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EDWolfe
1 day ago
Bi-curious Male, 40
United States
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The basic thought I have on this is that you meet guys seeking guys the same way you meet girls seeking guys. Probably the best thing I can recommend is to try online dating. I would recommend OkCupid, although whichever online service you choose should work.
A couple of basic guidelines, though: Honesty is the best policy. I don't mean "post your address if they ask," obviously, but be honest about what you're looking for. I would arrange a meeting in a public place for the first face-to-face date. Above all, use your common sense, have fun, and take your time.
If you know some GLBT people, you might be able to get a good recommendation of a person or place to go from them (that is, unless they're interested in trying it with you).
Good luck in your exploration.
A couple of basic guidelines, though: Honesty is the best policy. I don't mean "post your address if they ask," obviously, but be honest about what you're looking for. I would arrange a meeting in a public place for the first face-to-face date. Above all, use your common sense, have fun, and take your time.
If you know some GLBT people, you might be able to get a good recommendation of a person or place to go from them (that is, unless they're interested in trying it with you).
Good luck in your exploration.
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This is one of those questions that only you can answer. There's no real definite answer IMHO.
I know what the answer is for me. I have had sexual experiences with other men. One, I just masturbated next to a friend; the other was cyber. During both experiences, we each kept to ourselves, and in the cyber relationship, I never saw him in the flesh. I identify as bicurious because I have never done anything more than mutual masturbation. I would like to try more, yes, but I just haven't yet.
I know what the answer is for me. I have had sexual experiences with other men. One, I just masturbated next to a friend; the other was cyber. During both experiences, we each kept to ourselves, and in the cyber relationship, I never saw him in the flesh. I identify as bicurious because I have never done anything more than mutual masturbation. I would like to try more, yes, but I just haven't yet.
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I was circumcised when I was very young, before I can remember. In fact, I've never seen an uncut cock in the flesh. I've seen very few dicks at all (most of them at a local production of Hair). I don't have a particular preference in cut v. uncut in guy partners, and if I ever have boys, I would consider leaving them uncut. After all, I think it's their decision more than it is mine.
