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Espresso
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
0 miles · Chicago
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I've been here since February so I'm fairy new. I have seen so many of those "I don't friend guys" "don't even attempt to talk to me or look at my profile or breathe if you have a dick and balls" profiles.
Most of them sound incredibly BITCHY. As a straight women who is open to being friends with everyone - it totally turns me off and I don't want to know them better.
And yes there are some creepers who give you good reason to be hesistant but so far that hasn't been my full experience on Lush. Go old ignoring them works wonders usually.
But what do I know, apparently you guys have taught me that it may be men in disguise anyway. *mind boggles*
Most of them sound incredibly BITCHY. As a straight women who is open to being friends with everyone - it totally turns me off and I don't want to know them better.
And yes there are some creepers who give you good reason to be hesistant but so far that hasn't been my full experience on Lush. Go old ignoring them works wonders usually.
But what do I know, apparently you guys have taught me that it may be men in disguise anyway. *mind boggles*
I love to sing. I can carry a tune though my voice is not gospel diva size!
I once sang in a choir that did a Christmas concert at the Chicago Theater. It's a legendary theater and it was so amazing to be behind the scenes. The walls are covered with the signatures of every performer that has ever played there. I was so happy to see Patrick Stewart's there (Captain Picard for you non-trekkies).
Oh, yeah I love Star Trek - mostly next generation but also the original.
Okay, I'll shut-up now!
I once sang in a choir that did a Christmas concert at the Chicago Theater. It's a legendary theater and it was so amazing to be behind the scenes. The walls are covered with the signatures of every performer that has ever played there. I was so happy to see Patrick Stewart's there (Captain Picard for you non-trekkies).
Oh, yeah I love Star Trek - mostly next generation but also the original.
Okay, I'll shut-up now!
I like a Firm tongue on my clit! A slow tongue, a fast tongue....tongue! I used to like only tongue with no finger in my holes. But I'm more open to that now.,..
You poor guys, again trying to figure out what women want. But think of it like any other like/dislike. Some like their steak well-done, some want it rare - just give them what they want.
I think the simpliest advice I can give is to be thoughtful. Communicate in word and deed that you do want to please her, that your pleasure is increased when she is pleased.
You poor guys, again trying to figure out what women want. But think of it like any other like/dislike. Some like their steak well-done, some want it rare - just give them what they want.
I think the simpliest advice I can give is to be thoughtful. Communicate in word and deed that you do want to please her, that your pleasure is increased when she is pleased.
I definitely get turned on as I'm writing. If I am not turned on I don't have the passion and tiny details that make a good erotic story get under your skin. This goes away after a million readings and edits. Honestly, I'm sick of the damn story by the time it's ready to be published!!!
You know how a prizefighter doesn't indulge in women and sex until after his fight? Sometimes I will abstain to get my juices to a critical edge and it works into my stories...
But, also their are times I need to physically do a position to get the true life feel and mechanics. I give my husband a workout. He loves that I write "dirty stories" haha.
You know how a prizefighter doesn't indulge in women and sex until after his fight? Sometimes I will abstain to get my juices to a critical edge and it works into my stories...
But, also their are times I need to physically do a position to get the true life feel and mechanics. I give my husband a workout. He loves that I write "dirty stories" haha.
As far as lush I don't have a specific limit. I take their interests and our interactions into consideration. I do have the best conversations and chats with people my age or older though.
In real life I usually dated someone around my age or within 5 years older but before I got married I fell for someone 5 years younger and my hubby is younger - so I think it's best to be open as long as the person is of legal age! With that said, younger people are still growing and learning and the older a person is the more set in their ways they are...
In real life I usually dated someone around my age or within 5 years older but before I got married I fell for someone 5 years younger and my hubby is younger - so I think it's best to be open as long as the person is of legal age! With that said, younger people are still growing and learning and the older a person is the more set in their ways they are...