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HK4167
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 53
United States
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kochankatulipan, you're not the only guy got this issue there. It had happened to me several times, not frequent but it sure happens from time to time.
At first it seems fun because it kind of boost up my ego, allowing me to go on for long time bringing her multi-orgasms. But when we're both physically exhausted it's kind of burden. I really want to come but can not, and I need to explain to her it's not her problem.
We talked about it after it happened a few times. I told her it's not her skill or other things that I can not come, it's me. Maybe I concentrate or stress too much.
Now it still happens, but we're cool with it. She's quite playful so when it happens, I let her play with it a little just fo fun, like measure its length, count the winkles on it...kind of like cuddle game after we have sex, and let it cool down by itself.
At first it seems fun because it kind of boost up my ego, allowing me to go on for long time bringing her multi-orgasms. But when we're both physically exhausted it's kind of burden. I really want to come but can not, and I need to explain to her it's not her problem.
We talked about it after it happened a few times. I told her it's not her skill or other things that I can not come, it's me. Maybe I concentrate or stress too much.
Now it still happens, but we're cool with it. She's quite playful so when it happens, I let her play with it a little just fo fun, like measure its length, count the winkles on it...kind of like cuddle game after we have sex, and let it cool down by itself.
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Definitely no. I was that kid and my childhood was never happy, neither did my folks. They finally divorced after 20 yrs of miserable sexless marriage filled with constant fight and seperation. I really wished that they had done it sooner.
And you know the worst part? They keep on pulling out 'we did it for you' crap on me, making me feel guilty that my birth maybe a mistake and the cause of all their pain. I don't think they did it intentionally, because I know they love me. But sometimes when they're in the rage they could not control what slipped out of their mouth, and when I was kid I took it really hard.
And you know the worst part? They keep on pulling out 'we did it for you' crap on me, making me feel guilty that my birth maybe a mistake and the cause of all their pain. I don't think they did it intentionally, because I know they love me. But sometimes when they're in the rage they could not control what slipped out of their mouth, and when I was kid I took it really hard.
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When I got home from work, usually my brain is overwhelmed and tired. I really need a hot shower to regroup myself, to get my mind off work before I could concentrate on anything else.
So for me, shower and dinner first would be great. I need to recharge myself first so my tiresome won't affect my performance and disappoint her.
So for me, shower and dinner first would be great. I need to recharge myself first so my tiresome won't affect my performance and disappoint her.
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Quote by conroe302
I've always looked for the ones who could be the Lady in the street and the freak in the sheet. I want them to controller themselves (play well with others) during the day but be ready to fuck our brains out at night without limits.
A bit of a challenge to find so sampling to find the right one is fun!
my2cents
Nod. Could not agree more.
