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Bunny12
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 62
United States
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I think he better have his own lingerie because if he ruins any of mine he's getting a big spanking! Seriously I like my cd guys to be more girly and wear frilly stuff while I'm in black leather or PVC with chains for a role reversal where he is feminine and I am masculine or the more dominate one. I love making them feel like girly girls drives them crazy! I think many women don't like cd's because it threatens their femininity but I don't feel that way because I think the reality is they are never going to be as 100% girl as myself so why not have fun with it all!
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That actually happened to me and I jumped for joy and now have a whole collection of strap ons! Had been doing the hubby's ass for years with fingers and dildos and always wanted a strap on then one day he came home from a business meeting that happened to be being held near a huge sex toy store and bought me my first strap on and a leather riding crop. I venture to say I am not your typical women in this department lol I'd watch some hot strap on porn with your wife tell her it's your fantasy and see how she reacts. Just springing it on her might make her jump to all kinds of wrong conclusions! Good luck hope she likes it and does you good 
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First of all staying in contact via email, chat, text, cam and phone is most important of all to keep that special bond between you which creates trust. Then it is different with each sub according to what I find their deepest desires are and what my mood is. Some like to be given a list of tasks to complete. Some like to be enticed with porn clips and naughty messages. Most all like pics I send them when they earn them. I like to teach them how to give themselves the strongest orgasms they can have via my prompting which makes for a more intense fulfilling relationship. I believe above all you have to be good trusting friends with fantastic sexual chemistry between you for things to work out long distance for a long time. I treasure my guys and have had them for quite some time now. I suppose I would be considered a unusual Mistress as I think of my subs as pets not slaves and get off on their pleasure as they do mine.
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If you think that macho jar head shit is what makes a real man I feel sorry for you hon. Some of the sexiest men I know are bi sexual or gay. Some men I know who like to have their asses fucked the most are straight! Some gay and bi men wanna wear my panties, some straight men wanna see me in them or cum in them either way you go all men love panties! Take each person individually on their own merits and forget the stereotypes!!!
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Thanks for all the advise everyone I decided I can't live without a SD card reader, a USB port and microsoft office so another netbook it is. I went with an Acer that has a little larger memory, hard drive and screen than my current Dell. Thanks again for all your replies!
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Hey everyone my netbook blew up and I was going to replace it with a similar model when I noticed everyone seems to have an Ipad and the Ipad 2's are at about the same price point with much more memory and a faster processor. All I really do is web browse (Lush of course!) and use Microsoft office for word processing, spread sheets etc. I don't know anything about Ipads and was wondering if you can watch videos, web cam and all the typical stuff my netbook does? So my dilemma is another netbook or an Ipad 2 with keyboard case what do you think?
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Well I can tell you from my Mistress point of view your profile leaves nothing to be desired. You need to make it more appealing with pics in your gallery and your personal info filled out. Let your profile give a sense of who you are and what you're into. If you look at mine you know immediately what the deal is. Good Luck!
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Awe Rubytuesday that's a shame you feel that way. The first time I squirted in the hubby's mouth he choked a bit and I was totally thrilled and laughed! It was like WOO HOO victory after all the cum I've sucked outta him. Being in sitting on his face position really makes it happen. Something about being upright. He likes it so I'm letting it rip. lol
