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BabyBlonde123
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 33
United States
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I think I'd have to pass on that one ;) Fancy cars do nothing for me, haha
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I've been thinking about this lately, and I have to say that spanking really gets me, especially if i'm being taken from behind. The sting of it makes me really aroused.(and I'm not usually one for pain...at all!)It especially turns me on if it still hurts the next day when I sit, it just reminds me of what I was up to. ;) I also had a boyfriend recently want to use nipple clamps on me, it was a bit awkward, but I actually didn't mind it for a little while, they made my nipples really sensitive. I would probably try that again.
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Love like honey-Pretty ricky or Grind on me- pretty ricky. Lol!! Anything by pretty ricky actually.
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Just some panties and a t-shirt for me. I have a weird thing about sleeping in pants, they always end up tangled, and socks- forget it, haha.
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Jessica Rabbit, of course! She has to be one of the most over sexualized fictional characters of all time...
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Do a sexy dance for him to watch from bed! (and make sure he never leaves) lol
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I'm quite put off by the new regulations...So we can receive private messages, but not respond to them? That seems a bit silly to me... Also, will our currently uploaded images be removed from our profiles? And we can't upload pictures anymore? We can read stories and publish ones of our own, but not comment or respond to anything? I'm a bit confused... I'll be saddened to leave after my 90 day trial is up...that's a shame. OH, and we can accept friend requests, but not add anyone..?(Plus, the idea of even having friends is a bit pointless now...since we can't interact?)
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I'm quite put off by the new regulations...So we can receive private messages, but not respond to them? That seems a bit silly to me... Also, will our currently uploaded images be removed from our profiles? And we can't upload pictures anymore? We can read stories and publish ones of our own, but not comment or respond to anything? I'm a bit confused... I'll be saddened to leave after my 90 day trial is up...that's a shame.
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I'd have to say missionary, always a favorite ;) But, I also love being pressed against the wall with my legs wrapped around his waist; Him holding up most of my body weight makes me feel so dainty and dominated, if that makes sense? If I had to pick a number three I'd definitely go for cowgirl.
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I enjoy watching a man masturbate, if he's watching me, haha. It doesn't turn me on watching a guy masturbate to porn or whatever. But if he's touching himself because I've turned him on, then yes, I find it quite arousing.
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Hey everyone, I've been pretty interested in Dita Von Teese lately. I just love her, she's so sexy and classy.
I was wondering what everyone's thoughts were? Do you enjoy her burlesque performances? Do you think there is a difference between being a burlesque dancer and a stripper? Which is more enjoyable?
I have to say, I think I'm just obsessed with Burlesque in general, haha. And I've got to mention Christina Aguilera in the movie Burlesque, that movie just makes me wish I owned all of her costumes, lol!
Here's a link if you've never heard of her:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yLs6KzL2QHg
And one of Christina:
I was wondering what everyone's thoughts were? Do you enjoy her burlesque performances? Do you think there is a difference between being a burlesque dancer and a stripper? Which is more enjoyable?
I have to say, I think I'm just obsessed with Burlesque in general, haha. And I've got to mention Christina Aguilera in the movie Burlesque, that movie just makes me wish I owned all of her costumes, lol!
Here's a link if you've never heard of her:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yLs6KzL2QHg
And one of Christina:
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I've never had a threesome, and I don't know if I'd like it... I suppose I'm a pretty possessive person, and when I'm with a man I want all of his attention to be on me, haha.
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Definitely Chris Evans....oops, I mean Captain America! ;)
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Quote by Bunbury1
Hello,
I am sure I am not the only man on the site that has experienced this, but I am struggling with this situation. My wife lost interest in sex years ago after our kids were born. We have read books, tried all the relationship improvement...bring the romance back things, but she has not responded. She occasionally goes through the motions but that has become more and more infrequent. Almost not existent. In fact, when we do have sex now, she says it is painful for her. Her doctor says that her vagina has atrophied. (Use it or lose it folks) So I am now on the once or twice a year program. No foreplay, just get it over with. Not exactly romantic or even erotic.
So, I find myself in a very awkward situation. I love this woman. I intend to spend the rest of my life with her. In every other aspect of our lives, she is my perfect partner. I took a vow to not be with anyone else and intend to honor that promise. This leaves me quite sexually frustrated. I am not ready to stop having sex, but I really have no choice in the matter. It makes me angry that one partner can just decide that sex is over for both. She sees a therapist and we have tried couples counseling, but there has been no progress in the area of sex. She seems to just be working out her mother issues. (Incidently, her mother did the same thing to her father. They did not even sleep in the same room for the last 30 years of his life.)
Masturbation is really my only option at this point and she usually expresses annoyance if I do this when she is around. She says it makes her feel guilty. So, apparently, I am responsible for her feelings in addition to my own. Of course, I could continue while she is there, but it is hard to be aroused when you are being glared at or she huffs out of the room. So now I feel like I have to sneak around like a teenager hoping his parents don't catch him. Not feeling very manly here.
I seriously have run out of ideas here. Since I am committed to the marriage, I just don't see any way around this. I doubt that you will have any suggestions other than couples counseling, which we have tried.
So there it is Aunt Olivia. Any suggestions?
I guess I'm not very qualified to give you any advice, haha, but I do have some thoughts.
Have you ever tried anything that doesn't involve actual penetration? (because you said it's painful for her...) I know you said she doesn't really want foreplay, but I feel like that could really help... Would she be okay with you giving her oral sex?
I don't mean to sound like I'm insinuating that you're not, but maybe try being a bit more selfless in bed. Maybe you have a night that's just for her, and you can try to get her to orgasm, even if it's just her experimenting to see what she still likes and doesn't like. Then you can go from there??
I mean, maybe if she's more into it, then having sex would be easier. (And I mean, it's kind of wrong that she makes you feel bad about masturbating, but I can see how it might make her feel bad too... but I mean, is it hard to masturbate in secret, or at a time that you know she won't find you??) Or even give her the option to help you out when you masturbate...maybe she can do it for you . I mean, I don't really know how much she is open to...
Another option, if she's willing, you can probably find some type of lotion or gel (like ky or something...) that stimulates her? Or even, if it's something that she wants to work on, she could take some type of hormone(pill?) that increases her sex drive...?
Anyway, I think that at the end of the day you have to think about it, and see that sex isn't everything. If you love her, like you say you do, and if sex is something that's painful for her, it just doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of things.
Well, I hope this helps, like I said, I'm not really qualified to give any advice, but I hope something here sounds helpful.
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Is there a mirror in your pants? because I can see myself in them. Lol!
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It gets pretty annoying sometimes, and if I've never talked to you before, there's no way I'm going to respond anyway. It's sometimes more funny than anything, especially when the pictures don't look real at all and they claim that it's them. Also, people who post Gifs on my wall and I sometimes delete the ones I don't want there, and then think they can message me "Why did you delete my picture on your wall??" Uhm....why do you think? Because I didn't like it... not to mention that I don't need to explain myself to this person that I don't even know! That's another thing, some people on this site don't get that you might not like something, or you might not want to talk to them, simply because you just don't want to talk to them. If you're going to send me pics, wait until I ask for them or at least until we've had a decent conversation. (more than a one sided "Damn, you're hot.")
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Mmm, reading some of these answers has made me extremely hungry!! But I'm really craving a chocolate cupcake with vanilla frosting...
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I like them. I like lacy ones the best. When I want to feel sexy, it's one of my top favorite types of underwear. I wouldn't say it's my favorite style though, I fell the sexiest in lacy cheeky panties.
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Probably my Curves, I usually notice some eyes following me as I walk by. I've also been told I have very nice lips and eyes. (And Obviously my boobs...but everyone's saying that, so..haha)
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I can moan pretty loud... but it is also usually a lot of shaky, heavy breathing....
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I don't know about the actual person....but the model in their profile pic, yes please!!
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Personally, the more aroused I am, the better orgasm I have. I know that sounds obvious, haha, but foreplay really helps. It seems like the longer you drag the whole process out, the better the Orgasm. A lot of teasing, and some dirty talk is usually the best combination for an amazing orgasm for me. If I'm brought to the brink several times before I really cum, then it's usually the best and most intense.