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yes we do...I have not taken it personal at all...Your river photo is a cracker...I lost so many photos when I got up during a back up and the external drive hit the tiles..the irony...
Would you believe Im so paranoid about losing my photos I have a back up hard drive for my back up hard drive
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I believe there are people who we meet in our lifetime that we need to meet. They teach us valuable lessons that we need to learn. Good and Bad.
Is it destiny......no.
We meet the same types of people over and over but its only when we are ready to learn those lessons that we need to learn do we listen.
Is it destiny......no.
We meet the same types of people over and over but its only when we are ready to learn those lessons that we need to learn do we listen.
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Its simple, I feel loved when he holds my hand.
Its knowing that you are always wanted, the confidence I feel in showing that love by slipping my hand into his
I can almost feel my heart swell with love when one of my little ones hands slip into mine. It always brings a smile to my face when I look down and seen them looking up at me
Its knowing that you are always wanted, the confidence I feel in showing that love by slipping my hand into his
I can almost feel my heart swell with love when one of my little ones hands slip into mine. It always brings a smile to my face when I look down and seen them looking up at me
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*A quick edit here, I forgot the MOST and I cant stress how important this one is for me. Its so important its not a guide line it is the 1, ONE, NUMERO UNO, ( you get the idea) RULE
whatever you do
DO NOT LIE
My basic list to meet, I dont think its a particularly hard list.
1. A photo
2. try and keep the close up picks of your crotch hidden
3. fill out some details on your page.. grab our interest by being a little different from the crowd
4. Refain from coming at me with cock in hand, If it doesnt work in a bar it wont work here
5. Humour, I dont know Dudealicious but I've seen him around the forums and he always has something funny to say. (see smart and funny flirting above with Sprite) That is what is attention grabbing/holding.
You dont have to crack a million jokes to keep a womans interest, just keep things light and interesting. This is what will set you apart from the thousands of other friend invites women recieve that start off with, 'Loved your pics, wanna fuck?'
6. Finally try not to hit a woman up the first time you talk, keep it light and flirty, you will know by her responses whether or not she wants you to take it further
Good luck
whatever you do
DO NOT LIE
My basic list to meet, I dont think its a particularly hard list.
1. A photo
2. try and keep the close up picks of your crotch hidden
3. fill out some details on your page.. grab our interest by being a little different from the crowd
4. Refain from coming at me with cock in hand, If it doesnt work in a bar it wont work here
5. Humour, I dont know Dudealicious but I've seen him around the forums and he always has something funny to say. (see smart and funny flirting above with Sprite) That is what is attention grabbing/holding.
You dont have to crack a million jokes to keep a womans interest, just keep things light and interesting. This is what will set you apart from the thousands of other friend invites women recieve that start off with, 'Loved your pics, wanna fuck?'
6. Finally try not to hit a woman up the first time you talk, keep it light and flirty, you will know by her responses whether or not she wants you to take it further
Good luck
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My little rant for the day
Take your appologies and shove them, You lied, you lied, you lied, to ME!.
For months on end, even when I queried you; told you of my need for honesty, asked you point blank for the truth you promised me you were honest and "just being me". Well it turns out that you were not 'just being you' at all.
Why?
What did you get out of it?
What joy is there in lies, did you not think that those lies would eventually be uncovered?
I want my friend back and he's never going to be there for me ever again.
It's as if he has died and I feel lost, I want to be able to turn to him and share things from my day, to tell him the things that made me laugh and the things that had me stamping my feet in frustration.
If you learn one thing from this, take the fact that your actions affect others
And that being sorry does NOT fix what your lies have broken
Take your appologies and shove them, You lied, you lied, you lied, to ME!.
For months on end, even when I queried you; told you of my need for honesty, asked you point blank for the truth you promised me you were honest and "just being me". Well it turns out that you were not 'just being you' at all.
Why?
What did you get out of it?
What joy is there in lies, did you not think that those lies would eventually be uncovered?
I want my friend back and he's never going to be there for me ever again.
It's as if he has died and I feel lost, I want to be able to turn to him and share things from my day, to tell him the things that made me laugh and the things that had me stamping my feet in frustration.
If you learn one thing from this, take the fact that your actions affect others
And that being sorry does NOT fix what your lies have broken
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I have 3 boys and have been instilling in them what I believe to be a code in which women should be treated.
Unfortunately, I think manners in general are fast being lost in both women and men. I cringe when I see a man open a door for a woman and she either gives him hell for it or sails on through as if this is expected with little or no thanks. It's not that hard to acknowledge thoughtfulness from another with a simple thankyou.
I adore when My man does these things for me. It makes me feel loved and special.
Unfortunately, I think manners in general are fast being lost in both women and men. I cringe when I see a man open a door for a woman and she either gives him hell for it or sails on through as if this is expected with little or no thanks. It's not that hard to acknowledge thoughtfulness from another with a simple thankyou.
I adore when My man does these things for me. It makes me feel loved and special.
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Love it, Love it, Love it
Buz you have it exactly right.
I love when my man does this, spending the evening waiting in anticipation, knowing he wants me, that he is thinking of pushing me up against the wall and having his way..... well thats foreplay at its finest
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I have discovered that if we are out somewhere, especially at a dress up social function, that I find the right opportunity to sneak in a very discrete feel and tell her (very aggressively) that I am going to fuck the hell out of her when we get home, that by the time we get home she is so horny and worked up that she is like an obsessed tigress. Awesome!
Buz you have it exactly right.
I love when my man does this, spending the evening waiting in anticipation, knowing he wants me, that he is thinking of pushing me up against the wall and having his way..... well thats foreplay at its finest
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-- JUNE BABY
You’ve got the best personality and are an absolute pleasure to be around.
Well I like to think my friends think I'm nice and that they don't moan when I enter a room.....hmmmm moaning when I enter a room now that doesn't sound half bad does it 
You love to make new friends and be outgoing.
Hmm I do like friends but Im not very outgoing at all in situations where I don't know people, so making new friends is very hard for me
You are a great flirt and more than likely have an a very attractive partner. a wicked hottie.
Hahaha just ask anyone on my friends list, Im a shocking flirt and tease. And yes My Man is gorgeous 
It is also more than likely that you have a massive record collection.
Not massive but I love music so guess thats a yes
You have a great choice in films,
chick flicks, whats not to love ?
and may one day become a famous actor/actress yourself
haha nope, not unless there is some pill you could take for crippling shyness
- heck, you’ve got the looks for it!!!
You’ve got the best personality and are an absolute pleasure to be around.
Well I like to think my friends think I'm nice and that they don't moan when I enter a room.....hmmmm moaning when I enter a room now that doesn't sound half bad does it You love to make new friends and be outgoing.
Hmm I do like friends but Im not very outgoing at all in situations where I don't know people, so making new friends is very hard for meYou are a great flirt and more than likely have an a very attractive partner. a wicked hottie.
Hahaha just ask anyone on my friends list, Im a shocking flirt and tease. And yes My Man is gorgeous It is also more than likely that you have a massive record collection.
Not massive but I love music so guess thats a yesYou have a great choice in films,
chick flicks, whats not to love ?and may one day become a famous actor/actress yourself
haha nope, not unless there is some pill you could take for crippling shyness- heck, you’ve got the looks for it!!!
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overboard and inappropriate?
Well the glance that lingers waaaaaay to long on inappropriate areas.
Yes Im a girl and yes I have boobs...a quick glance should assure you of that, no need to spend the first part of the conversation staring at my chest.
Although on one noteable occasion I did laugh at a guy who got sprung looking and gave me the cheekiest wink. I think this proves the idea that some
Men by dent of their charm are able to get away with just about anything.
What one thing can he say that will piss you off instantly?
I'm fairly forgiving, I understand that it can be quite daunting to approach women and I know alot of women that can be cruel in their rejection of a mans attempts to start up
a conversation, but in general anything that is crude tends to put my back up straight away.
How close to the line do you want him to get?
LOL thats a hard question to answer it depends on the man and the level of attraction.
I like dancing around that line, flirting with the possibilites. Charm goes along way with me
Well the glance that lingers waaaaaay to long on inappropriate areas.
Yes Im a girl and yes I have boobs...a quick glance should assure you of that, no need to spend the first part of the conversation staring at my chest.
Although on one noteable occasion I did laugh at a guy who got sprung looking and gave me the cheekiest wink. I think this proves the idea that some
Men by dent of their charm are able to get away with just about anything.
What one thing can he say that will piss you off instantly?
I'm fairly forgiving, I understand that it can be quite daunting to approach women and I know alot of women that can be cruel in their rejection of a mans attempts to start up
a conversation, but in general anything that is crude tends to put my back up straight away.
How close to the line do you want him to get?
LOL thats a hard question to answer it depends on the man and the level of attraction.
I like dancing around that line, flirting with the possibilites. Charm goes along way with me
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I was going to write I dont have any sexual insecurities, thats one of the great things with being with the same lover for 19 years, they know every little curve and dimple on your body, but its just not true.
I still worry about whether or not he looks at me and sees the small imperfections old and new.
The one saving grace of getting older you gain the ability to say this is me. Love me as I am.
I have in the last few years gained a sense of confidence that I only thought I had when I was younger. I'm strong enough now to say ...."This is what I want and this is how I like it and while you're at it why dont you try it like this"
I dont think we ever lose all insecurities but we do learn that most of them are just in our own mind, that our lovers look at us and see perfection
I still worry about whether or not he looks at me and sees the small imperfections old and new.
The one saving grace of getting older you gain the ability to say this is me. Love me as I am.
I have in the last few years gained a sense of confidence that I only thought I had when I was younger. I'm strong enough now to say ...."This is what I want and this is how I like it and while you're at it why dont you try it like this"
I dont think we ever lose all insecurities but we do learn that most of them are just in our own mind, that our lovers look at us and see perfection
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I've never sold myself and cant see myself ever doing so. Any form of sexual contact for me is based on attraction
I think I would rather do anything else than have to sleep with someone that I wasnt attracted to. Having to then perform sexual acts not out of pleasure or a desire to please but purely because I have been payed to do so would be more than I could stomach.
Others have mentioned going out for dinner and seeing that as getting some sort of payment for sex. I don't. Going out to dinner on a date with someone who has requested the pleasure of my company does not require a quid pro quo exchange of the use of my body for food. If I choose to get intimate with someone its because of who they are not because of what they've given me.
I have asked a man to accompany me to an event, as I did the asking I payed for the tickets. I certainly did not expect the man in question to "put out" in exchange for me taking him out.
lol Im not sure where this little rant is going so Ill wrap it up with ....
No I wouldnt sell myself
No I haven't sold myself
Yes taking goods/money/holidays in exchange for sex is prostitution
One final thing, I have no problem with women (or men for that matter) and their choices. If they are happy to barter sex for gain and can live with that decision more power to them.
I think I would rather do anything else than have to sleep with someone that I wasnt attracted to. Having to then perform sexual acts not out of pleasure or a desire to please but purely because I have been payed to do so would be more than I could stomach.
Others have mentioned going out for dinner and seeing that as getting some sort of payment for sex. I don't. Going out to dinner on a date with someone who has requested the pleasure of my company does not require a quid pro quo exchange of the use of my body for food. If I choose to get intimate with someone its because of who they are not because of what they've given me.
I have asked a man to accompany me to an event, as I did the asking I payed for the tickets. I certainly did not expect the man in question to "put out" in exchange for me taking him out.
lol Im not sure where this little rant is going so Ill wrap it up with ....
No I wouldnt sell myself
No I haven't sold myself
Yes taking goods/money/holidays in exchange for sex is prostitution
One final thing, I have no problem with women (or men for that matter) and their choices. If they are happy to barter sex for gain and can live with that decision more power to them.
