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Dancewithme
Over 90 days ago
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Quote by Dancewithme
Do people always have to drop in on me at home, every time I come here???



It is getting more upsetting by the day to always have someone around to keep an eye on you for having a simple chronic ailment you've had all your life. This started so long ago, I visited Eleanor of Aquitaine to try to convince her that the Chivalric Code is not popular with the ladies. So I have had this "ailment" all my life. Nobody ever kept any special watch on me before now.
¿Entonces que hay de nuevo?
May I add a few other possibilities that can break privacy. They spend time taking more careful care of themselves: washing hands, taking more showers, having children or friends come by with their groceries, or going to on line ordering services, have to drive to get the food at a pick up time, then before bringing the food indoors, dressing as best they can, they spray and wipe the food packaging down. It may be that they have another person who cares about them do that for them.
We must also recognize that this thing may have hit our own members.
I use a service that tells me what capacity my internet connection(s) have, and what percentage of it is being used at any specific time. I can tell you that the use of the internet at key times, is being used a lot.
Many people are using their time productively in other ways: perhaps tending to their garden, or finally getting some things organized, or catching up on back episodes of shows they have missed. I am enjoying the MLB and NBA channels to watch past series, and great games they put on. It could be watching those gazillion movies
they have not been able to see, etc.
I am sure that all this "home time" has given people so many more occasions to broaden their horizons.
So let's not think that it is ONLY to keep Lush from prying eyes, but also notice how magnetic to the eyes this place is!
May I ask, are some "functions" of the site getting more viewership than they used to?
Let's keep an open mind to understand all of the reasons for lower attendance in Chat rooms.
Always a beautiful natural scene, especially those involving water.....like a lagoon, a beautiful beach, or a river in a gorgeous with cabins built along it.
Always a beautiful natural scene, especially those involving water.....like a lagoon, a beautiful beach, or a river in a gorgeous with cabins built along it.
Always a beautiful natural scene, especially those involving water.....like a lagoon, a beautiful beach, or a river in a gorgeous with cabins built along it.
Spend just enough time teasing during the day to make sure we are "ready."
That has evolved over the years. I first came because my friends told me about it in glowing terms.
There are so many, and under each one there are often a lot of ways to do it.
For example, you could take an online course on almost anything, like learning how to play chess well.
(a) You could work on your openings
(b) You could work on your middle game
(c) You could work on your endgame.
(d) You could work on any of these when you have the white pieces
(e) You could work on any of these when you have the black pieces
(f) You could work on any of the above (a to e) to improve your offensive game
(g) ditto, to improve your defensive game.
(h) You could do any of the above for just one kind of piece: a king, a queen, a knight, a bishop, etc.
(i) You could do any of the above using the mathematical possibilities as shown on line that have been worked out with a computer.
(j) You could study any or all of the above by watching the great masters use them in actual games.
(k) You could use both (i) & (j) together.
This could go on for a lifetime. Some people do that and make a good living by winning games at tournament.
That list is seemingly endless.

Then you could be involved in the art/craft of making the materials used in playing the game. None is easy, and each involves a lot of work and research.
For example, in my family, my father was a skilled wood carver, and burnisher, and made many beautiful set of pieces, used by some very skilled players, or as a form of decoration in a game room.
My brother was a Master, so he made his living playing in tournaments.
As a hobby, I love to make the actual chessboard itself. There are so many ways that can be done. I have gotten some pretty fair prices for some of my boards.
No, they are not all alike.

Some people collect chess sets in a whole array of different ways.

I hope you can see that just around the game of chess, there are many thousands of interesting things you could do.
But more importantly, you could do millions of things, with that kind of specificity.
Moreover, there I have just uses and analytic method to work out the above lists.
One could work on one thing by creating whole new spin offs of an already existing game.

There is no need for anyone to be bored.
Do people always have to drop in on me at home, every time I come here???
Quote by Katherine


Come on, man. We are attracted to who we are attracted to, and it's rarely over a stereotype. There's nothing wrong with being attracted to a race, gender, age, style, whatever and really there is no need to question it unless it's a threat to life (those attracted to violent people, etc). I feel like that's basic knowledge for a 34 year old and especially for a stripper.


Katherine, I agree with you, and must add this:
I have read many interviews with women for have such a preference. What is important though is that they are not just interesting in all cases to a larger cock, but to a whole way they make a woman feel, the way they see life, and a whole range of things black men project.
Does it really matter to anyone but her?

As someone has said, unless it harms others, why should it matter to us?

So may I ask a question to the person who started this thread: why have you, of all questions you could have asked, asked the mean of the statement, "I only date black men?" Why does that stand pout as so important to you that you have started a thread to ask it?
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Quote by Buz
I shake my booty while playing Barry White songs on the kazoo. She is so ready after that.




Thanks Buz!!!! I needed a good laugh!!
I don't mean to sound contrary but NO. Not knowing what I know about it.
Quote by Verbal
I love kissing. I love make out sessions.

I'm guessing most men do.


Of course we do my good man!! I think it is built into the what the word "man" represents.
2001----I had to simmer down my Uni Honors Class as they were watching 9-11 as I walked in the door. That same year I had to sell the only material object I have ever owned and poured my heart into. It was a very bad year for me.

2005
Quote by sprite


i like to say the things everyone else is thinking but they're not willing to put it out there.


Being courageous/gutsy is not a common trait. To be courageous enough to uncover what really brings our erotic impulses, images, desirees,, et laiter, to the fore, and to do it in a way that shows us who we really are, is really tough....yet so deeply appreciated/indentified with by your readers, has to draw them to you.
I am very disconnected to so many writers supposedly "hot" writing, yet a small handful of writers
draw me right in nearly every time. It is so vivid, so real, so heart-tumping, breath seizing, groin and vagina arousing, imagination stiring, and brings out "OH YES!!!-saying." that it takes a lot of courage to be that bold. Each piece is singular, seldom formulaic, and can never be written in that specirfic way again. Ley us be honest: the differences beyween the goof and the great is a much wider gulf that it is comfortable for us to admit.
I might have won the cross-country every meet in HS, but who am I next to Usain Bolt?
Those of you who break new ground, deserve all the credit in the world!
Since it was YOU who penned the words thta made us so suddenlyh in an erotic mood, we must thereby admit to be drawn to im some way.
That is IMHO.
Quote by sprite


a lot of men are into younger women. fuck it, what's good for the goose is good for the gander. you're into what and/or who you're into. you should never feel you have to apologize for that.


I wish more women understood this Sprite. I really do.
Quote by Milik_the_Red
Breathing, lol.

Seriously, I’m 56 and my interest hasn’t waned. In the words of Toby Keith, I ain’t as good as I once was but I’m as good once as I ever was...


Ha ha! Love that song!

What keeps me interested is women who are interested. Stay in shape guys! You never know when you are going to put the tool box to use!
Quote by Ardentmale
The size of her boobs do not matter... Her desire for me is way more important...



Indeed!!
As long as she keeps herself clean, I just want to know if I have someone who would like to play. A situation where two people want to enoy each other's company shouldn't be held up for reasons like that. Do you really mean to tell me thta if you both really love each other, are needy and ready to go, that you are going to mess things up with "my preferences?"
Look, women have enough disadvantages in this world, that we could never repay her for. After all, we put a lot, if not most, of them there. I have found a lady loves it when you show her love and attention when she is pregnant. They love it when we cook, or do the dishes. So what if they have a few things us men don't? Aren't they allowed to have something all their own?
I remember Chaqucer's 'Tale of the Wife of Bath" I believe was its name, where an older woman recommends that yooung men should go find a lady like her to live wiht long enough to get ready for life (including good sex). I have alwaays thought it a great idea! I never ask a woman her age. What does that have to do withy it?
Besides why shjould a widow, a divorcee, or whatever, not be able to enjoy life? Life is too short to worry about that non-sense! Sure would do a lot of help the loneliness epidemic we are having.
Quote by Smoocher


The last line in your remarks says exactly how I feel. Your total remarks are well stated??? Thanks for the timely and sage comments.


I totally agree with both of you my good men.

My question is: How often in a lifetime do we find that, AND find the other person is available to pursue it?
It was either Lulu in "To Sir With Love" or Dusty Sprijngfield singing, "You Don't Have to Say You Love Me."
Wow, I hope I didn't stop people from sharing their fantasies here!!

My bucket List:

1. I have made love to women I have been in love with. I would love to have a single woman make love to me and not just have sex with me.

That is NOT a statement on women in general but a part of personal history. I believe people can tell the difference.