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GabrielSweet
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Well, of course, I would fuck her ....... what, oh sorry wrong post.

Well, first off I would like to thank *burquelle* *Graywolf052* and *Innocent_kiwiman* because without you here I would feel so odd.

For me it was Aug 28, 2012.

Then I got a 'Dear John' and she was gone. I envy the ones that had to look st their watch to see how long it had been.

I am also pretty sure that, even though she didn't say (on this page at least), that Sprite was having sex as she was writing her response .......


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Sorry buddy I like you and all but I am gonna have to pass ....

Now who knows, a little tequila, maybe enough weed, a lonely night, you on a horse ..... wait did I say that out loud .......

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I am not friends yet but I would love to be and I believe I could become very fond of her .......
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I believe she is really nice, especially when she wants to be naughty **S**
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yes with both if they would have me........... or watch if they won't **S**
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Jumpin back in for a bit then taking her back to the beach to play in the sand ....


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Kiss and lick, then lick and Kiss and then start over ...... Swirl rules ...


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well lets see I would say .... take out for a drink, take home and fuck, then start dating ..... works for me

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Well, it is a process that starts with controlling the orgasm, when the sub get close to finishing you slow enough to keep them ready to cum (on the edge) but not enough to let them fall over the edge.... You keep the stimulation just enough without triggering the orgasm, It does not take long for the sub to control their orgasms and not cum without permission. I have seen subs that could practically cum on command without stimulation. So like anything it is a process where you build up to it, some include punishment or correction for cumming without permission.

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I prefer tiny round globes of pleasure .....

I tend to agree with the "shape" crowd.
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I do not really know ginger but I am sure I could be very fond of her. I love all her posts ....

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I usually do not masturbate alone, I need the other persons involvement. I do love edging, but for me it is mostly just playing during a movie or reading. Not to cum, just to gain the feelings when I read or watch. That said I love to edge my partner and let her ride that edge for as long as she can. I like to stop and let the feelings die back and then bring them back harder.... over and over until they can't stand it and HAVE to explode.


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Yes .... a few, and now there is this adorable lil lady from the UK that I would love to get very close to .....


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I prefer cowgirl, so I can watch her and play with her better. I see cowgirl as more playful and watching her drive herself to her orgasm (I love a slow touchy feelie cowgirl session) and doggie is me more aggressive and driving her toward her orgasm ...


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SO far it seems we are in agreement. There needs at least some connection for it to be at it's best. I have never had a situation with someone that I have no connection to that equaled what happened with someone I feel something for. Honestly it was about the same as far as what was done to each other, but it was not the same, still lacking. But that is just me.

Paul, if that is REALLY your name lol, I don't necessarily agree with the idea of a formula since every Dom and every sub is different inside and has different needs. I have known sub couples and Dom/me couples that have a very fulfilling sex life and if something is lacking, they have learned that together they should seek out ways to re-spark their sexual adventures. As with any other relationship they need to keep it fresh and exciting, as long as it is together, unless of course they are open and allow each other to play away from home. So I do agree with Scott, (are you the guy my ex took off with?), not always love but some connection is important. As well as aftercare. I know this is mostly a D/s idea to sooth anything done during a BDSM session but it does relate to everyone. Take the time to show how much you care for the other person rather that just get dressed and run. (I know sometimes it is necessary, you know, the movie ends, the light changes, someone comes home early etc.... LoL) but take the time, it IS always worth the results.

Moving on. Bethany, you are adorable and so hot and amazing. But I think your view D/s is missing some things though. I have never been in a D/s relationship that was not equal at its core. A true sub is actually the real power in the relationship. Without a sub a Dom is just a bully. I am a Daddy, so my dynamic is different that other Doms, but I have never felt as though I was superior or above the person I was with, she gives up control and the Dom (He or She) takes it to give the pleasures that the sub craves. I think the internet (chatrooms) and certain movies have given a misleading impression of the life. A D/s, or DD/bg relationship is very loving and caring. Not all Doms want to hurt and not all subs want to be hurt. There are degrees. I would never try to bring someone into the life that didn't have that desire for it is rarely something you can just decide to be. I for one do not wish to hurt anyone, now corrections are part of it since that is a good way to learn, but I do know Dom/mes that have NEVER had to even spank. Again that depends on the desires of the partners. I have seen many D/s relationships over the years that were more loving, more trusting, and closer than any vanilla one. Most of these relationships are not that different from your sex life, just the boundaries and roles are more defined and what each needs. I believe the Doms that do not see their sub as a equal, do not truly understand the life. Just my opinion. Now a Master/slave is a completely different dynamic altogether.

That said, I may be be a Dom or a Daddy, but that does not define me. I pride myself on finding out what my partner really wants and needs. I was in a vanilla marriage for 35 years and was never her Dom. Bless her heart she tried but it was not in her to be a sub, so I stopped being a Dom.

Megan - I LOVE your relationship. I was in a poly family for a time and they can be wonderful. I envy that you seemed to have reached such an excellent balance ... Bravo. You have what I have wanted for years. Y'all seem to have the D/s poly idea down good, but the roles are interchangeable for you. I have a real issue with the sub role, due to my time in the service.

Lily - you fit in the category 'In the Bedroom' enjoying a D/s play style. Serious as you can be but not living it fully 24/7. and as with Megan you switch depending upon your and your partners mood. That is wonderful that you embrace the possibilities.

As you can see there are as many different type of D/s relationships as there are Doms and subs. Everyone is different.

DAMN did I type all that?? I shouldn't give my opinions when medicated LOL.




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Don't tell anyone I snuck in to put in my .

First off, even though you can't get fully erect, it doesn't mean you are limited to kissing kitty. Don't take that wrong, it is a LOVELY way to spend a afternoon and but there are toys, your fingers, food, vacuum cleaner attachments, well, you get the idea and it is only limited by your imagination ( and how well you can clean them). Not knowing the reason for your issues, so many of them can be corrected. If all else fails they can put in a penile pump to manually get you hard. But loss of an erection doesn't mean a loss of intimacy, you only need to get a little creative. Using toys (and other things) can also be much more intimate. You are right there watching the action as well. Learn what really turns women on with your fingers, tongue and toys. I suggest talking to some of the lovely lesbians of Lush and just ask? In my experience they enjoy helping someone that wants to learn.

ALSO, talk about it, tell her the issues you have and you might find that most are very willing to work around those issues, especially if there is a connection and not just to fuck. I wish you the best of luck.

Lori ...... I would in principle have to agree and bow to a Master but some of us 'penis packers' have taken the time to learn and understand. Also, we do not have a practice pussy like you ladies do to at least play with. LoL I suggest you find a few NEW male friends..... send me a message, let's talk ....

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Well, as you can see just like with everything else with sex it is very subjective. This thread has run the spectrum from an adamant No, Not at all to a very exuberant HELL YES!!!!!!! Not every woman likes everything we see in porn or even TV and movies. The ones that do, don't want it all the time, it is a desire thing, what is needed at that moment. You either have to learn to expect and figure out what she needs or you have to communicate and make her understand you WANT her to tell you what she really wants.

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No ,, most of this is acting out phony intent…. Sex isn't a movie you are starring in ... I find much more passion when my partner wants to please me with what he or she is naturally.


I totally agree, stop worrying about what to do and just do what you know, get good at that.

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It requires lots of sensitivity and some guys never handle it. Have to stop 2 of 3 at first, cause it hurts too much. Got a shorter haircut lately to belittle their urge.


I think the problem is that they themselves do not understand the need or craving to have hair pulled or a spanking or so many other things that don't happen every time so they do not know how to find out if that is what their partners want and they just say what the hell and try. Damage done. Communicate, it solves almost everything.




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