Thank you all for your replies. I guess that I should have given some more information. That would be this.... If your lovers has brought you to orgasm would you be upset if he didn't cum at some point during your love making session? I recently met a lady that really rocked my world. I don't like to cum first and so I was using all the tricks that I knew about to not cum from the best blow job that I have EVER received. I stopped her, rolled her over and made her cum twice. At this point I was done. I just didn't have any more gas in the tank. She really wanted me to cum, but it just wasn't happening at that point. I think I got in my own head a little. I guess I have to remember that I am a whole lot closer to 50 then I am to 18. LOL Thanks again for everyone's input.
Holden
If you are having sex with a guy and he makes you cum but he doesn't. Does that bother you? Just curious
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Holden
I am an SOB Selfish Obnoxious Bastard
Tired need to sleep just don't feel like it.
I have yet to eat my own cum out of a Woman that I have just cum in.
Try to imagine that feeling when you know that you are going to sneeze. Now change that to the feeling of pleasure that you get before your orgasm. Now imagine the male orgasm as the BEST SNEEZE EVER!
Ladies, I am part of a group that gets together every Friday for some trivia and games. There is a lady that joins us and I would like to ask her out. Here is the catch. I know she is single. However, last week she brought a date to game night. Would I be out of line asking her out? I don't know much about him and there relationship. Thank you in advance for your input.
At this point I am subscribing to the school of thought, go forth and be bold.
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Holden
Thank you all for your replies. I will let the dust settle and see what happens. Waiting to close on a new old house. It need a lot of updating and I am guessing she will be my mistress in the short term.
Thanks again Ladies
Holden
Here is my take on this question.....
It doesn't matter to me if they are real or fake. What matters to me is that I get to play with them.
I am a very simple man to please.
Holden
Some back ground. I am currently going through a divorce. Been married a long time and raised our kids. So I am thinking about how I get back out there. Most of the friends that we have are married. Not really wanting to have them fix me up.... So how and where do I go to "get back out there"? Any help would be appreciated.
Holden
Well lets see I am 48 and I started when I was 9 so that would be 39years
Cordless 4.5" Grinder in the shower. I mean you don't want to make a mess. We aren't animals!
where ever my cock and hand meet!
When I was younger and more flexible I have been able to suck my own cock. I have never sucked another mans cock but I think that would be more pleasurable. I think cock sucking should be shared between two people.
A great writer that I enjoy reading anything she writes
So do you spit or swallow????
Ok well with all that information I would ask him what it is that he gets from porn? Communication is going to be the key to solving this problem. You can try to ask him what he needs or wants that he isn't getting from you. But I don't think that will work, I say this as I am a guy and I don't think it would work on me. However, I would suggest that the next time you want sex, just take it. Don't ask him for it just take it. Even if he is watching porn. Don't get made just grab his cock and take what you need. Good luck.
Holden
Your question is flawed. You are assuming that he can have sex. I have been in a relationship were sex was very limited. I mean like the planets had to be in perfect alignment..
So I would revise your questions..... What causes a man to feel as though he has no chance for sex and instead uses porn as his sexual outlet.
My opinion is worth what I charge for it.
Have a great night everyone.
Holden
At least daily. But there are times when I need more
Well I am married so doesn't that go without saying?
life is too short for what if's. I say go for it. As long as you don't stalk him if he were to say no, then I don't be wthink hr would be called. Flirt with him inadvertently rub up against him and if that doesn't work be bold and tell him that you are interested.
