every other girl, and if she was worth it and i wanted to be with her, i would of course be happy help her get better at it and to stick with her. But i still stand by what i said about inexperience being unattractive, which i thought was what the topic was asking for.
i must admit, virgins dont float my boat at all, I like a girl with experience and high sex drive, they need to want it, and that comes from past encounters and enjoying it more and more. I think this is kind of a misplaced fantasy, imo theres is something not right with an adult who is virgin, dont give me all that "saving herself" bullshit, Theres a reason why they are still a virgin, could be religion, strict upbringing or she just has no interest, whatever, and i have a hard time dealing with people like that. I find that attitude unnatural and against human nature. Ok im not saying as soon as people are old enough they should fuck the first person they see, but i do think people should try and experiment and try sex as soon as they feel ready to. (you can tell i have a vendetta against this relgion BS). Inexperienced people dont have a fucking clue what they are doing, and im sorry there is nothing attractive about that. Virgins also tend to groom and maintain their personal areas poorly, because they dont expect anybody do be going there, so the lady garden will either be full of cobwebs, or try and sell you a copy of the big issue. I have no interest trying to break through that forcefield
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You have to have a certain pyhsical attraction to be drawn to that other person anyway so once you get past that first hurdle my advice would be to have a little give and take. You're being too picky when that other person doesn't have a good enough job or drive a nicer car or you hate the fact he likes football when you hate it. Give and take all the way.

You still have to have that first bit of sexual attraction though imo.


Actually yeah, this is absolutely spot on the money, couldnt have put it better myself.
I dont think there is such a thing as being picky, you like who you like simple as that. You cant force yourself to find somebody attractive, thats never gonna work.
French knickers are pretty awesome, thongs too, but suspenders are what send me wild! ha
I agree that stories have to be at least moderately believeable, ie they "could" have happened. But yeah it definatley is a trick to do make it both convincing and 'out there' at the same time, but if you can do it, i think thats what makes the best stories. Saying nobody knew, in a situation where it would be vertually impossible for people not to know, kind of mixes up what the truth is, and i guess that might ruin the read.
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love it ! favourite GnR tune!


Yeah i love guns they awesome, they were my favorite band for quite a while, but im loving some of Aerosmiths music at the minute, Steven Tylers voice is fucking epic, even better than Axls imo, and that is saying something!
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I'm more into amateur girls that happen to be captured on webcam. I don't really care too much for the high production fake orgasm stuff, give me a grainy camera any day! But to follow the thread... Kerri Lynn, because she does great mom/son roleplay and amazing blowjobs, haven't seen any new vids though she might of retired.


I can tell you right now that if you see a pornstar in those professional movies faking an orgasm you not watching the right ones, watch somebody like cytherea getting her back doors smashed in and tell me shes faking it ;)
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xnxx.com is a good one


Yep that one is good, also try tube8.com, it has tonnes of different videos and catagories, and you can go to other ones through tube 8, like spankwire, keezmovies or extremetube. Tube8 is the one of the best ive found, but also try fapdu.com, you can search for particular catagoris, and it has a huge list of pornstars, most of the vids are high quality too
Weird, whata strange case. Well firstly, you said he does want sex, but at different time to you, so that tells me hes still well into you, you just need to sort each others radars out lol. When is it that he wants sex? It just sounds like it needs to be spiced up somehow, maybe you could work on trying to yourself hornier at the times he does? Maybe dress up (although at your age that shouldnt really be necessary), get him really turned on first, maybe go out for a meal and dont wear any underwear, try and lead him on that way. Your 23, you should be doing alot of experimenting at your age, so be open minded, and maybe try and look to take it other places than just the bedroom
Definatley arse man, even if im just walking down the street, i'll check out womens arses, ok boobs too, but i always think that if she has a nice arse, 9 times out of 10, she will have a nice face too smile
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Love to be sucked and absolutely love to suck on a wet pussy. A natural born 69er.

"Oh lord Thank You"


Thats the spirit mate, hell yeah 69 never fails, who doesnt like oral sex? seriously thats rediculous...

The only thing i would say, and this is pretty key, is it needs to be done right, if its not, if the girl is inexperienced or whatever, it can actually be a painful and not enjoyable affair, sometimes a girl cant seem to keep her teeth out of the equation, which really ruins the whole thing. But when a girl actually knows what shes doing, its fuckin' magic! lol
I like most things that are legal, straight sex, i dont mind a bit of lesbian, but full lesbians dont do all that much for me, (i just get annoyed that they dont want me to join in lol) relucatance, anal, fetish, quicky, milf and so on, you get the picture. For some reason, i get more turned on reading a story through the eyes of a woman, although i prefer writing about being a man. They dont have to be true stories, but at least sound believable The only sexual themes I dont like much are interracial, gay, and besitality (which i think is banned anyway?). Particularly the last 2, sorry but for me, there are lines that I think you just dont cross. If you like , fine whatever, go with that, im not here to judge, but its not for me.
Phone sex companies do absolutely nothing for me, ive never even tried it and dont care to, I dont believe in paying for sex, or sexual experiences, thats not my style. I things like that to be genuine, ok i know porn isnt genuine, but thats the my only exception. I've never actually had fone sex with a girl ive been with either, ive never tried it and to be honest, i find dirty txts more erotic
Im very much a tits and arse man, particularly a nice peachy arse does wonders for me, but a pretty face too of course. Tits dont bother me too much, just so long as they are nice perky and a nice handful, im not too bothered about the size, big tits on a girl is more just a bonus than a requisite. I also love its when i know a girl desire, knowning that she wasnts something so badly, and i know shes thinking she wants it to happen as much as I do, that is really horney. Also, i kind of think a type of reluctance can be very hot, like her hearts saying yes (or pussy i guess), but her head isnt so sure, her emotions and hormones are telling her she wants to, but her shyness, common sense or better judgement isnt sure, for some reason that whole adventure of having to put in a little groundwork to convince her to let herself go, quite hot. Maybe i like a challenge, maybe i like a girl who looks and acts shy and doubtful, but inside she really really wants it to happen. Mmm...
Actually i dont envy women at all, i tend to think we are kind of equal and opposite, and thats all good. What i do envy is gay men with close female friends, they get all the benefits but dont appreaciate it. How many gay guys hang out with girls, and get to watch them undress, sleep with each other, or have "girly" chats about guys and stuff that gets them going, its would love to be in that situation, for entirely different reasons to the gay guys though lol, its that luxury that I envy!
It varies, but usually once a day, but often i'll do it more if im bored, but it your cock gets a bit tender after like 3 times, and the pleasure isnt as good, so 3 is the limit. I usually masturbate more if im hungover from a night out before, but i dont know why lol. It can be a bit of a pain too, because im cut i usually need some sort of lube, so sometimes i cant be bothered. I usually need porn too, not because my my imagination doesnt do the job, but because its so easilly accessible. But now im reading alot more erotic writing, my habits are changing (plus porn can be unhealthy for mind sometimes). I lost my internet for a couple of weeks, when i was back in England, i dont think i did it at all then, which can of shows how narrow minded porn makes you, :/ least im discovering new things now.
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Cut or uncut could not have anything to do with how long a guy lasts. Mine is cut and I guess they did that before I came home from the hospital after I was born (dam glad I have no memory of it.) I sure wouldn't let anyone go near it now with anything sharp.


Actually mate you might be surpised to here that it does, the foreskin has thousends or nerve endings in it, its extremely sensitive, so you loose some of that if you get cut, which has its advantages and disadvantages. Maybe circumcised people can last a little longer, but you may loose a little overall pleasure. (although there are many other major factors affecting how long you can go, and most of it is in your mindset). Im personally circumcised, far from having complains, ive actually found it better, and some of the girls thought so too. I dont know why, but having a my exposed helmet inside a girl, made me feel like i have more girth, i say that, but i got cut when i was like 12 or 13, so i never had sex while i still had my foreskin, in fact i dont even think i was masturbating at that age, so i know alot about what its like without skin, but not so much with skin, but i wouldnt go back i know that.

Soft tops are the way forward! smile
I would be extremely surpised if there isnt a simlar topic running, but im not raking through the forum looking for it, i'll be on for ages.

What guys really want to know is what makes a girl tick, if only we guys knew, life would be so much easier. Girls tend to have their own individual ideas on whats hot and whats not, they expect they guy to know their desires without being told, and reserve the right to change their minds whenever they like, still expect the guy to know. Ok maybe it doesnt exactly work like that, nobody wants to be Mel Gibson in What Women Want, that is just a total headfuck lol. Nobody is ever going to see the full picture, because every girl is different, but im just throwing it out there because im interested to know some ideas of what makes a women go all hot under collar, and whats guaranteed to have her knickers drying up faster than Charlie Sheens bank balance.

So for somes examples, does a guys job matter, do girls get turned on by a guy with a dirty or manly type job, like a mechanic or a fireman, or does the suited and booted clean cut business man, or school teacher work better for you. Do you like a guy with an accent, which accents are the horniest. Do you prefer your fellas muscular, cuddly, or just average. What about his hair, eyebrows, facial hair, or tattoos. What about his personality, Do you prefer a gentleman, or a bad boy, funny or serious, What about his downstairs, are men with shaved pubes the best, just trimmed, or left well alone. What about the things he does in the bedroom, what techniques would he do that would have you quivering in pleasure. There are plenty more suggestions ive missed, so basically just say what you think about whatever.

Anyways im just trying to get an idea of what kind of girls like what type of things, its always an interesting subject, so just throw in a bit of info about whats the stuff you like, and the stuff you dont ;)