Superficially speaking, she's still hot. I can see guys still wanting to fuck her just based on that, but her nasty attitude and mean girl vibe will probably make her a pariah in her industry. A great many athletes come from exactly the kind of working class backgrounds that she was making fun of and her elitism may not win her over as many big interviews as she was able to land before. The stuff she said was just sooo ugly and to pro athletes, hot girls are a dime a dozen.
In my experience, Leo and Scorpio have been the hottest in bed, and I've had good experiences with Taurus as well. (I'm Aquarius). It's probably all just coincidence, but I have noticed those trends.
It probably also depends on what your own sexual style is - you tend to mix with certain types of energy better than others.
I like a guy that's intelligent, outgoing and just a little bit twisted. I do like a dark sense of humour. Real honesty is more important than loyalty. And fun - the guy's gotta know how to enjoy the moment and not get distracted by the future.
I had a very harmless crush on my phys ed teacher when I was younger, and then much later I crushed on my sports coach who I did stupidly get involved with with a short time (purely sexual). That was about it though - most of my other teachers and profs were pretty old or unappealing.
No, I wouldn't, although I fully understand that once you've been in a relationship for a long time, that animal lust thing either settles down or you have to constantly work at it. Initially going into a relationship, however, that physical chemistry *has* to be there.
Once you've invested a lot and have a strong connection in non-physical ways, the answer to that Q may become more complicated, but unless you're both older (ie. when hand-holding, cruises and pigeon feeding in the park become the focus), I think two people in a relationship owe it themselves to try to work on the sexual spark and see if you can get it back.
I do - both alone and with my BF. I've watched with boyfriends in previous relationships as well. I've also watched it with girlfriends (platonic) but more just to have it on as background visuals. I've never seen it as something to hide or feel awkward about.
The kind I like varies - from softer female-friendly fare all the way up to rougher/edgy gonzo stuff (love the work of hardcore female director Mason). I'm not a major porn watcher (ie. it's not a daily thing) but when the mood hits - sure.
Your best bet is to go into a Sephora store and start sniffing testers to track down something that will turn you on. You might surprise yourself by responding to something unexpected.
As far as the fragrances you named, you might want to try:
Chanel Coco (spicy/oriental and similar to Opium)
La Petite Robe Noire by Guerlain *try the perfume, not the EDT (black cherry, almond, smoked black tea, spices and licorice)
Vanilla & Anise by Jo Malone (I get tons of compliments on this - it's very warm, spicy and unique)
Alien by Thierry Mugler (or even Angel if you haven't tried that one)
Definitely lots of oral. If she has an orgasm or two before you have sex, she'll be more lubed and penetration will be easier. If she's not naturally lubed, make sure you use plenty of the store-bought kind. You may want to start with a finger first before easing in. As well, try to have an orgasm yourself first - either with her, or before you see her if she's shy - that will help you last longer. Don't forget the condom. Have fun!
I've tried many recreational drugs, to varying degrees. I spent a lot of my harder partying days playing with ecstasy, MDMA and cocaine... typically dancing through the night, past dawn, into the next afternoon at various Afterhours clubs. Did the EDM scene quite a bit. I've tried GHB a few times - which I liked to a certain degree, although it's so easy to overdo it and the consequences are being out cold for about 4 hrs - very dangerous. I've seen many people 'G-out' so I was exceptionally cautious. I've tried 'K' twice (not my thing, and really only a bump at that). I've had magic mushroom tea (fun yet still fairly mild) and of course - weed - like most people, although I was never really a heavy user.
The only thing I do now is take a few tokes of weed now and then. I've given all the rest up. I don't regret it, but it was just around too often and became too much a part of the social scene I was on. I can't say I was ever chemically addicted, but there was an element of it slowly becoming an overly regular thing (especially the coke).
Did I have fun? Ohhh yeah. Ecstasy and cocaine were definitely my drugs of choice. The rush, the energy, the the way you can be totally vulnerable with complete strangers, the long non-stop weekend parties. Some of those conversations were pure therapy, others were purely fun. The sex was always off the hook. Every experience was like a little adventure - I've had too many crazy stories to recount (should've kept a drug journal! lol). There were musicians, celebs, hardcore gangsters and criminals, models, multi-millionaire CEOs, strippers, meatheads, and of course - the requisite sketchballs.
I was always more into the uppers than downers. I actually don't like the feeling of not being in control or being 'out of it' and I was also mildly paranoid about hallucinogens, which is why I avoided LSD/acid or any of the harder stuff. I always preferred feeling like me - but just a more euphoric version of me.
Have I had bad trips? Yeah,.. maybe a couple. More so that the effects where stronger than I wanted them to be, so until they levelled out, I wasn't totally comfortable. I did have a bad trip on weed once - I was convinced the balcony of the apartment I was in was destined to break off that night and smash onto the street below, so I was scared to go near it. I wanted to be on ground level but I was convinced the elevators were rigged to suffer the same fate. I sort of just sat in one place for hours, not speaking to anyone and just totally tripping out inside my own head. I've never had anything like that happen before or since.
I did have an experience once where I was basically going in and out of a black-out at a huge club party but unfortunately this was the result of a 'friend' having put something in my drink without my knowledge or consent. That was by far the scariest experience I've ever had on that whole scene. That can happen anywhere though - and sometimes it's difficult to know who you can trust and who isn't just an acquaintance that can turn predatory on a dime.
Recreational drug use is a fine line to walk. But alcohol is a drug too. So are prescription pills. Quite honestly, of the people I've seen go downhill - it's been about the alcohol/pills. No 'evil' drug dealers lurking in the wings... just liberal prescription-heavy doctors and your local liquor store.
One of my all time faves is 'Mavis Gary' (played by Charlize Theron) in Young Adult.
Mavis is so uncommonly funny, bitchy, dark and cynical and yet deeply vulnerable and tragic at the same time. A highly entertaining and complex character that you either love or hate.
I've used the line before, both when I've had a legit boyfriend as well as when I've been single and need to deter an over-aggressive guy (usually in a bar atmosphere or the gym) and can't be bothered explaining why I'm not interested. Sometimes guys take 'getting the girl' as a challenge and this is an easy way to just shut things down without any lingering maybes. Although, it usually requires the "and I don't cheat" bit in bars or clubs because many guys don't care if a girl has a BF, especially if he's not around at the moment.
In general though, I hate it... especially when a guy isn't being overly obvious and is just chatting or doing some light flirting. Saying "I have a BF" is kind of assuming a lot of things and I'm not one of those "if you're talking to me or we're casually flirting, it must mean you want to fuck/date me" types. So... yeah, if I'm enjoying the vibe, I probably won't bring it up until things take an obvious turn that way.
And unless I'm being outright propositioned, I'll probably just work it into the conversation (in a casual way) if I sense a guy is getting really invested in the pitch/play. After a while, I don't want to be responsible for wasting a guys time if it seems like he's on the prowl to find a hook up.
