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BelleduJour
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 57
Canada
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As much as I love a bit of ass play, nothing replaces good old-fashioned cock-in-pussy for me 
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Quote by Frank
Hotel abroad, indoor swimming pool.
Wife and I, a little frisky in the pool, aroused!
Communal changing rooms, open shower cubical.
In the shower with her bent over, taking my length from behind. FUCK!
Shower masked our actions from the lady showering next door.
Showered and went for burger.
Such a naughty lucky man
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Tell her! If things are as good as you say they are between you AND she's cool with the cyber and sexting, then communicating your need and desire to keep the fire lit is step one and should go over better than most. On a side note, have you considered and/or tried phone sex and/or Skyping? My ex used to travel quite a bit and it was hard being apart for so many days at a time. We talked about ways to keep things hot and spicy whilst he travelled and tried a bit of everything - cyber, sexting, phone sex and especially camming. For us, getting on and watching each other masturbate for one another was seriously the highlight! Not only did it satisfy the need to be 'together', but the anticipation of him returning home and being together in person, made it that much better.
And admittedly, playing on cam felt a bit naughty which only enhanced the overall experience
Good luck!
And admittedly, playing on cam felt a bit naughty which only enhanced the overall experience
Good luck! 
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Unfortunately I'm yet another Lushie that can't say she's had her pussy pierced although I am intrigued by it for some reason.
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If my visit on Lush at this unGodly hour is any indication, it will be momentarily - this will be my fourth one today. What can I say? It's a slow day for me 
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Quote by loveslegs
no, i would never meet someone off lush to just go have sex with them...
i believe that no matter how original and true to themselves people try to be on here (however few they are lol) they will most likely be a lot different irl... so id like to just go out and have fun with whoever i'd agree to meet, and if at the end of the day (or the next one) we decide that we like eachother enough to have sex then sure why not...
besides... that sexual tension building up throughout our 'date' and then climaxing when we finally decide to go through with it is more than worth it
Couldn't have said it better myself
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I tend to be the one that is more 'dressed up' than my dates - just not my style to be less than put together unless I'm in the thick of a relationship where a level of comfort has set in. I think the issue is that we'd like to see the men we date make a bit of an effort and often times, taking the time to put themselves together and dressing the part fits into this category for many women. Personally, I am not so shallow as to hold a man's wardrobe against him and instead, prefer to seek out the man behind the car, clothes, bravado or whatever else it is he's choosing to show the world. At the end of the day, it's about finding someone and being with a man that treats us well - all the rest of it is just white noise at some point.
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If he enjoys it, I enjoy it and I'm happy to bite him wherever he wants it.
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I'm not a woman who abuses her seductive 'powers' over men never mind one who throws her pussy around for shits and giggles. Although I do enjoy a level of innocent flirting with married men as well as the idea that I can still turn the head of any man regardless of his age or marital status, I would never be so disrespectful as to knowingly and selfishly seduce a married man into risking everything to be with me and me with him. That's a 'no' on it being a turn on for me. But then again, I think my turn ons may be a bit more old school than most.
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Just crawled into bed after a night out with friends and have on a pair of white cotton boyshort panties and white long-sleeved t-shirt - nothing too exciting I'm afraid.
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I tried it a couple of times, i have to say, its pretty poor. I only really did it because I was staying with my uncle and he had so little download allowance i couldn't go on porn vids lol. Good stories are way better, and even without them, i'd rather have an honest chat with somebody intresting, that turns flirty/naughty. At least it feels real and your getting to know the person on some level.
Cyber sex is just so damn dull, i dont understanding how people can be entertained by it, the experience could persuade a glass-eye to go sleep.
Utilising the internet for Cyber sex is the equivalent for phoning your favourite Chinese take-away and ordering just the Prawn Crackers...
Clearly, you haven't been cybering with the right women
Granted, there are lots of Lushies out there that attempt to 'cyber' whilst surfing the net, sitting in a chatroom talking with others, watching television or clipping their toe nails and not really into it the way it's meant to be. They are not hard to spot once you figure them out. I'm not even sure why they bother wasting their time and that of the person their 'cybering' with. I guess that's why engaging in such a way with the RIGHT partner after some normal, flirty get-to-know-ya chatter, makes all the difference. It can and does work for me if/when the mood strikes and the right partner happens to be around.
But then, to each their own
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Quote by loveslegs
This is an extremely complicated question to be answered without actually experiencing it...
But in short, yes if it involved certain sexual 'adventures' I frown upon and no if it was merely a very long list of partners and 'harmful' kinks
Good answer
I will echo this response as it applies in reverse. 
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Quote by kyliekained
Not something that would appeal to me but how about putting the whole into a more explicit story for us all to read?
Lol, didn't even cross my mind but I may do just that ;)
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I had an online 'lover' with whom I had been chatting/playing for almost as long as I've been a member on here. Our sexual chemistry was off the charts but what made it even better was our overall connection that trascended just the obvious. One evening, he asked me if I wanted to play a game and help fulfill a fantasy of his. I agreed and this is what he asked of me...
He instructed me to go out and buy a pair of black cotton cheekies from Victoria Secret (his favourite kind) and wear them to work the next day. Early the next morning, he texted me and told me how he wanted to spend the day sexting me and have me dampen my panties. Admittedly, the anticipation set me on fire! After a full day of sexting, he instructed me NOT to change out of those wet panties when I got home but rather continue to sit in them until later that evening when we had planned to meet up online. While wearing those panties with him that evening, he asked me to masturbate and cum for him whilst wearing them. I was all too happy to oblige. After our time together, he asked me to package up my panties and put them in the post to him ASAP. I happily obeyed. Once they arrived, we met online once again where I watched him open the package, pull out my used panties, sniff and lick them (albeit they were dry by this point) and then wrap them around his raging cock as he masturbated for me. At first, I wasn't sure what to expect but by the middle of it all, it hit me how insanely erotic it was, how erotic ALL of this was.
How many men have done this and/or would consider doing it? Is this something that turns men on or is it one of those kinky fetishes that appeals only to a select few? Understanding that privacy may be an important factor, having the panties shipped to a PO Box or secondary address rather than your home address might alleviate some of the worry about disclosing too much personal information.
Thanks everyone!
He instructed me to go out and buy a pair of black cotton cheekies from Victoria Secret (his favourite kind) and wear them to work the next day. Early the next morning, he texted me and told me how he wanted to spend the day sexting me and have me dampen my panties. Admittedly, the anticipation set me on fire! After a full day of sexting, he instructed me NOT to change out of those wet panties when I got home but rather continue to sit in them until later that evening when we had planned to meet up online. While wearing those panties with him that evening, he asked me to masturbate and cum for him whilst wearing them. I was all too happy to oblige. After our time together, he asked me to package up my panties and put them in the post to him ASAP. I happily obeyed. Once they arrived, we met online once again where I watched him open the package, pull out my used panties, sniff and lick them (albeit they were dry by this point) and then wrap them around his raging cock as he masturbated for me. At first, I wasn't sure what to expect but by the middle of it all, it hit me how insanely erotic it was, how erotic ALL of this was.
How many men have done this and/or would consider doing it? Is this something that turns men on or is it one of those kinky fetishes that appeals only to a select few? Understanding that privacy may be an important factor, having the panties shipped to a PO Box or secondary address rather than your home address might alleviate some of the worry about disclosing too much personal information.
Thanks everyone!
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About 5 hours ago just before I went to the gym and am looking forward to a couple more before lights out tonight ;)
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Yeah, I'm one of those women who tends to weed through friend requests more than send them out, however, I would NEVER say that I 'wait' for a request from anyone no matter how hot or awesome their profile might be - I guess I just don't care that much about such things like some people do on here.
Having said that, I have on occassion sent one or two or three requests out but their profile would have had to been something pretty special to prompt such an action. If he accepts, then I would definitely initiate a conversation/chat with him otherwise, why bother being friends? My initial contact with him would be more of a meet-and-greet to get to know a bit more about him and get a sense of the chemistry before ever considering anything more - I'm not one to jump straight into cybering with complete strangers. However, sometimes a chat is just a chat and those kinds of friendships are just as wonderful. In an event of a crash landing, I know where my delete button is
Having said that, I have on occassion sent one or two or three requests out but their profile would have had to been something pretty special to prompt such an action. If he accepts, then I would definitely initiate a conversation/chat with him otherwise, why bother being friends? My initial contact with him would be more of a meet-and-greet to get to know a bit more about him and get a sense of the chemistry before ever considering anything more - I'm not one to jump straight into cybering with complete strangers. However, sometimes a chat is just a chat and those kinds of friendships are just as wonderful. In an event of a crash landing, I know where my delete button is
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Quote by lafayettemister
I totally agree. It would be like some dude telling his gf that her pussy lips are to fleshy or meaty. "Hey honey, I love your pussy but can you have those meat flaps surgically removed? You know, because the don't really do it for me. Oh and while the doctor is down there, you think you can get him to sew up your pussy a little tighter too? It's getting a little loose."
My point exactly...ridiculous.
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Not at all - I happen to think my pussy is actually quite beautiful 
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If you can't accept the person you're with as they are, then maybe it's time to find someone who is as perfect as you 
. Seriously, I find such a request to be ridiculously shallow.
. Seriously, I find such a request to be ridiculously shallow. 
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Never with a 'complete stranger' (Lord knows where his cock has been 
) but have indeed fantasized about it - I fantasize about many things I might not necessarily do in real life - that's why it's called f-a-n-t-a-s-y
) but have indeed fantasized about it - I fantasize about many things I might not necessarily do in real life - that's why it's called f-a-n-t-a-s-y 
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Quote by loveslegs
faint in disbelief lol... then go and have all of sorts of fun
Did I forget anything?