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HK4167
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 53
United States
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Congratulations! And there are already so many great suggestions here. I will just add a few general advice.
1. Be patient and respect her. If you don't want her to think that you just want to get into her pants, then don't act that way. Just go there enjoy a good time hanging out with her, and don't rush into making moves. When time is right, she will give you a hint.
2. Listen to her. I know you have a lot to tell her, but remember girls like good listeners. She might talk about something you have little interest in, but be patient, listen to her and show her you're interested in her life.
3. Don't stop at things that are not in your comfort zone, be open mind. I once spent a whole day in SFO modern art museum and fine art museum with my gf, though I'm not an art guy and could not tell the difference between Mattise and Van Gogh. But it's her interest and I'm glad to share. It turns out great, I asked her questions while she explained them to me, and I learned a lot from her. We had great conversation that day and felt connected. Later she told me she really appreciate that I'm spending time with her on something I was not interested in.
1. Be patient and respect her. If you don't want her to think that you just want to get into her pants, then don't act that way. Just go there enjoy a good time hanging out with her, and don't rush into making moves. When time is right, she will give you a hint.
2. Listen to her. I know you have a lot to tell her, but remember girls like good listeners. She might talk about something you have little interest in, but be patient, listen to her and show her you're interested in her life.
3. Don't stop at things that are not in your comfort zone, be open mind. I once spent a whole day in SFO modern art museum and fine art museum with my gf, though I'm not an art guy and could not tell the difference between Mattise and Van Gogh. But it's her interest and I'm glad to share. It turns out great, I asked her questions while she explained them to me, and I learned a lot from her. We had great conversation that day and felt connected. Later she told me she really appreciate that I'm spending time with her on something I was not interested in.
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Does TV series count? I could totally see Chelsea Handler's two books 'Chelsea Chelsea bang bang' and 'Hi Voldka it's me Chealsea' turn into TV series. It will be kind of like 'Two and Half men', the main character is an alcohol/drug/sex addict, except she's a sexy blonde.
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I spank my gf from time to time, but not hard and it's more spontaneous. Usually when we're doing it doggie-style, or she's in reverse cow-girl position. When we both are very excited I will spank her lightly first to see her reaction, then more strength if it's OK with her. Only palm, no board.
I'd say for us it's a very spontaneous move and we don't have any pre-set. I remember the first time I spanked her, after the sex I asked her feeling about it when we cuddle together. Only when she said OK then we decide to include it in our sex life. So I'd say communication is important to make sure you both are comfortable with the idea.
I'd say for us it's a very spontaneous move and we don't have any pre-set. I remember the first time I spanked her, after the sex I asked her feeling about it when we cuddle together. Only when she said OK then we decide to include it in our sex life. So I'd say communication is important to make sure you both are comfortable with the idea.
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I wouldn't mind if just dating and hanging out. But frankly I will worry about my performance or size if I got chance to have sex with her. Knowing that she has already tasted some handsome muscular guys with giant manhood in the movie set, I wonder what could me, a ordinary guy, bring to the table.
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In many lush stories, the girl enjoys a huge orgasm in their first time experience of full sex. I’ve been with a virgin before when I was much younger, and my experience was the opposite. I was more experienced than her, and I made sure to be slow and lots of foreplay since I knew it was her first time, and I would not want to hurt her. Although I was being very gentle, the pain of breaking hymen still prevented her from fully enjoying the sex and she did not come at that time. It was only later that month I was able to get her to orgasm, after we did it a few more times. I know the experience is from person to person, and the story usually is much different from reality. But I still wonder if I was more skillful, would I be able to get her a much better first time experience?
So here is the question, how much percentage of women enjoyed the pleasure of orgasm in their first time full-sex experience?
So here is the question, how much percentage of women enjoyed the pleasure of orgasm in their first time full-sex experience?
