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BelleduJour
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 57
Canada
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Mmmmm, from a woman's perspective...LOVE IT and I'm thrilled to see so many men who aren't pussies about eating pussy even after they've cum in it. MWAH!!
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OMG FRANK! My ass clenched up just looking at this pic - OI! You are one gloriously horny and twisted gentleman that keeps me in stitches. Luv ya!
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Hmm...I feel like I've answered this a million times. It really depends if I've got a partner or not. When I'm single, typically, I will masturbate twice a day, everyday - once in the morning and once before bed at the very least but often it will be more than that. When I have a man in my life, I don't masturbate nearly as often because I'd much rather have him than any toy I have in my toy chest. I'm kind of a romantic that way 
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I have no problems with it. If it's something my partner is curious about and/or enjoys, I'm more than happy to oblige. Variety is key to an exciting sex life. Besides, nothing turns me on more than seeing my partner so aroused at something I'm doing to him or for him. Bring it on.
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No need for a holiday for me to give my partner the best sexual gift he's ever been given - Í try to make every sexual encounter the best he's ever had otherwise, why bother?
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For me, cybering (like sexting and phone sex) can indeed be an awesome and very arousing experience but only if it's with the right guy. I've said it a million times already - I'm all about connection. Finding that partner with whom I can chat to about normal things as much as the naughty things only allows us to learn more about each other and what buttons to push to send each other over the edge. Just makes for a better and fulfilling experience overall. And trust me, I've had enough bad cybering to appreciate what good cybering looks and feels like as well as what it takes to make for a great one.
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No, I’d not ever met anyone JUST for sex. Yes, there are a handful of Lush members I’d love to sink my teeth into but I’d not just want sex from them. I guess that goes back to me not just having sex just for having sex sake. I mean I don’t even cyber with just anyone. I don’t know, I guess I’m prudish I suppose. It doesn't stop me from wishing I could have my way with these people.. :3
I'm on the same page as Poppet, however, I would NEVER call myself pruddish - Lord knows I have a very wild and kinky side to me! I just think sex just for the sake of having sex isn't as satisfying for me like it might be for others (especially men - I know men tend to love the NSA encounters). Perhaps I still have a bit of morals left in me from my Catholic school girl days
But none of that stops me from fantasizing and flirting and having plenty of fun with my Lush crushes 
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I will agree with all the above but for me, I really hate the guy who acts like he's killing time down there, just going through the motions but not paying much attention to me or how my body is reacting, like it's an obligation, a means to an end (the end being me giving him is oral pleasure). Nothing is hotter and gets me off more than a guy who LOVES to eat my pussy! Just about any other 'no no' can be remedied if I can see how much he's into me.
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I am not an exhibitionist but I do enjoy the excitement and rush of sneaky public sex - parked cars, dressing rooms, restrooms, elevators, stairwells etc., and only engage in such behaviour with someone I'm dating - not a fan of nameless stranger fucks. As for what I would wear? Depends on where I'm hoping to get lucky - typically it would be something that hugs my curves, a plunging neckline (always classy though, never trashy), heels are an absolute must and more often then not, I'll 'forget' to wear my panties 
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Although I am a woman that loves to swallow my partner's cum, I'm happy to fulfill whatever fantasy he's seeking in that moment like giving me a facial, cumming on my breasts or inside my pussy, wherever - it's all good in my books. Like MaryPat, I don't mind the taste or texture (and I have had my fair share of funky spunk) because at the end of the day, I think swallowing is far more erotic and especially intimate with a dash of naughty thrown in for good measure...and who doesn't like to be a bit naughty? 
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Thank God I'm not the only one that thinks this is such a bad idea. Seriously, confidence comes from within not from others. Period. Using an escort service is just wrong on so many levels especially for someone in your situation. Are you needing confidence in your abilities in the bedroom or just in being able to carry a conversation? Maybe I'm not fully understanding what kind of confidence you're looking for. I agree with everyone on here, abandon the whole escort idea and think about engaging more with real people in real life whatever that may be for you - friends, church group, recreational activity, online dating etc. I think being on Lush is a huge step forward and getting more involved in the forums and chatrooms but also being selective about who you friend and chat with can really help in many ways! Good luck!!
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Hmmm...I can't say that I've fallen 'in love' but I have most certainly fallen 'in lust' with several men over the years that I couldn't have for one reason or another. Sometimes it can be hard to tell the difference between the two and I learned THAT lesson the hard way as well.
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Okay - so I originally posted that I was not a fan of the word cunt but have since changed my mind and feel that under the right circumstances, it can be quite arousing and erotic. There is a HUGE difference between being called a 'cunt' and referring to your pussy as such whilst in the heat of a sexual encounter.
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With the right man and the right situation...DAMN STRAIGHT!
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Twice a day, EVERYDAY. I wonder if there is such a thing as masturbators anonymous **sigh** 
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I was with my ex for 20 years - 4 years dating and 16 years marriage. While we were dating, we couldn't keep our hands off of each other! When we got married, we probably averaged about 4-5 times a week. The longer we were married, the less he wanted it and the more I wanted it which ended up causing a lot of problems in our marriage. When I got pregnant, my libido went THROUGH THE ROOF - like nothing I had ever experienced before but unfortunately my ex was one of those men who was petrified he would 'hurt the baby' and literally didn't touch me during my ENTIRE pregnancy 
After that, our sex life was never the same again. I grew increasingly more sexual as I hit my sexual prime like women do when they get into their late thirties while my ex was lucky if he woke up with morning wood. Needless to say, we're no longer married (for many more reason than just the sex, although that was indeed a huge piece of the pie). These days, when I'm in a relationship, sex is paramount and we have it as often as humanly possible given the daily trappings of work, kids and life in general. If I had my way, it would be twice a day, every day at the very least - first thing in the morning and again just before bed. Anything else we can manage to fit in during the day from flirting, touching, cuddling, sexting, oral or a lunch time quickie are bonus!
After that, our sex life was never the same again. I grew increasingly more sexual as I hit my sexual prime like women do when they get into their late thirties while my ex was lucky if he woke up with morning wood. Needless to say, we're no longer married (for many more reason than just the sex, although that was indeed a huge piece of the pie). These days, when I'm in a relationship, sex is paramount and we have it as often as humanly possible given the daily trappings of work, kids and life in general. If I had my way, it would be twice a day, every day at the very least - first thing in the morning and again just before bed. Anything else we can manage to fit in during the day from flirting, touching, cuddling, sexting, oral or a lunch time quickie are bonus!
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I will agree with the ladies above me -I like to know someone before jumping straight into a PM or accepting a friendship. Although this is a 'sex site', we're not all on here looking for the same things and to assume so is just plain ignorant. I'm sure there are many ladies and even more men on here that don't mind the naughty chatter with anyone that pokes them but for me, it does nothing at all and in fact, I find it annoying especially because it just proves they didn't take the time to check out my profile page. If they had, they would have known how best to approach me.
You wanna know me? Read my profile to make sure we're a good fit, send me an email introducing yourself, tell me a bit about yourself, ask me questions, get to know ME and lets see if there is indeed some chemistry worth exploring - if not, nothing wrong with a good old 'thank and release'. There is nothing sexier than someone that is into you and with whom you share the same interests be it naughty or nice.
You wanna know me? Read my profile to make sure we're a good fit, send me an email introducing yourself, tell me a bit about yourself, ask me questions, get to know ME and lets see if there is indeed some chemistry worth exploring - if not, nothing wrong with a good old 'thank and release'. There is nothing sexier than someone that is into you and with whom you share the same interests be it naughty or nice.
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Personally, I LOVE a man who is open to a bit of anal play - a finger, vibe or full-on strap-on - it's all incredibly arousing to me. Besides, it has been my experience that once men get out of their own way and give it a go, they end up wondering why the hell it took them so long in the first place.
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It really depends on the guy. Not all men are created equal and I would never want to paint them all with the same paint brush BUT at this stage in my life and at my age, I have found that younger men are more fun...provided they have their shit together like an education, a job, have a strong character and can carry a conversation beyond "Hey babe".
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Not sure if you're referring to romance that is strictly an online thing or if you're asking if anyone has gotten romantically involved with a Lushie in the real world. Personally, I didn't join Lush looking for romance or love or hook-ups. I came originally for the stories and stayed because of the great people and friendships I've managed to find and forge - and depending on the chemistry, some are more special than others. I know romance/love can and does happen on here be it online/long distance or in real life and I'm thrilled for anyone who is able to weed through any site to find their better half. We should all be so lucky.
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I tend to be completely shaven/waxed but have been know to sport a bit of a patch every now again - regardless, I always, always, always keep the important bits lickably clean 
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When I'm alone, I tend to switch it up between satin nighties (no bra or panties), man's pj top with panties or just a tshirt/tank with boyshort panties. When I have company, my favourite thing to wear is just my birthday suit - nothing compares to skin on skin all night long