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Gramps
2 months ago
Straight Male, 84
0 miles · Florida
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It has been many, many years since my wife and I have had sex and it is now ten years, two and one half months since since she has let me touch her or since she has touched me. We have been married for 48 years and had frequent and [at least for me] very enjoyable sex together although she would never touch my penis except to help reinsert me if I popped out accidentally while we changed positions before we reached climax. We have our two kids and she didn't have long labors or difficulty delinering. She has never given me oral but she would never hesitate suggesting that I eat her ( we could be out and she'd say "let's go home so your beard can meet my beard") - and she never jerked me off except your two times 10 years ago when we got close for about one week; and then she did it like an old pro. She will not even discuss with me my needs and my wants - our daughter has tried to intervene with her for me and can't get any positive reaction.
In June 1991 while we were having a great 25 anniversary vacation at a pleasant resort she told me that it isn't because of anything I did or anything I didn't do that her dislike for sex is just her. She claims that there isn't anything physically wrong with her - but she won't let me discuss the "no sex" with her doctors. My guess [supported by our daughter] is that her reluctance is based on indoctrination in her formative years that all sex is dirty and only bad girls will do it - non of her three sisters has ever dated.
Other than no sex, we have a full life together, travel together, etc. and have meals together every day. and we still sleep in the same bed - but without any physical contact. Although I've considered moving out, there hasn't been any discussion of divorce.
I am able to openly talk about sex with you; message me anytime. Yes, erotic chat has been a life [and sanity] savior.
In June 1991 while we were having a great 25 anniversary vacation at a pleasant resort she told me that it isn't because of anything I did or anything I didn't do that her dislike for sex is just her. She claims that there isn't anything physically wrong with her - but she won't let me discuss the "no sex" with her doctors. My guess [supported by our daughter] is that her reluctance is based on indoctrination in her formative years that all sex is dirty and only bad girls will do it - non of her three sisters has ever dated.
Other than no sex, we have a full life together, travel together, etc. and have meals together every day. and we still sleep in the same bed - but without any physical contact. Although I've considered moving out, there hasn't been any discussion of divorce.
I am able to openly talk about sex with you; message me anytime. Yes, erotic chat has been a life [and sanity] savior.
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I enjoy chatting with friends, people I find interesting and are able to converse intelligently. I like people and I'm "a listener". And yes, when conversation is naughty and she is alive in my imagination I get a wonderful feeling - yes, turned-on.
So YES, with the right person, I enjoy "naughty chat" - both in private and in certain chat-rooms.
So YES, with the right person, I enjoy "naughty chat" - both in private and in certain chat-rooms.
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Defiantly NOT by choice and decades too long.
My wife reverted to her anti-sex up-bringing after our two kids were born and for "commitment" reasons I've stayed in the marriage. Yes, there has been some touching but so long ago I've forgotten the feel and taste of a woman.
My story "Sailing ..." is still on Lush and is mostly autobiographical stating my situation.
My wife reverted to her anti-sex up-bringing after our two kids were born and for "commitment" reasons I've stayed in the marriage. Yes, there has been some touching but so long ago I've forgotten the feel and taste of a woman.
My story "Sailing ..." is still on Lush and is mostly autobiographical stating my situation.
