Briefly from the guys perspective, or at least mine. giving it doggie get me to orgasm faster. Like to finish that way.
About half the women I meet seem to prefer it that way.
The point about clitoral stimulation was raised. I did once mount a lady from behind while she was in 69 with another male. Evidently it was good for her as we had to all but peel her off the ceiling afterwards.
I can be thrilled with big girl, but fit thrills me a bit more. Attiude & other traits count too.
More mental than physical. Abuse @ cuckolding games are out. Nothing that humiliates another person.
Her on top or under, legs around me, arms clapping each other & moaning in intense pleasure.
After that is would be giving or receiving head
Mounting a partner from behind can get me to orgasm really fast.
Grape seed oil works for me. Coconut oil is ok but requires being warmed up and liquified. At room temp it is a paste.
This morning, solo. Perved pics in the chat rooms here while enjoying myself.
Have been in only one FMF/FFM near 40 years & that one was lame. It all been MMF or MMFMM in recent years. So I'm really hoping for a pair or more of generous women to invite me to share their bed for a evening.
Really tough call. First house party/orgy at age 21? Early last year when on a business trip a woman met me for a threesome. The other guy never showed, but her & I had three solid hours of intense sex and conversation. We met several more times after that for groups and 1-1 & its always been well above average. If I meet someone as into massage as I am it usually get intense.
Sometimes, but I wonder if it was more subconscious cues from her body language.
I started with 3somes & group sex at a relatively young age at 21. Its nearly always been great. Had some really intense sexual relationships with some women sharing the group sex together, and expanded some sexually.
Done it a number of times, & enjoyed it. For some reason my partners at the time were not seriously committed to it and regarded it as foreplay. The on exception was a lady who was trying Tantric sex with me.
Something I've dabbled in off and on for many years. Had several partners, briefly, but none were able to put a lot of time and patience in it. Practiced it some solo too. Either way it enhanced the sex & helped extend it, and blurred the line between sex and my overall physical awareness & well being.
However I've just dabbled in it & would be happy to be tutored by someone very experienced.
After you have discussed it, done your research, and discussed it again. Search out the local sex clubs in your area. Many have a BSDM nite. You can go observe a few times. Most of the folks attending those things are there just to watch, so no need to be embarrassed about not participating. If you decide to explore further go to a swinger hook up site & look for BSDM couples in your area who are comfortable with newbies like yourself.
69 is great as foreplay, usually one if you are going to orgasm. Last time I started with 69 she got control & brought on my orgasm while I kind of ineffectually shook with my nose in her labia.
Since you are going solo I'd recommend reading up on Tantric or meditative sex and see if that is for you.
I'd also not dismiss all thoughts of sex with others. While vagina or oral penetration may not be on the table sharing your experience (like you are doing now with us) with others may still be a positive thing. There are some web sites, some very tasteful focused on mastrubation & sharing that with others. In more than fifty years of sex I've learned there a lot of way to sexual sharing and intimacy & the more your explore the more you appreciate and enjoy your favorites. Actually having someone orgasm with you is part of the personal growth experience.
Thanks for the replies. Looks like the majority of the respondents prefer to ride, cowgirl, on top, whatever, & "control" seems a common reason. Not a big sample but, it does bring to my mind why there was not much cheering for other positions.
Disease is the problem with random bar or car encounters. The men I have sex with have usually been from established swinger venues, web sites in the modern times. Couples looking for bi males are very safe bets, and the single males with endorsements or validations on their profiles. If the guy is diseased or abusive he's going to be outed on the site fairly quickly.
Of course I understand that for some folks its the thrill of the entirely anonymous encounter that is the attraction.
This afternoon my female coworker & I were enchanted by a cashier at the hardware store. The instant we were nearly out of earshot my friend burst out with "She's adorable!" & I simultaneously declared that "I want her". On the way back to the work site we searched for excuses to go back to the store and flirt with the cute cashier further. Not the first time we have suddenly had this experience & we both assume someday we might score together with some young hottie.
So, heres my question; Have many others here swooped up a third for sex unexpectedly or spontaneously. Do you & a buddy or serious partner keep open to such spontaneous possibilities of actively hunt for fast pick up, as opposed to a longer courtship or extended seduction for a threesome? Or has it happened unexpectedly & left your surprised?
Share your stories good or bad.
A couple years ago I had a FWB who discovered she could orgasm using a strap on men. She never used it on women, but enjoyed her men. Showed me a video of her and a couple other guys collectively topping a third man. She was pretty much one of the boys in the that situation. I found when she took it off she'd be more or less normal woman sexually & was just fine with me or another man she'd just fucked reversing & being manly with her.
Mastrubated Saturday morning. Spent twenty minutes caressing myself until I had a full body orgasm, but without ejaculation.
Define 'addiction' please
Half a dozen? I'd have to think about it & I'm tired. More than men I've done anal with. Its not been that big a deal with me & a majority were not all that pleasurable even if enthusiastic.
I work some with veterans, about ten hours a week. mostly dispersing emergency assistance and passing out phone numbers for assorted veterans assistance sources. About half those I see have health issues, often more than one problem. ie: PSTD or TBI (traumatic Brain Injury = concussion) also accompanies nutritional problems, stress induced physical problems, or physical wounds. The Fourth of July is coming up & several I'm acquainted with are stressing already, For the PSTD afflicted the Glorious 4th is often hell.
Have met a few who enjoy it. More these days that 20-40 years ago. Also since I returned to swinging I've met a lot more women who are more than casual voyuers. Who get excited & ready for sex, or who mastrubate watching other have sex.
How about no hands two mouths?
