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Christie
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 45
United States

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I like to be controlled. I love feeling that my man desires me and wants me a sexual being and that my consent isn't exactly a requirement.
Quote by javier
Imagine one day he says "if you want to keep working here you must spread your legs for me".


What would your answer be?


I guess this depends on many factors. Are you on a desperate financial situation? Is the guy old and ugly? Could you present evidence of the harrasment if you decided to report him to the police?

So I guess you'd rather dont focus on any specific scenario, just think how would you feel about your boss asking you to have sex in order to keep your job, and what your answer would be.



My answer would be to tell my husband to be sure to squeeze the trigger and to keep his grouping nice and tight.
If all the chores are done (and done right), the bills are paid and not sitting in a pile, and then a nice dinner is ready with a nice bottle of wine...well, then I could be inclined to do
Quote by shi_squared
"I prefer no condom at all, thank you very much"

Well join the world there, smile hehe. Wish they weren't necessary but they are. The advice up there is mostly good IMO. Don't let it ruin the good time, it does not change anything but what happens when he cums, thats it.


If you've got one good man who doesn't sleep around on you then you don't need condoms. Also, if you want to be a mom (I've got three kids now) a condom is not much help.
I prefer no condom at all, thank you very much. While a condom is certainly handy when you don't want to muss the sheets, I prefer the sex without it. In general, since the condom deadens sensation for the guys they fuck harder to feel the same thing and I like a nice, soft, gentle fuck. That's just not going to happen with a condom.
I'm 30 to my husband's 46 and while he is older than I am I don't really think of him that way. He's just the right man for me is all.
Quote by Guest
Whats does it take for a good looking guy to put you at ease in his presence and to let you know he is attracted to you and wants to get to know you?


When I was single that usually involved a lot of Scotch.
Maybe your girlfriend is poly? Ask her if she wants the threesome thing not as a one time thing, but as a lifestyle. You never know until you ask.
Ohhh. Musicians are a weakness for me. I would never have dated one, but they were always very, very tempting. I wish I knew why.
I'm 30 to my husband's 46 and I LOVE it! He's always been more confident than any of the younger men I've known and he's just more complete. I know not all older guys are great, but mine is!
Seven inches is about right for me. More than that just won't fit so why bother?
With my husband it's pretty easy. I just get into some comfy pajamas and leave the top unbuttoned a bit and he does the rest.
A boyfriend of mine did this without my permission and then showed it to me afterwards and destroyed it when I asked. Not something I'd care to do again.
Au naturel is just fine with me for now. I just had my third baby a little more than a month ago and have plans for at least two more. I frankly prefer sex this way as it is much more spontaneous and the pill has a nasty effect on my libido.
A kiss is cheating unless it's;

1) His mom or sister.
2) it's on the cheek and he's French
Quote by DamonX
You always hear women say that "they know within 5 mins of meeting a man, whether or not they will sleep with him". Is that true?


No.
I used to have waist-length hair and cut it down to a pixie-cut when I was 19. I just got tired of the long hair. What's funny (to me at least) is how many guys thought the pixie cut was sexy!
Quote by Guest
I HAVE WORN A CONDOM A SMALL HANDFUL OF TIMES IN MY PAST AND HAVE LEARNED TO HOLD MY ORGASM UNTIL I AM READY. YOU PUSSY IS SOFT AND WET AND A CONDOM TAKES THAT FEELING AWAY COMPLETELY. RIDING BAREBACK IS THE ONLY WAY FOR ME.


It is said that lack of sex causes one to write in all caps.
I prefer one at a time. I had the multiple experience a couple times and I don't know how to describe it, it wasn't painful or anything, but I most definitely did not like it after a while.
I've always enjoyed the simplicity of a silver bullet vibrator. What's nice is to use it when I have a lot of boring work to do at the computer (I work from home) and I just set it on a low rumble and it gets me there.
It's complicated for me. Feeding my babies has been probably the second most intimate thing I've ever done with another person and the reason for that is becuase I had sex and got pregnant. While the act of breastfeeding is not really a sexual turn on for me, it is still a very warm and intense experience and when I start to miss it then I get sexually interested in being pregnant again so I can have another infant.
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Or what about after sex, people are supposed to have small talk after sex, what if he didnt say anything?


If, after sex, he has nothing to say, that needs to be the last time you have sex with him.
The second guy I was serious with wanted me to cut my waist-length hair and get a 1920's style bob and I did it 1/2 because he wanted it and 1/2 because I was sick of taking care of my hair. I mostly keep it shoulder length now.
Things I've thought after sex with a new guy in the order in which the "new" occured:

1. I'm no longer a virgin!

2. I had no idea sex could be this good!

3. Did he use a condom?

4. Oh God. I really, really need to stop drinking so much.

5. Did he use a condom?

6. Oh, my. I am in love!
He could also be interested in someone or something else...such as porn.
I was 23. She was 25. It wasn't a scene out of a porno but more something intimate and caring. I consider myself to be straight, but I'm not averse to a feminine cuddle and a kiss if the mood is right.
Quote by WHR43
Is the commonality M-O-N-E-Y????

What about the reverse we have a friend and she is 13 years older and they have been married for 47 years!

Every woman would like to be loved like she is.


Money is an issue, granted. Until I married and quit my 'real job' and just started working from home I made a lot of money and it was intimidating to the men I met. My husband makes a decent living and at this point is the main breadwinner in the house so things are the way they should be. But I don't think I could have had a successful relationship with a man who was making considerably less than I was for two reasons:

1) Men have egos.

2) While it is not all about money, what a man earns tells you much about what he has accomplished. The fellow who runs the cash register at the petrol station may be a lovely man, but what confidence will he have in society when he's dating someone for whom his month's pay would constitute a frivolous outing at Harrod's? £1500 is not a lot to spend on a dress in London and I have a few of those in my closet from my single and prowling days. Therefore, a man who earns as much as I do was a prerequisite for me.