I do not cam or do phone anymore due to some issues I had in the past with a stalker.
As to chatting and yes cybering, I have done both in the past with those in relationships or married. And yes we have discussed their marriages or relationships as part of our chat at times. I actually chat much more than I ever cyber. I enjoying chatting about a person's life or sharing stories and stuff much more than I enjoy cyber.
I think cheating is in the eye of the person. And it seems every person has a different idea of cheating than the next person. My ex-wife thought everything was cheating. If I looked at a girl or a guy I was cheating. If I looked at porn I was cheating. One night she wasn't in the mood. I was. After she went to bed, I was watching a movie and got turned on. I took matters in my own hand. She walked in and went ballistic. Yes she even thought that was cheating. So yes I am sure that she would have considered cybering or even discussing sex with someone besides her would have been cheating.
In a public parking lot inside a car.
In a campground in a tent with others walking around outside.
In a swimming pool under the water
In a steam room, but no one else was there but us.
And the last was on a plane in the night with blankets over us.
Guilty
Ever had sex in a hot tub?
Go for a ride in his boat
Guilty (but on the clarinet not the guitar)
Ever watched someone masturbate or have sex and they didn't know you were looking?
with some it is not that they don't want to say something or respond, but they are scared to. Some have also ventured out and encountered someone who made them go back to lurking.
In the 10 or so years that I have been involved in Internet communities and message boards, I have found one thing -- even people who are cordial and kind in real life can suddenly become the most vicious person on a message board. It is like the anonymity of it brings out the worst in people. Many forget there is a person on the other side of the line and the other side of the computer.
As slippery said maybe that person has no more to add. Or they are scared to ask a question because they are afraid someone will point out it is has already been asked before. It could be a variety of reasons.
Has lots of sexy pictures on his page.
Guilty....but the last time was college
Ever had phone sex?
Stare into her beautiful green eyes.
Try to flip quarters in that awesome cleavage...just so I can have a legitimate reason to be staring at it in her presence.
Guilty....every chance I get
Ever masturbated in a Wal Mart bathroom?
Seems like a nice guy.....has damn good taste in movie esp. the Star Trek ones.
I meant to also say on the first part.....
To me I understand the point that Sprite made about sometime feeling you have to get in someone's face with it to try and make a point.
But to me I just still feel like the better approach ...for me anyway .... is to go about my business focusing on the good parts of my life....putting my good points on display.....showing them who I am and that is what matters. I have don't feel the need to have to wear my rainbow flag and bisexuality always flying high above my head.
How in the world will we ever get the world to realize it doesn't really matter who we are fucking? Look at me for who I am .... forget about who I am fucking in the bedroom? How are they going to forget who we are fucking when we are constantly putting in their face.
In the end after presenting myself for who I am if a person still can't forget who I am fucking or who is fucking me and deal with it....then that is their problem not mine.
I have many friends that I don't know what is going on in their bedrooms. I don't care to know to either. I like them for the person they are and for so many other things. I know that their bedroom activities wouldn't make a difference (unless it was illegal) on whether I liked them or not, but I just don't feel it is something I have to know or have the right to know. Now if they brazenly put it out there and came off bitchy about it, now that would make a difference. It wouldn't matter to me who they were fucking but I just don't like that kind of person and don't want to be around them.
Against just my opinion.
I agree with the statement of accept me for who I am, not despite of who I am.....but each of us has to work on it too.
I have no problem with a person's sexuality and do accept them for who I am. But when a person comes off so angry all the time and presents themselves as a true bitch or a true bastard all the time, then no matter who they are or whatever the point they are trying to get across they are not going to be heard.
I agree with so many of Rosie O'Donnell's politics, esp. on gay marriage, etc., but she presents herself in such a way that no one hears her anymore. She is so angry and so confrontational all the time. And the woman has so much to say and so much to offer but overall it just doesn't matter anymore. She has IMO lost so much of her influence by being so bitter and angry.
As far as what other people think about me, I learned a long time ago that no one was going to accept everything I did in my life. That is their problem and not mine. If they can't and won't accept who I am then I move on.
Back to the subject of OUTING....I think the biggest way it can turn to a negative experience is the person outed continues to deny it. I think it is a person's right to choose when he or she is outed, but if it happens and the person continues to deny it, then he or she only creates more problems for themselves down the road when they do choose to come out on their own. First off they build that illusion in others that they are ashamed of who they are. That is the first impression folks get and that is a hard one to live down. It's like if you are caught in a lie, the best thing to do is just own it and deal with it. At least I have found that is what works best for me.
As to the idea of mainstream society coming around to accept people, I still find that a little naive. And I guess because I still live in small town America. Plus even when perusing the suggest members or whatever they are called at the top of the home page here, I still come across those statements on some guys profiles that say in their bios I am only into girls, guys don't even both to ask to be friends or contact me. Or the occasional comments in the forums where anal may be mentioned esp. in one where a girl posted she wanted to see her boyfriend get done by another guy. Some of the guys acted as if she was asking to have her bf murdered. But I have seen those same guys seem to cheer on guys saying they want to watch their wife or gf have sex with another girl.
I think we are still many years away from mainstream America fully accepting a person who is outed being gay or bisexual...especially for a man in that situation where straight men are concerned anyway. Just my opinion.
I called my ex-wife's tits Bonnie and Clyde. I don't even really remember how it came about for sure. It happened one night while we were watching the movie, and it just stuck.
I never have really had a sustained name for my penis until in the last 2 years. The last live-in girlfriend I had called it Walter and it has just kind of stuck. One night we were lying in bed and he was soft and kind of wrinkly. She siad it reminded her of Jeff Dunham's puppet Walter. so he got the nickname.
I think there is a big difference in nasty comments and constructive comments. And most people know the difference. Yes there is the odd duck out there who is always overly sensitive. You learn the hard way to leave them alone.
I am still new to writing here. I am pretty new to writing erotic stories too where they are scrutinized in any way before publication. The few sites I have submitted to in the past accepted anything you sent in and published it....mistakes and all.
So I am still new to experiencing the full Lush treatment here. Most of my first stories have been in what I consider a niche category so they built views slowly but commenting and scoring were kind of equal.
My latest story has been in a different category and has built up views much quicker. But scoring has been slow compared to the amount of views and there have been no comments at all. It is a new experience for me. I have no idea what readers think of the story at all.
Comments are definitely a mixed bag.
I try to comment and score every story I read. The only ones I do not are the ones I can't make it through at all. So far those have been few since I generally stick to categories that I know are really going to interest me. The writing has to be really bad in those categories for me not to at least get something out of it.
Has great interests in music, books, etc.
Spinning the wheel.......
Guilty (last month in a bar. It wasn't that she was an attractive woman, she was just a true bitch to everyone around her. Rudest woman I have ever met. But great in bed.)
Ever stole a partner's panties or underwear and kept them as a souvenier or used them later to masturbate with?
Buy her a drink and brush the hair out of her face.
Well since I'm not his type I'll have to pass on the sexy stud.
We'll start with a good suck and then...........
let's start with a nice date and see where that goes
