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Ceolaine
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female
0 miles · Texas

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Well I said never again after the first one and then married the second. After he cheated and got his married mistress pregnant I said never again, well that lasted about three years. So number three is still dealing with my quirks and I love his quirks. We have been together for six years and I love him dearly. I figure it took me three tries to get it right. With that said if it come to another divorce I know what to do and how to get it done fast and I will never try it again... I don't think, who knows. smile
For the poll I did pick Amy, but I would've picked Francesca as a very close second. I have loved that name for many years. In my high school Spanish class we had to use Spanish names and since there isn't one close to my name I used Francesca. It still brings me that 'teenager' feeling ;)
I agree with those who have said it is not the age it is the maturity, when it comes to a relationship. I know several people that are near in age and don't have a stable relationship/marriage. I also know the opposite. I have friends in real life and on here that are older and younger than me and I have great conversations with them. If they say something that I don't understand I ask them to explain. I feel I learn more that way. It would be nice to return to the 'old' ways and have a multi-generational households: children, parents, grandparents... all living together. You can learn from 'older' generations and they stay young being with young people.
I would not be opposed to meeting someone from here. I have met people from online and had several good experiences, but I do know that there are not so nice people out there. I have a pretty set criteria before I let people get to that point. It would make me nervous at first, but what's wrong with a good bit of nerves. I know a few that I would love to see 'in the flesh,' so to speak.
Definitely like a man in uniform. I think that being raised by a retired Marine and living in a military community makes my desires deeper. I have been in the Army and married Army. I love when he is wearing any part of his camo gear and I love to wear his camo top and nothing else. In my opinion it is mostly the protected feeling for me.

The Marine Corp dress blue uniform is the gorgeous and best looking of all the US military uniforms. They all look so crisp, so delectable... just love the look.
I trust my husband and know that he is going home with me, so why should I get jealous. I know my husband is handsome and turns heads, but he doesn't see them. It is very nice to know that he doesn't want anyone but me.
Well I am on the edge of February and March so some of both apply but it is mostly February even being born in March. I have always felt older ;) lol


-- FEBRUARY BABY

Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. Sexiest out of everyone. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest And loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Horny. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions.

-- MARCH BABY

Attractive personality. Sexy. Affectionate Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Great kisser. Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Observant and assesses others.
do you have any fetishes with uncircumcised no fetishes

is it gross...if your not into uncircumcised... been with both and don't see either as gross

is it a special turn on when a guy tells you or when you see that he is uncircumcised... don't care either way

and just any other thoughts on the subject... I really don't mind either way as long as they work
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I know you are right. But if it is really an exciting guy, I have such a problem in waiting all the way to the second date.

Gosh BG76 what if there is not a second date.


I never said that I would rule out the ravishing right away. You got to follow your gut and just see where life leads you.

I have an idea you might like and I have used it before the get a laugh. You can start the second date by going to a different location and just starting up again ;)

(I know the cheese factor has risen lol)
I really had to decide what was the most common answer since they all apply, except the 'don't masturbate.' I have been writing and thinking about plot lines for stories lately so that has been how recently. I have a few lush friends that do the trick for me too and a few sites I frequent for the porn I enjoy. I guess you could say my imagination is probably my choice too.
I have to agree that both is preferred by me. I am lucky enough to have a nice bad boy here at home. He is quite loving, but he has a very naughty side. I think that most people have both sides it is just whether they decide to show both sides to you.
Tough question to answer... I want to be wined, dinned and ravished; but no necessarily on the first date. Call me 'old school' if you wish, but being ravished on the first date is a bit fast. If you want a second date then you better stick to wining, dinning and getting to know me as I get to know you. You know the saying, 'Good things come to those who wait.'
When I drink I have always been more of a flirt. I have a dirty mind with out the drink, but I'm a hundred times worse when I drink. I do lose some of my inhibitions, but there are so few to lose I hardly notice ;)
Either can be both interesting and creepy. I have meet people that want to ask about my experience and my fantasies, I don't mind answering their questions. I do usually let them know that I reserve the right to say no I am not answering that. I do cyber, but only with people I know.

I don't like when people start all hot and heavy, I do like to get to know someone first. The only exceptions are when I meet someone in a chat room and the conversation travels into a private box, then I see it as a quickie and usually goes nowhere.

The 'questioners' that get creepy are the ones that don't take for an answer or ask what I have said no to over and over. I start to ignore them after awhile. I have meet a few that ask questions and get answers, I like answering questions about my past and fantasies it is interesting for me too.
I do prefer the man be the dominate but I also want to be dominating at times, mostly I like to be dominated. I am not very good at the dominating part, usually it turns back to him being the dominate.
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Kids we are in the 21st Century now can we not at least talk about our sexual interest and fantasies with the closest person in our lives.

I look back now and think if my exhusband and I had been more open the discussing the sexual pleasure that most turn us on we very well could still be married.

If you have issues aznd fail to address them you surely are asking for trouble.



You are most correct, we do need to discuss our desires openly with our partners.

As for the question... just start a conversation. I find it best to turn off the tv, radio, what-not and say 'we need to have a talk.' He might be a little surprised that the conversation is sexual in nature, but it might get him more in a talking mood to catch him off guard. Best of luck and be open and honest.
Of course. The best relationships are built on communication. You have to talk to your partner always, whether it is in regards to sex or anything else.
If you are with the right partner and know that you need to communicate what feels right or wrong then anal is great. If you feel pain then say so, you should feel the pressure; but intense pain is not a good thing. I know that there are people that do not like anal due to the pain. I personally like the slight pain and it does wonders for me.
I think it is a personal, maturity issue. I have dated or been with men of different ages and for me it depends on how they act. I don't care about age. I have meet people that are older than me and would not date them because they act like infants and I have met the opposite, people that act much older than they are. I prefer to be around people that are mature but still know how to have fun. If you can't act like an adult, when you need to, then there is no place for you in my life.

As for the money issue, please, there is little correlation between money and a relationship. If you are looking to 'marry money' then you are not looking for a relationship, just a partnership. I personally like to make my money and not take from others. My husband and I don't even have a joint account, we have our own accounts and live that way by choice.
Hubby and I joked about it once in a small hotel here, but there are only 3 floors and not enough time. I would love to if we could find the right time and place. I think it would be very erotic.
Being from 'cowboy country' I grew up around tight asses in tight blue jeans... you can't beat a nice ass in a nice pair of jeans!
It always makes me smile to see people holding hands or holding each other close. I love to have my husband hold my hand and lucky for me he is a southern-born boy and was raised learning how to treat a woman like a lady. We are very different in height, he is over 6 foot and I am barely over 5 foot; so he seldom gets to put his arm around me. He does hold me close when I stand in front of him, he know I love to be embraced my strong arms.

So my answer to both questions is... yes! Please hold my hand, touch my back, so me you love me with just that one tiny gesture.
Oh yes sex and communing with nature is the best. I love to go camping: the fire, the smell of the trees and just being under the stars. Is anything else more romantic? There are so many places that you can be alone with just the one you love.
Oh yes. I sleep in the buff regularly. My husband is very warm blooded so sleeping with clothing on is uncomfortable. We seldom bother wearing anything to bed.