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HappyEndings
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male
0 miles · Tallahassee

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Quote by naughtiestmommy
As I get to know some of the amazing people here, I am wondering: how many of you have stepped out from behind the comfort of your avatar and revealed your true identity to others and, if you have, how many? How did it work out? What made you feel comfortable with that?


I get it that women need to be very careful here and in all online communications but I'm not sure I understand why men need that level of secrecy.

I've met and had relations with several women from Lush and if they don't know my true identity it's because they didn't ask or look around at all. I still occasionally see most of them and only one of them is completely out of touch with me.

This world is changing rapidly and it seems that most of the women I meet from Lush and other online places seem merely interested in sex and that's it, whereas women I meet from my local area are all about getting married. Go figure... ;)
Well... I had some fun with a woman from Lush and I thought it was going somewhere but it appears that she was just using me for her sexual gratification. I once travelled 4 hours to have a weekend with her and she has come as far to see me.

Since then she's dumped me and moved on to another conquest I guess. It used to be that men used women for sex didn't it? Now it seems that I get passed around and nobody wants me for any more than sex?

I can't decide whether I should be offended and/or hurt or happy. In the meantime I guess I'm enjoying myself and don't worry about what it actually means. LOL
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It appears that many have NOT read the OP's complete message... LOL

My list is long but here is a sampling.

My attorney. She's a super hot fitness model and very sensual.

A client who has "given herself to Jesus" and can't now for religious reasons because we aren't married but she admits that she's tempted on a daily basis... <sigh>

Another client who loves to tell me about her sexual exploits but doesn't want to "screw up our professional relationship".... sad

A friends daughter who insists on teasing me and has even sexted me but swears it was a meant for someone else... 3 separate times.... LOL

A nurse I know that loves to "play doctor" and who has several times had me strip completely and "inspected" me. It get's me incredibly hot and she loves being in control. I have no idea where this is going but it's more fun than a barrel of monkeys.

And last but certainly not least a woman I used to sometimes meet for fun and sex. Met her on Lush and had a great relationship with her and the sex was WONDERFUL but I started seeing someone else for awhile and now she won't have anything to do with me.... I really screwed the pooch on that one but I try not to punish myself too much. I bet she reads this and still won't see me any more... I'm a failure at monogamous relationships.... (oops... We've already had sex several times so I broke the rules but I wanted to let her know I miss her and her soft and sensual touch).... :(
By the way there is no such thing as a "male masseuse". The word "masseuse" implies the female gender. If you want to use the old French names you should more properly refer to a "masseur" which is the male version of a massage therapist.

In the US the most common reference to a person that performs massage for compensation is massage therapist and that one is gender neutral and it implies that the therapist is licensed and therefore governed by laws that prohibit them from providing happy endings or any other sexual contact or genital manipulation. LOL

Don't ask me how I know all this.... (snicker) ;)
I can FINALLY say I've had anal sex with a woman and she liked it somewhat but her pussy is so incredibly amazing and tight that her ass was somewhat of a disappointment to me.

I'm not saying that I don't like anal sex and maybe it's partially that she wasn't all that turned off or on by it but rather just more like "ok.. Go ahead if you want" but she didn't seem excited.

I'm a huge ass fan and any time I get a chance to check out a woman's ass I won't miss it so you'd think I'd be anally oriented but I'm all about that pussy and so far I'm kind of neutral about anal sex.

Maybe I just need more anal experience.... LOL
I rarely miss a day looking at erotica on Tumblr. Don't have my own blog... Never enough time... <sigh>
I am not in any way ashamed of my body or any of the rest of me but hide my face for professional reasons. I've met several Lushies face to face and have sent pictures to curious ones many more times. Yes my avatar is really me....

I don't understand why someone wouldn't use at least their body in their avatar but then I guess some have more to hide than their actual identity.

I refuse to communicate with those that hide behind a false avatar. I don't have time for imposters. Just my opinion and I don't expect others to agree with me.
I've had up close and personal sex with a total of five women I've met here and it was always a wonderful experience. I think I've had cyber sex with all 5 before meeting but I'm not as clear on that because I don't value cyber nearly as highly or remember it nearly as well as face to face.

The most recent knows who she is and she will always have a special place in my memories and we had some marvelous sex and times together.
1. Why do you like eating pussy? What do you like about it? I like the whole Karma of pleasing the lady and pampering her... It's all about her and not about the man just getting a nut.

2. At what age did you start eating pussy, in relevance to the age at which you lost your virginity? Did performing oral come right away, or later? It was several years before I had my first intercourse after I started oral. The girls were several years older than I and very insistent that I needed to learn in order to be a good lover later. I bought it and I think it really DID make me a better lover later but their motives might have been a little more selfish than teaching me. LOL.

3. When performing oral on a lady, what pubic hair style do you like best? Is it different from your general preferences on the subject? I prefer closely trimmed but shaved/waxed is good too.

4. What can a woman do to make your experience of eating her pussy even better? What can she do to turn you on?
I like a woman to have good hygiene and to be very relaxed about oral sex and sex in general. It's quite hard with self conscious women that don't want anyone seeing their pussy or who are ashamed of oral. My favorite is women that will just take their pants off or pull their skirt/dress up and demand to be pleased... I NEVER turn them down... LOL

5. What can she do to turn you off from eating her pussy?
When they're uptight and nervous about the whole thing it's a turn off unless I'm seducing them and it works fairly quickly...

6. Think of the first time you went down a woman. Did you like it or no? Was your love of cunnilingus immediate, or did that come later?
I've loved it since day one lick one... ;)

7. Have you gone down on a lady in any unusual locations? If so, where? OMG... Too many to list here and some were pretty crazy.... On the hood of a car, in a public restroom, in an elevator, on a picnic table at a park, on a kitchen table in a vacant house to name a few. Pussy licking is where you find it... LOL

8. When a lady moves around a lot while you perform oral on her by actions, including: swirling her hips, legs shaking, pulling your hair, digging her nails into your back, wrapping legs around your head, etc., does this bother you or do you find this distracting at all? Not distracting or bothersome. It just get's me excited...

9. Honestly: do you like the smell/taste of pussy?
I absolutely CRAVE it... If man wasn't meant to eat pussy it wouldn't taste so damned good....

10. Optional: Describe the sexiest or most erotic time you have ever had while going down on a woman. Too many to list and the most erotic time was an off limits time that I can't tell about. Sorry.... Didn't mean to cop out but trust me it still get's me hard just thinking about it and it was years ago.
Cripple Creek Colorado the way it was before gambling took over.
Sex on a rainy afternoon with nothing to do but explore each other's body.
The taste of a woman's pussy when she is so excited that she's dripping wet.
Blackberry cobbler.
Beefsteak tomatoes fresh from the garden and sweet as candy.
Sex in the back seat of my 67 2+2 Mustang (not kidding)
Red Snapper fresh caught and straight to the table
Pass-A-Grille beach skinny dipping at midnight
Young Love
That first kiss
The first time a girl let me pull her panties down
The last time a woman let me pull her panties down
The first time a girl went down on me
The last time a woman went down on me

NOW!!!! Having said all that I can tell anyone that is still reading this that although I miss all these things, that with certainty today will be the best day of my life and tomorrow will be even better and the day after will be the best yet...
I guess that edging isn't what most of the women that have responded so far are looking for an/or enjoy. Although I would consider anything over an hour a marathon, I have, in fact, performed oral sex on a woman for about 4 hours but she had never had an orgasm before and I gave her my word that I wouldn't stop until she DID have one. WHEW!!! When she finally did I thought I was going to have to call her an ambulance for awhile there... LOL

Yes I agree that most women don't have the patience for hours of edging and prefer to cum several times in that first half hour or so and that's great but edging can build that first few orgasms to epic proportions. It's not for "amateurs" but if a woman is looking for something beyond that Plane Jane orgasm and wants to get into epic, mind blowing, screaming, squirting, sobbing, trembling, thrashing about and sweating profusely type orgasms then it might well take several hours of edging first and a man with an iron jaw and a VERY strong desire to thoroughly please a woman... LOL

The technique must vary widely during these marathon sessions to avoid certain parts such as the clitoris becoming raw and sore and positions will need to be changed to avoid cramping and other forms of pain for both concerned parties but it's worth it in my opinion and the woman will be eternally grateful if it works well....
Quote by Organplayer1
Having a woman that has such a level of sexual hunger is in my mind like finding a unicorn. Keep her? I wouldn't let her get away!!! I don't believe they really exist.


Although I am kind of focusing on one woman right now I can assure you that I've known a few women in my life that had an insatiable sex drive and yes I have been used as a boy toy to satisfy them. Was I embarrassed or damaged by it in any way? NOT!!!! LOL

I admit that it seems to be a fairly rare thing but there ARE women with high sex drives that engage in sex acts with varied partners on a fairly regular basis. I think there are also a LOT of women that have become convinced to hide their sexuality away due to cultural pressures and here on Lush you can find literally hundreds of them... LOL

It's a shame that so many women are intimidated by the fear of being called or thought of as a slut. Until a woman becomes a slut she will never truly understand the enormous joy that comes with frequent sex with multiple partners when you totally surrender to it and it's joys and pleasures.

Remember the old saying "Is it true blondes have more fun?". Well... MY favorite is "Is it true sluts have more fun?"... And of course the answer is a resounding YES!!!

Take musicians for example as a parallel. We all know that it's true that only a bare handful ever make a decent living as musicians and it's only a bare handful of women that actually achieve the true slut status and they're having 90% of all the sexual fun and pleasure that's going around while the rest of the women hide out with their vibrators and stare at their computer or smart phone screens hoping for an orgasm.

There is, of course, the fear of STD's (easily fixed by condoms) and also the legitimate fear of getting hooked up with a predator that won't just be satisfied with some casual sex and the woman ends up on a morgue table like on CSI... YECH!!!

Girls... I'm not saying to drop all your inhibitions and start fucking every Tom, Dick, and Harry that comes your way but keeping that pussy hidden away while you wait for your knight in shining armor to come along isn't working out very well is it? LOL

Dang!!! There I go rambling again... If you're still reading this then you must have absolutely NO life and you should get away from the computer and meet someone new and do something exciting with them like perhaps... drum roll... SEX! ;)
I live in a college town and the pretty young coeds run around in yoga pants with no panties and seem proud of their camel toes. I can tell you that it keeps my body temperature at around 104 most of the time... LOL

It's actually so rare to see a panti line these days that I remember it for a day or so. Some of the women might be wearing a thong but even thongs leave a telltale "thong line" if you look close enough... Not that I'm looking that close... LOL

I don't think that nearly as many women go pantiless when wearing skirts or dresses but it keeps the men in heat trying to catch a peek so they can find out... ;)

Viva la Commando!!!

By the way.... How about THESE camel toes? ;)