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Dreamer90
4 weeks ago
Lesbian Female, 35
Germany
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I have to say I got quite a bit of that attention in the beginning. Unwanted chat requests and rather obscene message from people I didn't know.
I figured out ways to avoid them. Being away eliminates unwanted chat requests and those people I wanna chat with, can just ask me to send them one.
Also having a rather tame profile with an insane amount of information on it, pretty much made the messages stop to. I just look like a lot of work and that puts those kinds of guys off.
I figured out ways to avoid them. Being away eliminates unwanted chat requests and those people I wanna chat with, can just ask me to send them one.
Also having a rather tame profile with an insane amount of information on it, pretty much made the messages stop to. I just look like a lot of work and that puts those kinds of guys off.
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If you wanna be sneaky about it, i would suggest being seductive in an every day way.
Like coming out of the shower, when he comes home and drying of in front of him.
Enjoying a good class of wine and a racy movie, that makes his mind wander to all the things he could do to you.
In my experience seduction is about knowing his desires and making them come true. So think about what are the things that normally drive him wild. Is there a part of your body, that drives him insane, subtly draw his attention to it. Is there a n outfit that makes his jaw drop, wear it.
Sneaky seduction takes a bit effort and time, but if it works it is worth it.
Like coming out of the shower, when he comes home and drying of in front of him.
Enjoying a good class of wine and a racy movie, that makes his mind wander to all the things he could do to you.
In my experience seduction is about knowing his desires and making them come true. So think about what are the things that normally drive him wild. Is there a part of your body, that drives him insane, subtly draw his attention to it. Is there a n outfit that makes his jaw drop, wear it.
Sneaky seduction takes a bit effort and time, but if it works it is worth it.
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Quote by dpw
I listen and listen and listen. Then digest it before speaking, which can be annoying when there's a pause.
That is the perfect thing to do. I try to listen too. It is important in every conversation, because we seem to live in a culture of open mouths and shut ears. I have watched people at each other for hours without having a conversation. Sometimes it is hard to listen, but it is always worth it, because you learn a lot and start to understand the other person better.
Really listening to someone is a gift.
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I am not an expert on this, but for some reason the cumshot seems to be very important in hard core porn. Like it proves that it is all real or something.
I assume that is the reason, why they use the jerking off at the end of pretty much every porn clip.
In written erotica it is a lot less common at least in my experience and could just be a result to the norm shown in porn. This is my theory.
I assume that is the reason, why they use the jerking off at the end of pretty much every porn clip.
In written erotica it is a lot less common at least in my experience and could just be a result to the norm shown in porn. This is my theory.
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Are you male or female?
female as far as I know
How old are you?
23
How many times a week do you masturbate?
varies from 2 to too many to count
How many times do you orgasm each time you play?
Sometimes one is enough others I can't stop until I am to exhausted to move - whatever number that constitutes
Where do you masturbate:
In bed?
Mostly
In the shower?
God yes, we have an ongoing relationship
In the bath?
there too
Outdoors?
Does my balcony count?
At work?
Nope
Every room in the house?
Yes, if no risk of being caught
In a car while traveling... ?
Only in the passenger seat
What do you fantasize about when you play:
I have many fantasies, most of them don't include people I know. I have some fond memories I sometimes relive, but other than that no past lovers. I have fantasies about both guys and girls though.
What position do you play in:
On your back?
Most of the time
Standing?
Only in the shower
Kneeling?
yes
Sitting?
yes
Lying on tummy?
yes
How do you play:
With left hand?
Rarely it feels kind of odd, but exciting
With right hand?
Mostly yes
With a toy?
On occasion if there are enough batteries
With water from bath?
Nothing goes over a pulsing beam of water
Written erotica?
Definitely, why else would I be here
Pictures?
No
Movie clips online?
There are some movies that get me hot and bothered
Videos?
No
Something on TV?
On occasion
What is your favorite porn:
I watch almost no porn at all. If I do I like the high class stuff. The quality is way more important than the subject matter
Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages?
No
A chat room dialogue?
No
Exchanged stories or pictures?
Yes
Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating?
No, but a lot of almosts
Masturbated for a man/woman?
Yes
Masturbated for the same sex?
Counts online
Masturbated in a group?
Are 2 a group?
Masturbated for a photo?
No
Masturbated for a webcam?
No
Masturbated for a video?
No
Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating?
Of course
Insert something or play with your ass?
Not so far
Insert something in mouth when masturbating?
Only to silence my moans
Use pain as a method of playing?
Yes
For men and women:
Do you taste your cum?
Frequently
When was the last time you masturbated?
Yesterday
Are you wet or hard now?
A bit
Are you going to masturbate now?
No
Are you a masturbation addict?
I don't think so
What is the most you have played in one day?
Who the hell can keep the count
female as far as I know
How old are you?
23
How many times a week do you masturbate?
varies from 2 to too many to count
How many times do you orgasm each time you play?
Sometimes one is enough others I can't stop until I am to exhausted to move - whatever number that constitutes
Where do you masturbate:
In bed?
Mostly
In the shower?
God yes, we have an ongoing relationship
In the bath?
there too
Outdoors?
Does my balcony count?
At work?
Nope
Every room in the house?
Yes, if no risk of being caught
In a car while traveling... ?
Only in the passenger seat
What do you fantasize about when you play:
I have many fantasies, most of them don't include people I know. I have some fond memories I sometimes relive, but other than that no past lovers. I have fantasies about both guys and girls though.
What position do you play in:
On your back?
Most of the time
Standing?
Only in the shower
Kneeling?
yes
Sitting?
yes
Lying on tummy?
yes
How do you play:
With left hand?
Rarely it feels kind of odd, but exciting
With right hand?
Mostly yes
With a toy?
On occasion if there are enough batteries
With water from bath?
Nothing goes over a pulsing beam of water
Written erotica?
Definitely, why else would I be here
Pictures?
No
Movie clips online?
There are some movies that get me hot and bothered
Videos?
No
Something on TV?
On occasion
What is your favorite porn:
I watch almost no porn at all. If I do I like the high class stuff. The quality is way more important than the subject matter
Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages?
No
A chat room dialogue?
No
Exchanged stories or pictures?
Yes
Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating?
No, but a lot of almosts
Masturbated for a man/woman?
Yes
Masturbated for the same sex?
Counts online
Masturbated in a group?
Are 2 a group?
Masturbated for a photo?
No
Masturbated for a webcam?
No
Masturbated for a video?
No
Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating?
Of course
Insert something or play with your ass?
Not so far
Insert something in mouth when masturbating?
Only to silence my moans
Use pain as a method of playing?
Yes
For men and women:
Do you taste your cum?
Frequently
When was the last time you masturbated?
Yesterday
Are you wet or hard now?
A bit
Are you going to masturbate now?
No
Are you a masturbation addict?
I don't think so
What is the most you have played in one day?
Who the hell can keep the count