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Espresso
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
0 miles · Chicago
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I think the simple solution is for more woman to say what they want or need. If the guy is into you he will try to deliver that. Or you can explore together if something doesn't work for you.
Sometimes I just want to get him off and I'm happy to please him. But if I'm in THAT mood where I have to get mine - I'm more aggressive about it - or at least I communicate it. Like I will ask for things - usually oral or nipple stimulation something to get my engine going. If I don't say something he is gleefully ignorant, while I'm secretly pissed. That's not a good situation and it can be fixed Ladies!
In a nutshell - Yes sometimes it's okay if I dont' come. But I also need to communicate when it is important to me.
Stephanie - maybe you can start it - just let her know if she needs something your wililng and that her cumming IS important to you also. (Evidently it is because you are seeking an answer!). You're awesome for this btw!
Sometimes I just want to get him off and I'm happy to please him. But if I'm in THAT mood where I have to get mine - I'm more aggressive about it - or at least I communicate it. Like I will ask for things - usually oral or nipple stimulation something to get my engine going. If I don't say something he is gleefully ignorant, while I'm secretly pissed. That's not a good situation and it can be fixed Ladies!
In a nutshell - Yes sometimes it's okay if I dont' come. But I also need to communicate when it is important to me.
Stephanie - maybe you can start it - just let her know if she needs something your wililng and that her cumming IS important to you also. (Evidently it is because you are seeking an answer!). You're awesome for this btw!
Quote by naughtynurseI agree with this.
facial hair: mayb, depends on the guy, a little stubble is nice.
chest hair: subtle is better then a mat!
public hair: get rid of it!
I can't stand a lumberjack or Rip Vanwinkle size beard. But closley cropped one on the right guy can be nice. Depends on the guy and his grooming habits.
Quote by Dancing_DollThis is very true. But I wonder if it's because so many authors are not used to getting balance feedback? And maybe They don't get it because some people don't know how to give feedback so you the get the many often repeated phrases we all know?
Recently (on another site), I had a writer contact me saying that since he "respected me as an author" would I please read his story (it was the first he had posted) and give him some feedback. I read it, and gave him some private feedback, stating what he did well and just made the suggestion of needing to separate dialogue into new paragraphs. I guess he didn't appreciate anything negative or constructive, as he promptly went and bombed one of my stories. Sooo... I've realized that writers can be rather overly sensitive, and just because they say they want feedback, it usually means that they only want glowing praise. In this case, I didn't even vote on the story, I just gave him feedback, and it still backfired on me. It tends to make me shy away from saying anything constructive to writers, other than ladling on the praise and the perfect scores if/when I see fit. Sad, I know for the mature authors that genuinely welcome feedback, but sometimes it's hard to know.
I had one my rare pieces of constructed feedback and I wanted to kiss the guy. I nearly fell out of my chair but appreciated his honesty so much.
I think it was the WAY he said that made me not be defensive. He came off as supportive rather than grumpy lol.
summer lovin' in deed.I love the "back to the top" feature that's at the bottom of our profile pages.
Similarly, can we have a "get to the bottom" feature at the top of the profile pages? Sometimes I want to leave a comment or post a pic and many lushes have TONS of pics/gifs/videos posted. It's a visual hangover seeing all that when I just want to take 2 seconds to let someone know I'm thinking of them! I'm sure others feel the same about mine!
Maybe we can call it "smack that bottom" or something else cheeky?
Similarly, can we have a "get to the bottom" feature at the top of the profile pages? Sometimes I want to leave a comment or post a pic and many lushes have TONS of pics/gifs/videos posted. It's a visual hangover seeing all that when I just want to take 2 seconds to let someone know I'm thinking of them! I'm sure others feel the same about mine!
Maybe we can call it "smack that bottom" or something else cheeky?