I try to always use me, a few times I used something to match the season. I do not avoid telling people I am on Lush or that I write erotic stories. My friends and family know and are supportive. I guess in reality I do not want to frighten anyone the first time they might see me for real. So I lessen the shock. I usually just use the picture from my wanted poster.
AS long as it is all SSC then age is just a number. Please enjoy your utmost fantasies. The only people that age (legal of course) should concern are the two (or more) people involved. No one else really has a right to an opinion unless asked for. ENJOY.