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Dreamer90
1 month ago
Lesbian Female, 35
Germany
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O that is an interesting question. I would first watch some porn, masturbate - I really wanna know how it feels like for guys and if it's really so straightforward for them. Then I would go out and just do stuff, experience people, their reaction to me. And at night I would go to a bar and would use my skills to pick up a girl - I think I would have some serious game - and find out how it is to fuck someone.
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That is quite the list of questions you have there, I'll do my best to answer:
...HAVE an admirer or BE an admirer?
I do admire many things, but nothing is better than feeling admiration, seeing it in someones eyes. It gives you a boost and makes you feel better. I don't base my worth or confidence on others, but still it's a great feeling to be admired, no matter if it is for your body, your mind, your humor ....
...HAVE a plaything or BE a plaything?
That's a hard one. I would have to go with having a plaything. even though I enjoy submitting on the odd occasion, I prefer being in charge a lot more.
...HAVE a secret or BE a secret?
Have a secret, no question. Being a secret could be fun under the right circumstances, but having one is always great.
...HAVE the latest gossip or BE the latest gossip?
Neither, gossip is a stupid thing, that can seriously hurt people.
...HAVE inspiration or BE inspiration?
I think being an inspiration is one of the greatest things you can accomplish and one of the best compliments you can give someone.
...HAVE an interesting reply or BE a lame-assed lurker?...
I assume you are talking about the chat rooms here. It's the only context in which this one makes sense. I prefer to participate in conversation rather than just sit around. If I can show that I'm the smartest and funniest person there, it'll be even better.
...HAVE an admirer or BE an admirer?
I do admire many things, but nothing is better than feeling admiration, seeing it in someones eyes. It gives you a boost and makes you feel better. I don't base my worth or confidence on others, but still it's a great feeling to be admired, no matter if it is for your body, your mind, your humor ....
...HAVE a plaything or BE a plaything?
That's a hard one. I would have to go with having a plaything. even though I enjoy submitting on the odd occasion, I prefer being in charge a lot more.
...HAVE a secret or BE a secret?
Have a secret, no question. Being a secret could be fun under the right circumstances, but having one is always great.
...HAVE the latest gossip or BE the latest gossip?
Neither, gossip is a stupid thing, that can seriously hurt people.
...HAVE inspiration or BE inspiration?
I think being an inspiration is one of the greatest things you can accomplish and one of the best compliments you can give someone.
...HAVE an interesting reply or BE a lame-assed lurker?...
I assume you are talking about the chat rooms here. It's the only context in which this one makes sense. I prefer to participate in conversation rather than just sit around. If I can show that I'm the smartest and funniest person there, it'll be even better.
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I get the idea of an had orgasm button. However i like the current scoring system just fine and think more options would make it more confusing. Also I find this site has retained a very professional and clean and inviting over all look, even though it's an adult site. I don't think an had orgasm button would really fit in here.
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I know I'm not supposed to post in here, but that topic really caught my interest and even though you have brought up some very good points I think there are some more. First of all I'm wondering what kind of relationship do you have with that woman. Do you know her well, are you together or is she a random pick up?
Anyways one thing that seems to be undervalued is the fact that a well groomed man in fitting clothes, who is freshly showered has it a lot easier. I don't say you need to look like James Bond, but making an effort is showing her she is worth and at least for me is a turn on.
The next thing that at least for me is very important are words. Especially if he has a deep voice, ha can melt me into a begging puddle on the floor by just making some suggestive comments, a few intelligent jokes and using the right words.
If he then just tells me what he is going to do to me, while sitting across from me not touching, just his eyes wandering the path his words describe. I will start fidgeting in my chair, barely able to keep myself from ripping his clothes off.
Sensuality in general is a huge turn on and can make a woman wanton and very aroused. Those little touches and kisses and smiles can drive someone crazy. Good food, music and wine can help too.
Moving on to touching, massages are always a great start to initiate contact. Even better are slow light caresses and kisses at all those hypersensitive places some man never discover. The base of her neck, the little valley over her collarbone. The inside of her underarm, the part of her back right over her bum and the back of her knee.
One of the biggest turn ons of all is anticipation. One time someone just trailed his fingers from my ankle over my calve, the back of knee, the inside of my thigh up to my core and back down again over and over slowly driving me crazy without ever touching me at the places I really wanted to be touched.
Anyways one thing that seems to be undervalued is the fact that a well groomed man in fitting clothes, who is freshly showered has it a lot easier. I don't say you need to look like James Bond, but making an effort is showing her she is worth and at least for me is a turn on.
The next thing that at least for me is very important are words. Especially if he has a deep voice, ha can melt me into a begging puddle on the floor by just making some suggestive comments, a few intelligent jokes and using the right words.
If he then just tells me what he is going to do to me, while sitting across from me not touching, just his eyes wandering the path his words describe. I will start fidgeting in my chair, barely able to keep myself from ripping his clothes off.
Sensuality in general is a huge turn on and can make a woman wanton and very aroused. Those little touches and kisses and smiles can drive someone crazy. Good food, music and wine can help too.
Moving on to touching, massages are always a great start to initiate contact. Even better are slow light caresses and kisses at all those hypersensitive places some man never discover. The base of her neck, the little valley over her collarbone. The inside of her underarm, the part of her back right over her bum and the back of her knee.
One of the biggest turn ons of all is anticipation. One time someone just trailed his fingers from my ankle over my calve, the back of knee, the inside of my thigh up to my core and back down again over and over slowly driving me crazy without ever touching me at the places I really wanted to be touched.
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Not really surprising:
What kind of Little are you?
Your Result: Princess
86%
You are Daddy's little Princess!!!!! Your daddy adores you and spoils you rotten, because you melt him everytime you walk (or crawl)
into the room!
43%
Schoolgirl
29%
Pumpkin
0%
Angel
0%
Brat
What kind of Little are you?
Your Result: Princess
86%
You are Daddy's little Princess!!!!! Your daddy adores you and spoils you rotten, because you melt him everytime you walk (or crawl)
into the room!43%
Schoolgirl
29%
Pumpkin
0%
Angel
0%
Brat
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Quote by Sinking33
The image will fade in time. and thinking about it. if he was 67 how old does it make his daughter???? and why is she still in school?
why did it feel wrong? if it was good sex ( is there bad sex?) then where in does the feeling that it was wrong come from?
It felt wrong because it was not what I was expected to do by society and that also made it feel right. Of course there is bad sex. You can have sex with people that are selfish or just not good at it. And then there is sex that becomes bad through circumstances like getting caught by your parents or slipping in the shower and bruising your hip so that you can't walk normally for two weeks. Not that any of it ever happened to me.
