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Dementorkissed
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 63
United States
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I have been reading books since I was 8 or 9 and when I didnt have my own books to read... sometimes I used to sneak into my fathers library of books (he had a large library of all sorts of books.. none were erotica) to grab one of his... and they did have some juicy ... steamy stuff in them..
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sometimes its not the skin color which makes people avoid people of other races.. it also has a lot of do with uncerainity about the unknown..
Such as likes and dislikes which are culture based...and people shy away from contacting people for the simple reason that they might offend the other person.. without knowing that they are offending them..
Example..
***In the West offering a hand shake to a Lady is totally acceptable.. you try that in Malaysia, or an Arab Country.. women will get offended.
***In the West if a guy does not look into a Ladies eyes.. she will consider him a liar... in India if a guy looks into a Ladies eyes.. he is considered rude...
These are just a couple of examples.. this list is very LONG!, a lot of people have heard a few of these and conciously or subconciously try to stay on fimiliar grounds... not out of hate but out of respect.
So, people dont judge by skin color but like to stay in their comfort zone.. and yes there is a "Glass ceiling" when it comes to working / relations in other cultures...
You will have to try harder to blend in and break the glass ceiling ... but you have to do it in a positive way.. just look at this post.. you got slammed by a number of ladies for the way you approached the issue.
Such as likes and dislikes which are culture based...and people shy away from contacting people for the simple reason that they might offend the other person.. without knowing that they are offending them..
Example..
***In the West offering a hand shake to a Lady is totally acceptable.. you try that in Malaysia, or an Arab Country.. women will get offended.
***In the West if a guy does not look into a Ladies eyes.. she will consider him a liar... in India if a guy looks into a Ladies eyes.. he is considered rude...
These are just a couple of examples.. this list is very LONG!, a lot of people have heard a few of these and conciously or subconciously try to stay on fimiliar grounds... not out of hate but out of respect.
So, people dont judge by skin color but like to stay in their comfort zone.. and yes there is a "Glass ceiling" when it comes to working / relations in other cultures...
You will have to try harder to blend in and break the glass ceiling ... but you have to do it in a positive way.. just look at this post.. you got slammed by a number of ladies for the way you approached the issue.
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What happens to you and the relationship when you go with out sex for awhile?
Sorry, if I wasn't clear before. I hope that helps.
Looking in my past..lack of sex does not cause the relationship to hurt but it actually has made me more sensative to Her needs... made me look her our lives more critically to see where the problem might be.. I have looked at myself more from her point of view to see if I am actually the cause of the issues.
Then when I have found what the real cause is worked to improve on it...unfortunately there have been factors which might be totally out of my control (not me just having sex) such as illness (physical or otherwise) outside forces (job related) etc. which have devistated not just the relationship including sex.
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Ladies,
We have a number of options to contact other memebers here on Lush.. Comment on your page, Poke, Chat Request, EMail...which is your favorite and which is your least favorite... and why?
Do you wait for someone to contact you or you like to innitiate the contact?
We have a number of options to contact other memebers here on Lush.. Comment on your page, Poke, Chat Request, EMail...which is your favorite and which is your least favorite... and why?
Do you wait for someone to contact you or you like to innitiate the contact?
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I've always had an unofficial list of novels/authors I want to read, it grows larger all the time even though I read a lot.
So how about anyone else?
The reading list is always there.. seems to keep getting longer and longer.. but I do keep chipping away at it.
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Quote by SensualDesires83
Hello readers and other authors of Lush!
I am not sure if this had been done here before; I tried searching stories in all categories, but I saw none, so I am asking here.
Havent seen anything like that on this site but would love to read good erotica set in that era..
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Quote by Shylass
I'm still trying to work out how I score the stories I read.
I have a very simple rule in scoring..
I like it = 5
I dont like it = Dont vote
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Quote by SexyBookWorm
How long is too long?
I have written a story for the Spice It Up competition, but I feel it is too long. I have had my closest Lush friend read it and he says it is good as it is. (And it's not like it is filled with nothingness, fluffly filler details; the supreme bulk of it is sex--I promise--just, very detailed, when compared to other stories I've read).
The first story I published is also longer than your average Lush story. And my Spice It Up story is a bit longer.
The thing is: I like detail; the more detail, the more you will take away from the story. (For me, the amount of detail positively correlates with how horny I get).
Thank you! *Your opinions mean a lot!*
length is no issue.. there is no such thing as TOO LONG for me.. today read a 3 part story and enjoyed it :-)
Love detailed discreptions of what is going on.. as long as you dont start repeating similar things..
tell me... exactly what it felt like when the cock went into you!! what it felt like when the male recieved a blowjob.. details.. feelings.. :-)
I notice that the stories which get the most votes are the ones with good details
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Quote by forgedsteel11
Do you like a story with mostly dialogue or none at all? Me I like dialogue more
Here on lush the only kind i loose interest in are the ones in present tense... rest are great
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Quote by Katey32
there are quite a few stories here which tell you if they are real or fiction.. and I would read the real ones before I go to fiction..
Please tell us your sexual exploits!!! :-)
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for a girl.. 3somes are easy.. talk to your bf if he is ok with it.. I am sure there are a 1000 couples out there who are looking for a nice third to come join them.. :-)
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sure.. need to get to know the person actually then i am cool with it
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Dementors from the Harry Potter books.. and the what they caused with their kiss.. :-) pretty simple actually
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Quote by priyanka62
does watching porn during sex helps and does it make ur women horny
YES and YES
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Quote by oldgit
True or false
Any piece of clothing can be sexy with a quietly passionate woman inside it.EkYZw11idrLYMg7a
TRUE
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Quote by Tiemeup
I'm curious...I've been with a few guys that are super-sensitive to touching, licking, etc. on their member immediately after sex or a BJ--while others are fine to keep going. Are you guys really that sensitive down there right after coming or is it a convenient way to put some space between you and the woman after you're done? If it is that sensitive...how long before it wears off?
yes we do get sensitive at time... not all the time and honestly you have to play it by ear as to how long afterwards we are ready again.. but remember this does not happen everytime with me but occationally it does
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Quote by LittleBambi
A question posted in the girls forum sparked this particularly unintellectual question from me..
Is waking up to a blow job truly something every guy likes, wishes for? Or is it a little bit creepy, (insert your feelings about it here! 'or is it...') her 'starting' on you whilst your asleep?
love it :-)
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Quote by CenterLine
What's the point? How many guys out there really think it feels good?
I do!!! love it at times
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Quote by sweetsissy36
ok my hubby wants to share me with other guys . what is the turn/on about sharing your wife or girl/f ?
Watching your girl get pleased while I watch is a huge turn-on for me... and then join in.. for a double penetration anal / pussy... pussy and mouth...
and lets not stop there with one guy joining in.. do issues with a gang bang till she screams for the guys to stop