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Perhaps. ;) Why, Meggsie, I didn't know you cared!?

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Oh gawd no! Even vibrators are almost too much stimulation for me. My twin and I were born 6-weeks premature, and our nervous systems didn't develop normally, so we have tactile hypersensitivity. We spent our teenage years addicted to barbiturates to suppress our nervous systems, or we'd break out, from constantly scratching our sensitive skin. Even now, my nipples and clit are so sensitive, I can cum in seconds from having them sucked or played with. A Sybian would blow my mind!
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A couple years ago, my Citrix server terminal went down in my office, and David called our IT contractor to send a geek out. After two hours in my office with me, he was so distracted, he couldn't nail down what the problem was with the terminal, so, since there was some chemistry between us, and he was pretty good-looking, I locked the door and let him nail me instead.
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I generally feel for the OP, I really do.
I've been on the receiving end of a few men trying to strike up a conversation cold. It's not easy and it's something that, as a woman, I've never needed to do, THANK GOD!
Realising how terrifying a prospect of starting a conversation must be, I've always endeavoured to be nice. Unfortunalty, some men see this as a open invitation to get a little friendlier. So, I understand why some women are immediately cold or in some cases cruel. It's not nice but sometimes, some men, refuse or are unable to read the subtle ( or not so subtle as the case may be) signals of a woman's disinterest.
Timing is everything, it's crucial. If women are in a group, laughing, having a great time, I'm assuming that men see this and want to join in...don't. Under no circumstances; it's like falling on a live grenade, messy.
Of course, this is dependent on the situation, girls on the prowl at a club will be more than willing to meet new people.
Women in groups, generally don't want men approaching, we are out having fun with our friends and to be approached by a man without any warning will generally result in simple answers and an attitude. I'm not saying this is right, but in general that's what you will get.
Some posters have mentioned meeting people through other friends; I have to echo this sentiment. When you're in a social situation where you're open and willing to meet new people, most women will take the time to involve themselves in conversation.
Of course looks play an important part in our initial attraction to someone. Its naive and rather silly to assume otherwise and I don't think there is anything wrong with that. I'm sure you do it too, Lovingher17. But let me tell you, if you can make a woman laugh, be genuinely nice, looks will cease to be something she is focusing on. By all means change your style, there is nothing wrong with improving ones looks, but if your attitude is wrong, it will make little difference in the long run.
i think you may need to take a step back and seriously think about your approach.
You may think you're coming across as charming and interesting, but perhaps it's falling a little closer to being uncomfortable for those women you're approaching. Just think about it for a moment from her side.
She is with friends, they're having a fun time and then out of no where a man comes and injects himself into her conversation...
Anyway, something to think about.
One last point, you're dealing with young, immature women, not necessarily a nice species from memory; to men or each other. Give it time, hopefully they'll mature and you'll gain the skills needed to meet on a more level playing field.