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Over 90 days ago
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Quote by hotairgasm
Of course, but he would have to return the favor if his girl were dying of the same ailment.
Indeed!
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I have already posted on this but would like to add something here. Foreplay is a necessity to any kind of loving, sexual encounter in my opinion. But the lady must feel she is respected, cared for, loved, cherished, and that you can be trusted. That allows her to en-trust herself fully to you in any sense, including sex. Without those, intimacy in the deepest sense of the word is just not going to be possible. Assuming those are in place, then a beautifully erotic atmosphere is possible. That comes naturally yes but you have to work on it to enhance it with all the things that the men have mentioned here. Just as a woman can learn to increase her powers of seduction, we men can do something similar with creating a stimulating atmosphere you two can find yourselves in. If she can not imagine herself giving herself willingly to you specifically, then the sex is raw. "Raw sex" would come under a different heading I think, and is not what the lady who first asked the question is seeking.
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You are fucking kidding, Right? You are at that magic age where both the young guy and older gents lust after you. As an 18 year old, I would have given up my right nut for a peek at your boobs. Now as an old guy, you would be at the younger limit of my desire.
Having said that, everyone has their own idea of what is sexy. If you are not who someone might desire, oh well. There are other that do think you are hot.
I so agree with you!!
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You know that in real life, I have no problem getting the attention of women of any age. I don't mean that as a brag but as a point of contrast. If in real life I can have many women friends, and here it is harder to find, then it seems to me that says a few things: (1) how well does the medium show who we are?
From experience, and I have been coming to these places for years, I just don't come across as who I am in spirit and style.....whatever it is something gets lost...we might think about that...(2) is the very nature of any erotic site likely to draw a valid slice of the population as a whole, and I don't think that your average bear is their target audience. (3) Trust is vital in any relationship with promise of any kind with a woman, and no one wants to engage in anything with someone they don't feel safe around. I am hesitant to draw conclusions from what I have said as I am just expressing an experiential sample of what I think are facts as they appear to me only. But, I personally, find I am much harder to "get (understand in a broad sense)" on line than in person, and don't seem to be drawing the kind of attention here from older women that I would in real life, so to speak. Be gentle folks I am trying to open this question up a bit more.....I am not looking for pity.
Is this true for others? If so, why?
From experience, and I have been coming to these places for years, I just don't come across as who I am in spirit and style.....whatever it is something gets lost...we might think about that...(2) is the very nature of any erotic site likely to draw a valid slice of the population as a whole, and I don't think that your average bear is their target audience. (3) Trust is vital in any relationship with promise of any kind with a woman, and no one wants to engage in anything with someone they don't feel safe around. I am hesitant to draw conclusions from what I have said as I am just expressing an experiential sample of what I think are facts as they appear to me only. But, I personally, find I am much harder to "get (understand in a broad sense)" on line than in person, and don't seem to be drawing the kind of attention here from older women that I would in real life, so to speak. Be gentle folks I am trying to open this question up a bit more.....I am not looking for pity.
Is this true for others? If so, why?
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Ask her if she is ok, and if so, if she would like to go dancing somewhere or take in a movie.....then see where it goes from there.....
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Sure, who wouldn't like to sit and chat with a beautiful woman...even if she had no sexual interest in you?
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Challenge her to a game of hoops with the winner getting something good.
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Cheers to you fair lady and may we be stepping out for a night on the town before returning to.......
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I would try with everything I had to see if I could satisfy her.
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a very hard decision to make as she is so beautiful, but I do love her legs (and long torso)...and.....
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I would be awestruck by her beauty at first, but then would have to snap out of it, and ask her if I could give her a ride or help her in some way.
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I would add what I refer to as a "ShitCom", that is any program with a laugh track. I DO NOT need to be told what's funny.
Plus all that junk they refer to as Reality. Yeah, right.
Daddy, I could not agree with you and Jason much more.....BUT I need to add that some of the shows are clearly geared to audiences with ADD.....
In short, they are just not making "entertainment" for people our ages much anymore...but for newer technology influenced younger people. I can't even watch the NEWS. That is a dog and pony show.
I am down to the ballgame....
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Take out for coffee and ask her how her wedding plans are going and tell her congratulations!
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...who were licking their lips in anticipation of the taste of the bulging sack.....
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Granted but you would soon find you are cuddling with a bear.
I wish I could get to know some of the hot women here better.
I wish I could get to know some of the hot women here better.
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Offer him a few drinks, and ask him to share some of his popularity secrets.
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The best days are the days when you sense that you have made a friend you are going to end up loving.